Happy friday all ❤️
I hope you have had a good week well first moan of the week what’s happening with summer who messed with the seasons the fact that I’ve got soaked down to my knickers around 4 times this week already due to monsoon rainfall is an absolute liberty.
Second moan I now have gluten allergy 🙄 so my diet has had to completely change otherwise it will seriously effect my health cheers when they made me they certainly wasn’t being kind.
Not a massive deal but having to adapt change again when there isn’t enough room in your head to think about new life changes,and you haven’t even come to terms with old ones yet is pretty much pants.
But I’m strong 😉
So anyway I was having this conversation with a friend of mine this week and topic was where do you draw the line and move on from people.
Thing is I’ve been through this situation but in different scenarios a few times in my life.
And I know I sometimes I talk like I’m older than noah and the ark but if I’m honest I’m just a normal human being that’s been through some tough times like most people but I’m more open to share my experiences not so that people feel sorry for me but for people to know if they are going through similar situations that they are not alone.
So back to the conversation I was asked what would I do if I couldn’t walk away but needed to.
Heart over head is an ideal choice for Me as I’m impulsive.
But for most people it can be scary I personally would love to live in a world where everything goes smooth and there is never any issues that I have to deal with but unfortunately that’s not how life is.
Effort has to come from both sides within a relationship or a friendship if you start questioning your worth then it’s time to do so some serious thinking about how you deal with the next faze of your connection.
It can be hard to walk away but it’s even harder being stuck in a situation that you see no way out of or if there is anyway of making that person feel the same.
Truth is you can’t make them feel that way they have to feel it for themselves.
You can give everything to one person your love your respect your care and most importantly your time and its time you never get back so you need to tread carefully.
You can give everything you have to someone and it still not be good enough.
But what you need to realise you are good enough if they can’t see that then it’s there problem not yours.
Eventually you heal and you move on and learn from the situation just takes time.
Time is the key sure you will have good and bad days.
Maybe it will hurt when you see they have moved on but remember if they wanted you in there life you would be apart of it no questions asked.
But always remember you are always good enough and if your stuck in limbo in a connection like this you have two options wait to see if they come round to your way of feeling and thinking.
Or move on with life and focus on moving forward not moving back.
Hope you have a fabulous weekend everyone…