The day everything made sense…

Hey everyone ❤️

I’m just going to go right in here and say I’ve had a light bulb moment but this time it made perfect sense.

Someone called me something today and at first I didn’t really understand what they meant by it.

But when Iooked further into the meaning it seemed to weigh me up perfectly.

The word was that I’m an introvert

I’m going to be honest I was a little bit taken back.

I’m not big on fancy words my education was OK not fantastic.

I kind of went through the messing around stage last few years of highschool fell in with wrong crowd and boyfriends taking up valuable time.

So me and fancy words don’t mix..

Thank god for Google.

So what’s is an introvert??

An introvert prefers to spend time alone in order to recharge their inner being.

An introvert may appear to be shy to others, but that is not necessarily an accurate label.

Being among groups of friends, family and even strangers can be wonderfully stimulating and joyous occasions. Interacting with people and attention to multiple sources of stimuli tends to draw down an introvert energy causing them to eventually withdraw to spend time alone to re-energize.

Small talk and pointless conversations tend to draw down an introvert’s energy rapidly.

An introvert prefers to work alone making them more efficient and happier in their job role.

Biggest pet peev is someone moaning about a situation but not doing anything to change situation.

I didn’t actually get what was wrong with me until someone else pointed out they have noticed my traits.

The thing is I choose to share my time with people I actually love and respect.

When disrespected I withdraw to protect my own wellbeing.

Walls go up and nobody gets in.

I completely shut down.

I wouldn’t say I’m overly shy I say my piece but I think alot before I say the things I need to say.

This is pretty much why I’m on edge with people and that ends up looking like I’m cold and distant with people.

Sometimes you don’t need alot of people in your life to live a happy one.

So also If you ever try and ring me I will watch it ring out and let it hit voicemail then txted what you want.

Stacie hates talking on the phone again another sigh of an introvert.

Anyway it’s Friday tommrow payday….

And another weekend to relax before my trip back home for My friends birthday 🎂.

Have a good one all.

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️

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Hi I'm Stacie I'm 32 busy mum from Liverpool 🇬🇧 Started blogging April 2019 I hope you like my blog posts

2 thoughts on “The day everything made sense…

  1. It’s strange how this sounds just like me. I wouldn’t call myself an introvert or an extrovert. I think it depends on the situation and who I’m with. With close friends I’m a clown, but with other people I can be quiet and guarded. I like building walls around me too, and can sometimes come off as a bit cold becuase I’m looking after myself first. Enjoy your friends birthday ☺️

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    1. When someone said it to me I was like yes that discribes me very well.
      And you right around the right people you can completely be yourself. I think when you bulid wall around yourself you do it because your afraid to get too close or show your true self untill your sure with what company you hold.
      I’m 💯 looking after my own needs for once been a long time since I have thank you for taking the time out to read my post x

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