It’s just a…..
Evening all ❤️
I trust you are all OK again sending virtual hugs to all my national and international reader’s.
Tonight its going to be a slightly deeper blog post.
I would like to talk about emotional and mental support in life in general.
Again I know its about emotion but this really runs deep.
In a time where we have nothing but time to think about everything we wouldn’t normally think about.
Ive herd more and more people are actually being more open and talking to people about emotions and experiences.
That they wouldn’t normally talk about.
Insecurities run deep and can lead you on to a very dark path of self destruction.
I have walked this path alot of times.
And self doubt asking ourselves all sorts of questions.
I personally hate confusion not knowing where you stand with someone.
Humans need some sort of consistency in life.
If someone or a situation doesn’t have a slight bit of consistency things tend to derail and alot of people feel a little lost too.
Insecurity can actually really mess up situations and experiences that can be amazing for you but self doubt and the little dark cloud of negativity will float above your head.
When you actually experience emotional unbalance like this you tend to push away people who you love and who loves you and actually the one’s who care for you.
This is called flight or fight mode and defense goes up and you shut down emotionally.
Due to past hurt and experiences.
It can be scary moving on from a situation where that’s all you’ve ever known or choosing to love again after a very heartbreaking situation.
But one thing you must not take with you during your moving on stage is….
The feeling of dread and a thought pattern that situations from your past and that they may repeat themselves again.
You have learnt you have grown from your past situation and connections its your learning experience that moulds you into being a better person and make you..
Don’t push people away who love you and care for you.
It’s very rare to find someone who genuinely cares about you and expects nothing in return.
Those are the ones you need to keep close to your heart.
Life’s all about taking risks if it doesn’t work out well that’s fine dust yourself off and start again.
There’s no such thing as an easy life unfortunately everything we have dealt with or will deal with is sent our way to test us.
Fear wants us to put bigger locks on our hearts and the doors to our future pathways
Where as love wants us to be all as one and give people a fair chance.
That seed you have planted in your mind the one that’s blackened your soul need removing and you need to understand you are loved and are worthy of a chance to be yourself you deserve excitement and to love again and that’s the ride of life.
Love to you all 😊
Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️