Afternoon all ❤️
I really hope you are all ok .
Bit of a weird blog today about being mindful of others and of yourself.
Its not been a bad weekend but ive awoken today to feel somewhat very withdrawn in myself.
Ive got things on my mind.
Peoples coping mechanisms are different to others, i would rather withdraw than keep going over the same conversation about my emotional unbalances.
I don’t think i could find the correct words to explain, im no good at all that.
I’ve been called somethings in my time needy, obsessed, to much, attention seeker..
Thing is im none of them and i don’t see why i should get tarnished by these words when none of them are true.
Human beings can be incredibly cruel to each other.
Your forced onto a planet with people and forced to understand why they say the things they say and do the things they do.
And your meant to be ok with their behaviour however crappy it is.
Being kind doesn’t cost nothing it really doesn’t.
But what does cost something is either you loosing a relationship, freindship or family members.
With being kind i don’t mean you need to become soft and let people walk over you its about being mindful to others with words that come from your mouth.
The ones your in control of.
One word can change somones whole day.
In either a negative or a positive way, your actions are from within.
Im asking in such times we find ourselves in and thereafter to be Mindful of people’s emotions and thoughts.
Im fine with how ive grown i don’t need to prove to anyone who i am.
To anyone but myself….
If im withdraw and i dont get in touch its because im going through something or im just trying to get through this thing we call life.
Dont give space to people in your mind your heart or your life that aren’t mindful of your emotions.
It’s just not worth the heartbreak or time trying to explain to someone who’s only intentions was to get one over on you.
You dont need that sort of person in your life.
Keep safe, keep mindful, you are loved.
Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️ ❤️