Afternoon all from the beautiful sunny Merseyside UK.
Im just recharging myself in the sun before another week of chaos and internal screaming inside.
Why do weekends go so fast even when we are still in lockdown they seem to fly by.
After long conversations yesterday and thinking deep into the night.
Ive decided to do a blog post about…
Surrendering and learning that you don’t always get what you want in life.
Sometimes we need to put more effort into it or just know when to admit defeat and move on.
When we are hit with heartbreaking situations in life.
And we see no way forward and your exhausted from fighting a battle that never seems to never end.
For your own sanity you want to admit defeat and just sit in a dark corner and cry.
But we as humans are put through lessons in life that we are meant to learn from.
We all love a good love story and wish for a fairytale in life but we can somehow put to much effort into a connection that we end up loosing ourselves in the process.
We stumble upon partnerships we feel an istant connection to and give everything we have to offer for it to end up being either taken for granted or not reciprocated.
It fills us with doubt and insecurity.
You must remember that its not always you who is at fault, you may have not done anything but love a person and try and make them happy.
But sometimes its not enough you can be so wrapped up in the situation you mistake their hurt for love and affection.
A partnership works both ways and both of you need to be on same wavelength for progression to happen.
Experiencing a difficult love connection is also frustrating and exhausting.
But you need to ask yourself is it worth holding on or letting go.
Yes you maybe hurt you maybe you feel defeated.
Don’t forget how its made you feel.
Sometimes for once in a while its nice to be fought for never give up on love just because of a bad chapter in life.
And if a connection feels right then fight for it.
Leave the ball in their court and rebulid yourself and your heart.
If its meant to be it will work out but do not put life on hold.
People come into our lives to either love us unconditionally or to teach us a lesson.
Sometimes we find love in the strangest of situations but we dont see it until its to late.
Remember nothing is ever final but in the meantime breathe and if all you did today was try and survive then im proud of you.
Love to you all.
Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️ ❤️