Evening all ❤️
I really hope you are all OK.
Firstly I’ve been wanting to blog about this subject for a while now.
It’s all about how the more you give to people the more they take from you.
It doesn’t always mean materialistic items.
But it’s more your time, energy and emotion.
You see im a kind person i love to help others empower others.
But there are some people out there who are like emotional vampires.
They will suck the happiness right out of you.
I want to share a few steps this evening on how to spot an emotional vampire and how to deal with them.
Here we go…
1. The I’m never happy for you person.
These types of people have most annoying personality traits.
They are very rarely happy or show any enthusiasm towards anything positive about a situation or have personal goals
They are simply stuck in a state of negative thought patterns.
Never talk to these types of people about your future goals because their negativity then becomes your insecurity.
2. The Debbie downer.
I apologise to anyone called debbie im sure your not all this way..
This is a nick name i call people that are always in a state of despair.
The slightest incident sends them tumbling over the edge.
You can ask them how was your day and you get everything good the bad and the ugly before you know it your feeling rubbish and low yourself.
I avoid people like this because you will never win over this type of person only thing you will do is drain your own energy as they don’t take advice.
3. Its all me, me, me and me somemore.
Have you ever been in a situation or conversation where it’s all one sided.
So frustrating you cannot seem to get a word in edgeways.
When they finally let you speak but the conversation then reverts back to them it a massive no no to me..
A connection means equal parts give and take and respecting the other people’s experiences.
Without judgement or reverting back to oneself.
4. Moan, moan moan.
As they say if you don’t have nothing nice to say don’t say nothing at all.
We all like a good moan but for god sake that’s all some people do.
I’ve literally not got the time or the patience for people who just moan but never do anything to change the situation.
If you don’t like where you are then move your not a tree.
5.The mr loverman.
This one’s for us ladies that fella who thinks he’s fell off thors golden cloud and hit every unemotional, noncommittal tree on the way down.
The one’s that play with our hearts themselves and other women in the process are very emotionally draining creatures never under any circumstances try and get this type of man to try and commit because he won’t.
Trust me i know that’s ten years of my life i will never get back.
Im not saying people don’t have issues in life i understand fully that people go through very tough times but balance is needed in life between light and dark.
But you need to learn in life how to recharge your soul and to try and avoid situations that can be mentally and physically draining for your own soul.
Sometimes best possible outcome is to remove yourself from the situation and refrain from future contact.
It’s easier said than done but it can be done.
Don’t give someone your power or let them take over your soul.
The less you react to their emotions and negativity the less power they get from your reaction.
Love to you all 😊
Stacie 🐚 💋 💄