I hope you’re all well.
I thought I would share my last thoughts of the day with you all.It’s a topic that I feel I need to address.
It’s self reflection!!!But what is self reflection?
The activity of thinking about your own feelings and behaviour, and the reasons that may lie behind them.
It’s extremely hard to be excepted as a human being for being completely at peace with who you are and confident in your own skin.
To many people think being happy with just being you can give across the wrong impression.
Many see it as egotistical , big headed behaviour and annoying to be around someone who’s so sure about who they are.
This is where I get a little bit ranty.I apologise in advance…
But I don’t feel its anybodies business what anyone else chooses to do with their life, their body or their time.
People are so quick to be judgemental over others and what they choose to do in life.
Not everything needs peoples opinions if you don’t like what you see simply scroll past ignore get on with you’re day.
It doesn’t effect you but how you approach that person in question might have a dramatic impact on their self esteem.
Sometimes you don’t need to say anything at all in fact it can show you’re own insecurities that you’re then trying to project on to someone else.
That’s not fair.
One thing that really annoys me.
People can spend a lifetime hating who they see staring back at them in the mirror.
One second they start loving themselves it’s egostical, big-headed, full of themselves.
They don’t see how hard a person has worked on themselves to even show themselves an ounce of Selflove.
Don’t dim someone else’s light to make yours appear brighter.
Your one negative comment can undo all someones hard work.
Instead of bringing people down empower them.
I don’t look fantastic all the time take away the hair extensions the make up & eyelashes.
I look like a badgers arse but guess what I love myself enough not to care.
My pictures are promotional and I don’t care who says they don’t use photo filters they are absolutely liars.
Everyone does no one is perfect.But one thing that remains true to me is that after so many years of hating myself I’ve finally found out who I am.
And I’m comfortable with saying I love who I’ve become and the old me is never coming back however hard anyone tries to break me.
And if people can’t understand that then tough.
Just please if you don’t like what you see in people’s life’s judgement isn’t always needed when you don’t know people’s background.
Please understand that that’s their journey it’s not meant for you.Just scroll past a don’t be judgemental.
Love to you all ❤️