Not perfect always me!!

Good evening everyone.

I don’t know about my other lovely blog friends but I’ve been finding it very hard to blog as of late it’s partly because of the situation we are all in and the fact that it’s been a very boring few months.

It’s certainly been an emotional experience.

I have seen such a massive change in myself.

I’ve always been so focused on looking and being perfect I’ve been forgetting to live in the moment.

I think this might be to past relationships and the pressure to always look and be perfect.

I’ve masked who I really was.

Dont get me wrong I can be hardwork sometimes but I have a heart of gold and I love and care unconditionally.

I need to say one thing to all my readers.

Always being worried of what people think of you is the worst emotional blockage you will ever have to try and  remove.

We put so much pressure on ourselves to look and be perfect its exhausting.

Social media plays a massive part on the way we see ourselves.


Put on that fake smile girl and get them hearts.

It’s taken me a long time to love this skin that intwines my bones.

My belly still jiggles a little and my bum still wiggles.

And I can go from dignified to jenny from the block within seconds.

But my quirky ways and my pure heart and my ability to bring a smile to another humans face is what matters most.


In all of us is a little bit of silly and a yearning of sweatpants hair up and chilling with no make up on.

You just need someone who appreciates your soul and not someone who picks you beacause you look good on thier arm.

Looks grow old but the soul stays the same

Be comfortable with who you are.

I’m 75% stronger than I used to be, I know my worth and my confidence grows.

I realised that I needed to….



Love to you all

Stacie xx

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4 thoughts on “Not perfect always me!!

  1. Chiddicks Family Tree 5th Dec 2020 / 7:38 pm

    You always are so open and honest with yourself and your readers Stacie, you are beautiful on the inside and on the outside and thank you for sharing this. I had a wobble myself a few weeks ago, it kind of just crept up on me, I definitely think it was the different way that we are living our lives that was the reason. Look after yourself first and take care x

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    • seashellslipgloss87 5th Dec 2020 / 7:43 pm

      Thank you for reading my blog πŸ’ž I’ve always been honest with my readers i find it’s best way to be, I’m sorry you had a bit of a wobble I hope your feeling better, sending hugs to you ❀️ x

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      • Chiddicks Family Tree 5th Dec 2020 / 7:46 pm

        Thank you Stacie ❀️ Yes I’m much better now, reaching out helps, even if it’s just to know that you’re not the only one struggling at the moment x

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