What The Universe Wants You To Know ! Weekly Spiritual Guidance Blog 29/11/2020 to 6/12/2020

Good Afternoon to you all.

I trust you are all well as can be.

I feel there are a lot of you feeling quite lost at the moment I also feel very tired and surrounded by heavy energy

Today I’m going to get straight to business and concentrate on what the universe needs to share with you all.

I would like to state that all my weekly guidance blogs are for entertainment purpose only.

All signs and elements are included take what resonates and leave the rest.

Weekly vision message

Its late evening , im sitting on a porch in an old rocking chair.

I can hear the crickets chirping , The night time Wildlife ready to come to life in the darkness.

The sun is setting , the sky is filled with an eerily orange glow.

The silence is deafening.

But my mind feels clear and my heart feels pure, with each rock of the chair I can feel emotions arising, I feel like I’m trying to get somewhere but I’m getting no where fast.

I feel fear and frustration , I’m filled with fear and regret of not following my own heart and listing to other people.

As the darkness fills the sky my mind comes to life.

Within the few minutes where my mind was clear and my heart felt pure , I found true peace within.

That’s when the universe reminds me that between the chaos, there is calm and a chance of reflection, and a chance of true happiness.

You need to remind yourself that its ok to take a break and a step back.

Tarot Card Connection

1st Card

The Moon

With the Moon it’s likely that emotions are complicated at this time.

The environment can be one full of misunderstandings, and not everything is as it appears. You may need to do some work to get to the bottom of things; be sure to not only ensure the intentions of others, but also understand your own emotions, desires and motivations.

There may be old attitudes, beliefs or ideas that are clouding your judgement. Many things can be hiding in your unconscious affecting your ability to accept love. Are past relationships haunting you? Have you lost faith in love? Do you believe you are unworthy of love? All of these can have profound affects on how we approach relationships. Now is the time to examine them and reveal them as they truly are.

2nd Card

Justice In Reverse

Justice is about karma, and if you’ve been putting forth the effort, love and romance will be coming your way. If you’ve been kind, loving and supportive, your relationships will be a mirror of what you’ve been giving to others.

If you’ve been single, your loving and positive disposition will make you especially attractive to new potential romances.

Because this card is all about the law of cause and effect, make sure you have been treating your partner fairly. Watch out for resentment and defensiveness, and ensure that conflicts in your relationships are handled with respect and trust in your other half.

Compromise and understanding is needed now. Sometimes this card is also about being tactful, and expressing your frustrations in a way that are mindful of your partner’s feelings. As long as issues hare handled with honesty and good faith, your relationship will thrive.

3rd Card

Five of Wands Reversed

The Five of Wands reversed meaning can be that your natural method of dealing with disagreements is avoiding any kind of conflict by getting away from that place as fast as you can.

Sometimes this can be regarded as a good thing, but other times, it may lead to a number of issues that are brewing up within you, for which you will have to address soon.

On the other hand, it can also mean that you have worked through your troubles and that you do not have any more issues to worry about.

Issues of how you deal with conflict can affect your relationships now.

If you’re in a relationship, ensure that you haven’t been bottling up your resentments to avoid conflicts that the two of you need to have a smooth partnership.

Eventually avoiding difficult conversations lead to an erosion of trust. Remember that every person has the right to their needs, and having needs does not make you any less lovable.

If you’ve been doing the hard work of expressing yourself honestly with your partner however, you may find that misunderstandings are clearing up. What were once arguments may disappear once honesty and clarity have been achieved.

4th Card

The Devil

Getting the devil card in your reading shows that you have feelings of entrapment, emptiness and lack of fulfilment in your life.

It might also mean that you are a slave to materialism and opulence and no matter how hard you try, you just can’t seem to shake off the feeling of wanting to indulge in luxurious living. 

You might be aware that this kind of lifestyle is leading you down the rabbit hole, but you have that feeling of not having any form of control over your actions or urges.


Addiction to substances or material pleasures can also be the reason for your feelings of powerlessness and entrapment. 

In situations such as these, you may feel as though you are a slave, unable to control your impulses or willpower to direct yourself towards something other than the satisfaction of these desires. 

Lust and temptation are symbolized by the Devil.

There can be a sense of hedonism, and a selfish desire for gratification with this card. In less serious circumstances, it can also just simply mean a pursuit for all of life’s earthly pleasures.

There is nothing wrong in having a bit of fun, but make sure that you are not hurting others or giving them wrong impressions when you do.

If you’re only looking for hook-ups, it is up to you to communicate that with your dates. Make sure you avoid pressuring others if they decide your lifestyle isn’t something that suits them. Communication will be more important than ever now.

Alternatively, the Devil can also signal addiction, and in the context of love and relationships, co-dependency.

Over time, this can be destructive to the individuality and self of both partners. Be wary, and ensure that the two of you remain strong individuals within your relationship.

5th Card

Page Of Pentacles

When we meet the Page of Pentacles, we see immediately that she is one that is ambitious and focused. She is protected, nourished, provided for by the suit whose name she bears.

Guided by it, she is deeply tied to the earth, nature, and all of its gifts.

She cherishes the body, for it too is something which is a manifestation of her element. Her diligence, ambition and loyalty drives her to quickly make plans for the future – for it is there where her focus lies.


When you meet her, she may be the bearer of news connected to all earthly and material matters. When you hear her message, be inspired as she is – lay down the foundations to follow your ambitions.

Generally, the Page of pentacles refers to the kind of energy that you need to complete all that is needed for your work.

It may point to the determination, focus and the ability to stick with a particular task no matter how boring it may seem.

In terms of work, the Page of Pentacles may signify that there are a lot of tasks you are responsible for, but your time to complete them is much too limited. This is not the time to feel stressed and overwhelmed. Assistance will be there for you, you just have to ask for it. 

In relation to finances, the Page of Pentacles can refer to the reward for your hard work. For those who are investing their hard–earned money, this is not the perfect time for you to take the risk. Invest your money in a safe and traditional way – the diligence will pay you back. If you are currently experiencing a health issue, this problem may be the result of the continuous neglect. Let a professional make sure that this is not the case.

The person symbolized by the Page of Pentacles is ambitious, loyal and practical; they may often be seen as studious, but once you get to know them well, they can also be quite funny.

Their ambition and focus means that they are hardworking. They are likely to be as dedicated as they are to a lover, as they are to their goals.

Their quiet demeanour may make them hard to notice at first, compared to other folks that may be more out going.

If this doesn’t represent a person that is entering your love life, the Page of Pentacles tarot love meaning can simply signal this Page’s dedication and loyalty in your relationship.

While sometimes the relationship can lack passion and feel a bit boring, the love is there; you may only need to go out there and figure out how to inject some fun and excitement back into your romance. Try not to always put practicality before passion in the relationship and the two of you should be just fine.

6th Card

The Seven Of Wands

The Seven of Wands has a similar in meaning to the Five of Wands; both cards indicate struggles after the initial fulfilment and satisfaction of an event. The Seven of Wands however is different as it is is about the struggle

The Seven of Wands has a similar in meaning to the Five of Wands; both cards indicate struggles after the initial fulfilment and satisfaction of an event.

The Seven of Wands however is different as it is is about the struggle that you need to go through to maintain your position, rather than to attain it.

This is about the difficulties we face to continue to have success. You should be ready for the competition to you defend your title, and to prove yourself. Others are going to desire the same results that you do, so you need to stay ahead of the them.

There will be challenges to the success of your project or venture from an outside source. You must remain dedicated to your desires, and with a clear purpose and effort, you will overcome them.


The overall meaning of the Seven of Wands is to hold your ground, no matter what is challenging your position.

You will need to defend this position and take a stand against those who are aiming to take your spot. There are setbacks during this time, but you need to keep fighting for your beliefs and confront those that may threaten or oppose you and your beliefs.

Bottom Of The Deck

The Empress

The Empress shows us how deeply we are embedded to our femininity. Femininity could be associated with fertility, expression, creativity and nurturing among many other aspects.

It therefore calls you to connect with beauty and bring happiness to your life.

Understand yourself and get in touch with your sensuality so that you can attract life circumstances to bring happiness and joy. She is a signal that be kind to yourself, to take care of yourself.

The Empress is also a strong indication of pregnancy and motherhood.

You can look for other cards to confirm if this is truly pregnancy, or rather just an indication of a motherly, nurturing and caring attitude.

The Empress card could also mean the birth of a new idea, business or project on your life. Owing to the good fortune that surrounds this card, you can be sure that such situations and projects would end successfully in your life.

Discover and bring forth those ideas that have been clinging to you and make sure that you devote yourself towards accomplishing them.

This card is a sign that they are going to be successful, and well taken care of. The Empress, as the archetype of the mother earth, also encourages you to spend time interacting with nature, the mother of all of us.

The empress stems from the element of earth.

The person represented by this card can be loving, nurturing and caring, as has financial security or appreciative of beautiful, comforting things. Sometimes, the Empress can point to love and work coming together, either with a co-worker, or perhaps a new business venture.

When it comes to relationships, this card also heralds a stable, serious and committed relationship. Because the card also represents motherhood, sometimes it can also signal marriage or pregnancy, or at least a new family, in whatever form that means for you.

I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.

Please feel free to share like and comment and donate to my blog if you wish.

Sending Love to you all

Stacie xx

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Toxic people! Raise the rent and kick them out.

Good evening.

Thank you for following my link this evening and choosing to act upon your own postive self love.

This post title speaks a thousand words in itself.

Toxicity chips at my walls of self defence and filling the cracks gets tiresome..

People like to get all in your head space and steal your self love and integrity.

When you have worked so hard to build yourself back up after situations that almost broke you, there isn’t a chance in hell I’m going to let anyone bring me that low again.

And neither should you!!!

If you have been to hell and back the past couple of months with your own mental health.

Don’t let the ones that broke your soul back in and allow them to try and finish the job.

It’s not your job to fix everything or everybody.

It’s your job to live a life you choose to live.

Don’t try and understand why people do the things they do or say the things they choose to say.

Your only responsible for your own actions.

And your own mindset, never let other people’s opinions of you change you.

That’s their perception of you it’s what they choose to see.

I’m a person who is caring, loving, straight talking and hardworking.

Dedicated, helpful and supportive.

I would never kick someone else down for trying to be someone in life it’s not my nature.

Stop letting other people’s opinions stop you for living your best life.

We aren’t all the same we are all born with freedom of speech and a choice to make our own happiness.

Stop letting other people’s negative emotions and energy affect your life.

Up your rent and kick them out your head.

Check out this song below 👇👇❤️

Still learning by halsey

Love to you all ❤️❤️

Stacie xxx

What The Universe Wants You To Know 22/11/2020 To 29/11/2020

Good afternoon everyone.

Happy Sunday to you all.

Tomorrow will be a start to a brand new week I’m feeling a lot of positivity from the universe at the moment, I feel the dynamics have somewhat changed , there has been a huge transitional shift .

Out with the negativity and the darkness and in comes the light at the end of the road.

For a lot of you it seems like a lifetime in waiting for such clarity and understanding of your own soul.

A lot more of you have opened your minds to what’s around you , this I feel is from you having time away from normal daily routine , as we all know life hasn’t been normal for all of us for a while now , but take one good thing from this pandemic its made us have time to sit and evaluate our lives and look at situations differently, for many of us it’s given us the power of voice and to allow our true selves to shine through braking down the false veil that we all shield behind.

I would like to state that all my spiritual guidance blogs are for entertaiment purpose only.

Take what resonates and leave the rest.

All signs and elements are included.

Weekly Vision Message

I’m standing in busy old fashioned train station , I can hear the steam from the engines and I can smell the burning of the coal.

There is a lot of people rushing around in all directions trying to get to their destinations.

As I approach my platform I can feel and see the sadness from loved ones saying goodbye to each other, also hugs of reassurance to.

As I reach my train I hesitate ,I take one deep breath and step aboard.

I’m feeling nervous and scared, will everything be ok , will I return again , Will things remain the same.

This message I feel is linked to long distance love connections , I feel a few of you are really struggling with this situation at the moment , if your in a relationship or apart from someone you wish to have a connection with then this is a message for you.

Time and distance can never come between true love connections , if the two of you are determined and wanting to make your situation work then it will, Trust is needed to build a solid foundation everything else comes from trust and loyalty.

As long as you both put the effort into this connection distance or time will never come between you.

Its frustrating not making plans for your intermediate future but have faith and be willing to make time for each other in other ways and remain truthful and honest to one another.

The universe is reassuring you that everything will work out fine….

1st Card

When the World card is reversed it symbolizes imperfection, lack of vision, and disappointment.

The result of the project is imperfect, disappointing, and lacks vision.

Or you are having trouble reaching your goal.

You may be frustrated and tempted to take a shortcut, but that will only lead to more frustration, and you won’t be happy with the result.

The world in reverse in love I feel with the world in reverse regarding your love life , is that your pushing away your soul mate due to fear , you don’t feel you both can overcome this situation.

So you are shutting down regarding your connection.

If your single this can mean your not ready to commit , your not interested in sharing your life with anyone at the moment.

2nd Card

When the Two of Swords is reversed in a Tarot reading, it can mean you are being indecisive.

There might be fear and confusion.

It might leave you inert and unable to act.

It can also mean that you’re finally seeing something for what it is.

The Two of Swords in reverse is an indication that things are no longer being stalled.

If you’re single, it might mean that you need to choose between two prospective partners and are having trouble deciding.

If you’re in a relationship, it can mean that you and your significant other are at a crossroads and need to decide what comes next.

3rd Card

When the Three of Cups is upright , it signifies feelings around friendship.

It represents community and the network created when we interact with others.

You may find you have a lot of parties and celebrations on your calendar.

This card also means it is time to examine your attachments from an emotional point of view.

The card may also represent all types of support, including giving and receiving help.

The Three of Cups in love is an indication that good times are ahead.

If you’re single, you may find a spark with someone from your past.

If you’ve been in a dry spell, you may find potential partners knocking on your door.

If you’re in a relationship, this card can mean there’s an upcoming celebration of love, such as a wedding or engagement.

4th Card

When the Lovers card is upright ,it stands for love, harmony, trust, honour, the beginning of romance, and optimism.

It is a card of passion, and feeling passionate, but it isn’t strictly about romantic relationships and intense interpersonal bonds.

One basic meaning of this card is that you may come across a divergence you dare not miss, no matter the difficulty, even if it is against your chosen path.

Be on the lookout for this opportunity, and don’t automatically take the easy road.

Think things over before you come to a decision.

Perhaps it’s time to take a leap of faith.

The Lovers card in a Tarot is seriously romantic.

If you’re single, hang on tight because a red-hot romance is headed to you.

If you’re in a relationship, things are about to heat up between you.

5th Card

When the Eight of Cups is upright , it is time to realize that the past is gone.

An end is approaching, and what was thought to be permanent is no longer so.

It is time to accept the change that is staring you in the face.

The card signals that it’s time to move on. The only thing permanent in life is change, and everything slips away sooner or later.

The Eight of Cups in love represents feeling’s of abandonment.

If you’re in a relationship, it could mean that you or your partner is ready to walk away.

But I feel communication is needed as I feel that your holding back on your feelings.

If you’re single, it represents loneliness and the inability to allow yourself to thrive in a new relationship.

6th Card

When the Four of Swords is reversed, it can mean you are finally finding the strength to get through (or out of) something.

It can also indicate that you’re ready to address stress, anxiety, and other things that worry you.

It can also mean taking care of yourself after a long time of not doing so.

The Four of Swords in love is an indication that you are ready to connect or reconnect with a past love !!

If you’re single, it means you might want to take some time to figure out exactly what you want in a partner before welcoming someone new into your life.

If you’re in a relationship, you are entering a period of peacefulness with your partner.

Bottom Of the Deck

When the Tower card is reversed in a Tarot reading, it means that you are stuck in a rut or trapped in a bad situation.

You need to shake things up.

You probably know this, but you have been procrastinating about making a big change.

Take a hard look at habits and traditions that you’ve been following unquestioningly.

Ask yourself how they are holding you back.

And why your scared of following your heart

What can you throw away to make room for something better?

The Tower card in love means profound changes are happening.

If you’re single, it could mean you need to reconstruct yourself from the ground up before you have room for a relationship.

If you’re in a relationship, it might have to end, signalling a breakup or divorce.

Even if the relationship remains standing, it will change fundamentally in some way.

Angel Oracle Message

Any obstacles that you have been experiencing are temporary.

Your guardian angels are taking care of the details to remove them from your path.

Do not worry about the appearance of challenges, because they are just an illusion that will soon disappear.

If you worry excessively about these issues, you will fuel them with power and energy.

See them instead as wispy clouds that can’t really block you.

This is an especially important time for you to stay in steady contact with God and your angels.

Sometimes when we are under stress, we forget to pray and ask for Heaven’s help – yet these are the times when it is best for us to enlist the assistance of our Creator and celestial guides.

It is your angels’ great pleasure to help you to navigate along a smooth path.

They know that you will grow faster in a peaceful setting, just as a plant grows strongest with the optimal nutrients, sunlight, and water.

Your life is becoming more stable with a quieter form of excitement.

The drama of obstacles is now a thing of the past.

I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.

Please feel free to share like and comment and donate to my blog if you wish.

Sending Love to you all

Stacie xx

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Clean Up & Clear Out

Evening all

It’s been a while since we last had a catch up.

I think everyone is feeling a bit down and sick and tired now of this stagnant stage we are going through. Life is on hold for all of us it’s all very boring and repetitive.

Alot of my plans like million of others are also on hold.

As you can imagine I like to get things moving but at the moment its work, eat, sleep and repeat.

I’ve not had much to tell you all.

Today I decided to have a good tidy up in my home ready for my Christmas decorations and hey don’t judge its 2020 anything goes this year.

It felt good to throw away the past.

You find closure in all the smallest of tasks these are the ones that help you the most.

So christmas has arrived in my home already.

I’ll do any to keep my children in high spirits in such a difficult time.

Covid hasn’t cancelled Christmas but it’s a going to be very different this year.

I’m trying to stay positive and just get back into a routine.

So self care is what’s need and tommrow us Sunday so it will be the full day pampering myself.

I’ve decided that my hair is going back to full red I get bored so easily.

I’m also going to loose this last Two stone in weight and really start concentrating on my physical and mental wellbeing.

I am a lot happier now in myself but like most I feel stuck.

I’m very impatient and I want things instantly but I know that something you really want is never easy takes time, effort and patience.

I’m learning and changing more about myself every day.

I no longer feel bad for putting myself first.

Deep down apart of me will always remain but the way you glow after you drop the burden is amazing.

Love to you all ❤️

Stacie xx

To believe or not to believe that is the question?

Good Evening ..

Tonight’s blog is all about my own spiritual journey and how I became connected to the universe within a deeper level of my own consciousness.

I get asked quite a lot about my psychic abilities from believers and non believers it’s perfectly normal to have opinion’s on subjects that are unknown to us.

But this evening i wanted to share with you all my experiences growing up as a spiritually gifted child and adapting through to adult hood.

When I was a small child I knew I was different from other children I was always happy in my own company to be honest that’s never changed since getting older I prefer the peace rather than the drama.

But I enjoyed doing my own thing , I looked at nature and everything around me differently than others and I found the beauty in everything.

Growing up I would always feel and see spirit it didn’t frighten me because as a child I never knew any different.

But as got to my teenage years I started to block my psychic abilities out due to it not being cool and I didn’t want to be seen as the weird child.

As I started hitting my twenties my gift slowly started to come back and I could not block it out anymore.

After I lost my grandad tom my whole world fell apart and if I’m honest its never felt the same since, it wasn’t until after his passing did i realise that its ok to be yourself.

He would always say to me why be something your not always be true to who you are.

Ive always drawn strength from that.

After my eldest the daughter was born I decided to try and advance my psychic skills further by joining a paranormal team called S.P.R.T where I met some pretty amazing people and to this day we still remain friends.

During my time with S.P.R.T I was asked to do some filming with tv production company at a haunted leisure facility.

I have always been very grateful for this experience and ive cherished how far my gift pushed me during this time.

As the years have gone by I have made some great connections within the spiritual community.

Some real connections that can’t quite be explained but the puzzle pieces just fit right.

Ive investigated some fantastic places over my years within the paranormal field.

And I really do miss Investigating and connecting to spirits within locations.

I’m also very connected to peoples emotions and my intuition is very strong , I’m like an energy sponge I draw energy in sometimes its not always good but I’m learning to control that aspect of my gift.

Over the years I’ve passed on many messages and guidance to other’s.

Why I decided to blog about my spiritual gift was because I wanted people to understand why I offer my weekly guidance blog posts because I wanted to give something back to others and where better to do so than my own blog.

Going through what ive gone through over the last few years has defiantly taught me that I’m strong And its ok for me to love myself and most importantly be myself.

I will continue to work on my abilities and strengthen my beliefs, but I’m super excited for 2021 and my future plans.

Love to you all

Stacie xx

We are Tierd

Here we are right back at the start
Months and months of time apart.

Bussiness open then told to shut.
To all the worker who’s pays have been cut.

Shield your face with a mask
Stay indoors the government asks.

But we are tierd and slightly confused.
At more restrictions and your rules.

You can’t do this and you can’t do that.
Somethings not right we smell a rat.

Our children have suffered enough.
The last nine months have been extremely tough.

Listen to us as a nation, listen to our stories and situations.

We don’t want statistics we just want facts.
We want to breathe freely again without a mask.

We don’t doubt the virus to some of us can be deadly.

But what about the terminally ill and mentally health facilities.

And to the families who are struggling with financial difficulties.

Please sit back and review correctly.
And address the nation directly.

Give us hope for our future.
We are tierd and sick of the rumors.

Stacie Leanne
31/10/2020
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Noticing details that no one else sees. #mentalhealthawareness

Good morning all

As I sit in my bed coffee in hand deep in thought feeling an element of Carrie Bradshaw from sex in the city.

Life is somewhat chaotic but peaceful at the same time.

Over the last year I have to say I’ve met some truly amazing people each with a story that’s so unique and both inspiring.

It’s so easy to get wrapped up in the moment and get trapped in your own bubble your oblivious to others around you.

Sometimes life gets so hectic we can forget about everything that’s truly important.

Reevaluating your life isn’t an easy task.

But In time it gets less complicated and more a way of life.

You become aware of the love around you and the connections you form.

Humans are unique each with a personal story that’s just waiting to be heard, we just need to vibe with people who want to listen.

I opened my eyes and my heart six months ago from then on I’ve come to realise that each of us walks on our own path.

Sometimes we walk same path but it’s never the exact same story we share.

Sometimes people just need someone to listen not to judge.

I’m sharing this blog with you all to raise awareness.

To check in with people around you I know life gets busy and there isn’t enough time in the Day.

But just sending a quick message can completely change someone’s day.

Let them know you care.

Sometimes that’s all people need is just to know people genuinely care.

Reassurance is needed from loved ones other than from their own mind.

The mind can be a dark place…

So be someones light.

Love Stacie xxxx

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#mentalhealthawareness

ℕ𝕠𝕥𝕙𝕚𝕟𝕘𝕤 ℙ𝕖𝕣𝕞𝕒𝕟𝕖𝕟𝕥

Nothing is permanent in this wicked world – not even our troubles.

Charlie Chaplin

Evening all

I hope you are all well.

I wanted to check in with you and let you know I’m still around in the background I’m just taking some time away from everyday hussle and bussle.

One thing I’ve come to realise these last few weeks is nothing is permanent in life, life can change instantly and it doesn’t matter how much we try and prevent something from happening we can’t.

Being a virgo for me is giving my all to every aspect of my life so at my job, at my home with my children and within my relationships.

I wear my heart on my sleeve I always have and putting other people first has always been a big stop block for me within all aspects of my life.

Truth is I care way to much about everything and I overthink far to much, I think with a realistic mind but I have a tenancy to be aggravated by people who are lazy and uncoordinated and people who play games.

It’s just my virgo traits.

I’ve worked very hard past few weeks on my mental health I’ve relapsed a few times had a few wobbles. I’ve been quite and unresponsive for a day or too I find it easier to shut down than try and explain my feelings.

It’s just way I’ve always be.

I’ve very lucky to have such a good support network around me i didn’t a few years ago but now I have people around me who understand when I’m having a bad day not to push me to far.

My blogging has slowed down abit again due to mostly me being busy but also to fear of getting on people’s nerves with all my posting but again like my mum says you don’t need to read if you don’t want to just…

You don’t need to justify anything you do to anyone.

Just have to be true to yourself.

Yes I may seem like an emotional lunatic very up and down when it comes to life, but you would be surprised how many people suffer in silance and pretend that they are OK.

I tell my story to help others sometimes along side the joking and everyday life blogs we need realisation that everyone is human and we all feel emotion and we all deal with life in different ways.

I tell mine through my writing along side my singing therapy.

And I really hope some people out there find comfort from my blog and sharing my experiences.

It’s been great to sit still for a while and catch my breath but slowly I’m coming back to myself….

P. S don’t forget to check out tommrow’s weekly Spiritual Guidance Blog.

Love to you all…

Stacie xx

Losing yourself to find yourself

Life is a funny old thing isn’t it?

How many of us find ourselves hoping for a better day ahead.

You can find yourself so wrapped up with daily routine and structure, you forget how much of your life is passing you by.

Do you crumble at the idea of not having a plan in place for every outting or experience in life.

Then you just maybe existing and not living.

A lot of people need structure and fear spontaneous life events.

The classic what if moment.

That fills us with anxiety and fear of rejection.

Some of the best experiences in life are followed by a ephiany moment….

We as humans are stronger than we think.

An advantage human can go through several transition in a lifetime its how we evolve and adapt to change.

As you know change is inevitable and if the universe thinks that you are heading in the wrong direction it will make changes for you.

We loose our true self for all sorts or reasons but one thing is pretty much certain we always find our way back to our authentic self.

It’s difficult feeling being lost and hopeless, not knowing what’s next.

But not every situation needs to be controlled and it doesn’t need a plan either.

If your like me then I find it extremely hard to let my guard down and trust people, I hate not knowing why and when, but one thing I’ve learnt is it doesn’t matter how much you need structure or answers you don’t always get it.

For myself now don’t force anything any more because anything that needs to be forced isn’t worth having.

And great things can happen when you loosen the grip of needed to control everything.

There’s no magic eight ball…

But you have your intuition so use it well and trust the process only then will you find the way back to your authentic self.

Love to you all

Stacie xxx

ℝ𝕒𝕕𝕚𝕠 𝕊𝕚𝕝𝕖𝕟𝕔𝕖

Evening all

I thought I would do a little blog on where I’m at just to let you all know why I’m not around as much at the moment.

Well the title says it all radio silence for the people who haven’t heard this saying before I will explain below.

It means a  period of time when someone does not communicate with another person or other people.

Seems dramatic I know but its my choice.

I’ve needed to strip back every aspect in my life and look at what direction I was heading towards.

Believe me it wasn’t healthy to some extent I’m still battling with my demons.

I’ve been through a very long period of heartache and self loathing for such a long time I’ve just had enough.

Closing the last chapter was the hardest and I have one last hurdle to get over before I can truly move forward.

I suppose you have to fully let the old layers of yourself fall away before you can heal and rebuild yourself.

I’ve given so much of myself to people who didn’t deserve me.

Now I know that and it’s difficult for me to pull my energy back.

But it’s what’s needed for me to be the best person I can be.


It’s time for me to take back my power and allow myself to put myself first.

So I’ve decided to pull back my energy from social media even though its a great place to reach out and put yourself our there I don’t feel I’m 100% ready for it.

With me trying to engage with people I found it’s drained me physically and emotionally.

I just simply can’t find the strength to deal with other peoples issues at the moment it makes me  hypocritical giving our advice and not listing to my own inner wisdom.

I’ve decided to not post anymore pictures or videos of myself at the moment because Im really not happy within myself and because I want people to get to know the real me not just the outside exterior of myself.

Tommrow I’m back on my health kick and the universe is giving me a massive…
To move forward so I will be back after some me time and I will come back better and stronger.

Love to you all ❤️

Stacie xxx

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