What The Universe Wants You To Know ! Weekly Spiritual Guidance Blog 29/11/2020 to 6/12/2020

Good Afternoon to you all.

I trust you are all well as can be.

I feel there are a lot of you feeling quite lost at the moment I also feel very tired and surrounded by heavy energy

Today I’m going to get straight to business and concentrate on what the universe needs to share with you all.

I would like to state that all my weekly guidance blogs are for entertainment purpose only.

All signs and elements are included take what resonates and leave the rest.

Weekly vision message

Its late evening , im sitting on a porch in an old rocking chair.

I can hear the crickets chirping , The night time Wildlife ready to come to life in the darkness.

The sun is setting , the sky is filled with an eerily orange glow.

The silence is deafening.

But my mind feels clear and my heart feels pure, with each rock of the chair I can feel emotions arising, I feel like I’m trying to get somewhere but I’m getting no where fast.

I feel fear and frustration , I’m filled with fear and regret of not following my own heart and listing to other people.

As the darkness fills the sky my mind comes to life.

Within the few minutes where my mind was clear and my heart felt pure , I found true peace within.

That’s when the universe reminds me that between the chaos, there is calm and a chance of reflection, and a chance of true happiness.

You need to remind yourself that its ok to take a break and a step back.

Tarot Card Connection

1st Card

The Moon

With the Moon it’s likely that emotions are complicated at this time.

The environment can be one full of misunderstandings, and not everything is as it appears. You may need to do some work to get to the bottom of things; be sure to not only ensure the intentions of others, but also understand your own emotions, desires and motivations.

There may be old attitudes, beliefs or ideas that are clouding your judgement. Many things can be hiding in your unconscious affecting your ability to accept love. Are past relationships haunting you? Have you lost faith in love? Do you believe you are unworthy of love? All of these can have profound affects on how we approach relationships. Now is the time to examine them and reveal them as they truly are.

2nd Card

Justice In Reverse

Justice is about karma, and if you’ve been putting forth the effort, love and romance will be coming your way. If you’ve been kind, loving and supportive, your relationships will be a mirror of what you’ve been giving to others.

If you’ve been single, your loving and positive disposition will make you especially attractive to new potential romances.

Because this card is all about the law of cause and effect, make sure you have been treating your partner fairly. Watch out for resentment and defensiveness, and ensure that conflicts in your relationships are handled with respect and trust in your other half.

Compromise and understanding is needed now. Sometimes this card is also about being tactful, and expressing your frustrations in a way that are mindful of your partner’s feelings. As long as issues hare handled with honesty and good faith, your relationship will thrive.

3rd Card

Five of Wands Reversed

The Five of Wands reversed meaning can be that your natural method of dealing with disagreements is avoiding any kind of conflict by getting away from that place as fast as you can.

Sometimes this can be regarded as a good thing, but other times, it may lead to a number of issues that are brewing up within you, for which you will have to address soon.

On the other hand, it can also mean that you have worked through your troubles and that you do not have any more issues to worry about.

Issues of how you deal with conflict can affect your relationships now.

If you’re in a relationship, ensure that you haven’t been bottling up your resentments to avoid conflicts that the two of you need to have a smooth partnership.

Eventually avoiding difficult conversations lead to an erosion of trust. Remember that every person has the right to their needs, and having needs does not make you any less lovable.

If you’ve been doing the hard work of expressing yourself honestly with your partner however, you may find that misunderstandings are clearing up. What were once arguments may disappear once honesty and clarity have been achieved.

4th Card

The Devil

Getting the devil card in your reading shows that you have feelings of entrapment, emptiness and lack of fulfilment in your life.

It might also mean that you are a slave to materialism and opulence and no matter how hard you try, you just can’t seem to shake off the feeling of wanting to indulge in luxurious living. 

You might be aware that this kind of lifestyle is leading you down the rabbit hole, but you have that feeling of not having any form of control over your actions or urges.


Addiction to substances or material pleasures can also be the reason for your feelings of powerlessness and entrapment. 

In situations such as these, you may feel as though you are a slave, unable to control your impulses or willpower to direct yourself towards something other than the satisfaction of these desires. 

Lust and temptation are symbolized by the Devil.

There can be a sense of hedonism, and a selfish desire for gratification with this card. In less serious circumstances, it can also just simply mean a pursuit for all of life’s earthly pleasures.

There is nothing wrong in having a bit of fun, but make sure that you are not hurting others or giving them wrong impressions when you do.

If you’re only looking for hook-ups, it is up to you to communicate that with your dates. Make sure you avoid pressuring others if they decide your lifestyle isn’t something that suits them. Communication will be more important than ever now.

Alternatively, the Devil can also signal addiction, and in the context of love and relationships, co-dependency.

Over time, this can be destructive to the individuality and self of both partners. Be wary, and ensure that the two of you remain strong individuals within your relationship.

5th Card

Page Of Pentacles

When we meet the Page of Pentacles, we see immediately that she is one that is ambitious and focused. She is protected, nourished, provided for by the suit whose name she bears.

Guided by it, she is deeply tied to the earth, nature, and all of its gifts.

She cherishes the body, for it too is something which is a manifestation of her element. Her diligence, ambition and loyalty drives her to quickly make plans for the future – for it is there where her focus lies.


When you meet her, she may be the bearer of news connected to all earthly and material matters. When you hear her message, be inspired as she is – lay down the foundations to follow your ambitions.

Generally, the Page of pentacles refers to the kind of energy that you need to complete all that is needed for your work.

It may point to the determination, focus and the ability to stick with a particular task no matter how boring it may seem.

In terms of work, the Page of Pentacles may signify that there are a lot of tasks you are responsible for, but your time to complete them is much too limited. This is not the time to feel stressed and overwhelmed. Assistance will be there for you, you just have to ask for it. 

In relation to finances, the Page of Pentacles can refer to the reward for your hard work. For those who are investing their hard–earned money, this is not the perfect time for you to take the risk. Invest your money in a safe and traditional way – the diligence will pay you back. If you are currently experiencing a health issue, this problem may be the result of the continuous neglect. Let a professional make sure that this is not the case.

The person symbolized by the Page of Pentacles is ambitious, loyal and practical; they may often be seen as studious, but once you get to know them well, they can also be quite funny.

Their ambition and focus means that they are hardworking. They are likely to be as dedicated as they are to a lover, as they are to their goals.

Their quiet demeanour may make them hard to notice at first, compared to other folks that may be more out going.

If this doesn’t represent a person that is entering your love life, the Page of Pentacles tarot love meaning can simply signal this Page’s dedication and loyalty in your relationship.

While sometimes the relationship can lack passion and feel a bit boring, the love is there; you may only need to go out there and figure out how to inject some fun and excitement back into your romance. Try not to always put practicality before passion in the relationship and the two of you should be just fine.

6th Card

The Seven Of Wands

The Seven of Wands has a similar in meaning to the Five of Wands; both cards indicate struggles after the initial fulfilment and satisfaction of an event. The Seven of Wands however is different as it is is about the struggle

The Seven of Wands has a similar in meaning to the Five of Wands; both cards indicate struggles after the initial fulfilment and satisfaction of an event.

The Seven of Wands however is different as it is is about the struggle that you need to go through to maintain your position, rather than to attain it.

This is about the difficulties we face to continue to have success. You should be ready for the competition to you defend your title, and to prove yourself. Others are going to desire the same results that you do, so you need to stay ahead of the them.

There will be challenges to the success of your project or venture from an outside source. You must remain dedicated to your desires, and with a clear purpose and effort, you will overcome them.


The overall meaning of the Seven of Wands is to hold your ground, no matter what is challenging your position.

You will need to defend this position and take a stand against those who are aiming to take your spot. There are setbacks during this time, but you need to keep fighting for your beliefs and confront those that may threaten or oppose you and your beliefs.

Bottom Of The Deck

The Empress

The Empress shows us how deeply we are embedded to our femininity. Femininity could be associated with fertility, expression, creativity and nurturing among many other aspects.

It therefore calls you to connect with beauty and bring happiness to your life.

Understand yourself and get in touch with your sensuality so that you can attract life circumstances to bring happiness and joy. She is a signal that be kind to yourself, to take care of yourself.

The Empress is also a strong indication of pregnancy and motherhood.

You can look for other cards to confirm if this is truly pregnancy, or rather just an indication of a motherly, nurturing and caring attitude.

The Empress card could also mean the birth of a new idea, business or project on your life. Owing to the good fortune that surrounds this card, you can be sure that such situations and projects would end successfully in your life.

Discover and bring forth those ideas that have been clinging to you and make sure that you devote yourself towards accomplishing them.

This card is a sign that they are going to be successful, and well taken care of. The Empress, as the archetype of the mother earth, also encourages you to spend time interacting with nature, the mother of all of us.

The empress stems from the element of earth.

The person represented by this card can be loving, nurturing and caring, as has financial security or appreciative of beautiful, comforting things. Sometimes, the Empress can point to love and work coming together, either with a co-worker, or perhaps a new business venture.

When it comes to relationships, this card also heralds a stable, serious and committed relationship. Because the card also represents motherhood, sometimes it can also signal marriage or pregnancy, or at least a new family, in whatever form that means for you.

I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.

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Sending Love to you all

Stacie xx

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Toxic people! Raise the rent and kick them out.

Good evening.

Thank you for following my link this evening and choosing to act upon your own postive self love.

This post title speaks a thousand words in itself.

Toxicity chips at my walls of self defence and filling the cracks gets tiresome..

People like to get all in your head space and steal your self love and integrity.

When you have worked so hard to build yourself back up after situations that almost broke you, there isn’t a chance in hell I’m going to let anyone bring me that low again.

And neither should you!!!

If you have been to hell and back the past couple of months with your own mental health.

Don’t let the ones that broke your soul back in and allow them to try and finish the job.

It’s not your job to fix everything or everybody.

It’s your job to live a life you choose to live.

Don’t try and understand why people do the things they do or say the things they choose to say.

Your only responsible for your own actions.

And your own mindset, never let other people’s opinions of you change you.

That’s their perception of you it’s what they choose to see.

I’m a person who is caring, loving, straight talking and hardworking.

Dedicated, helpful and supportive.

I would never kick someone else down for trying to be someone in life it’s not my nature.

Stop letting other people’s opinions stop you for living your best life.

We aren’t all the same we are all born with freedom of speech and a choice to make our own happiness.

Stop letting other people’s negative emotions and energy affect your life.

Up your rent and kick them out your head.

Check out this song below 👇👇❤️

Still learning by halsey

Love to you all ❤️❤️

Stacie xxx

Pulling the plug on negativity and regaining your power.

Hello everyone

I seem to start all my blogs the same way it’s just something I’ve always done.

I like to engage with my readers on a one to one basis.

Even though I know there’s plenty of you that read my posts, I just like to come down to a personal level and be real with you all.

Im the kind of women who reads other people’s experiences on Google.

I’m the sort of women who listens to tarot readers on YouTube on a daily basis seeking guidance.

I’m the kind of women who would love anyone unconditionally if they let me.

I’ll stop right there I said the LOVE!!! Word right yes I did.

One thing I have come to realise is that not everyone projects the same amount of energy as you do.

Dont expect to much from someone who doesn’t take the time to fully get to know you as a person.

We think we know people straight away, humans are very quick to judge..

To some people life, love and their surroundings are always an up hill struggle.

These are the people who will constantly moan, degrade, judge others for getting of the ferris-wheel when they’ve simply had enough of going around in circles.

At some point you have to get off and drop the energy from people’s negativity.

People who don’t seek answers or express their truth aren’t people I like to mix with.

I’m quite happy being able to connect to all my readers in such a powerful way.

So that’s why I love to blog as much as I do.

It helps me explain what goes on inside my brain and when I’m experiencing emotions and heartbreak.

It’s taken me a long time to realise this not all negative insults or drama needs more negative responses, don’t add fuel to the fire.

Simply walk away and pull the plug on any negativity it’s not worth the energy.

Humans are programmed to hold on to pain just for the fear of giving up to eagerly.

You don’t have to prove a point to anyone but yourself.

So if you find yourself in a situation that constantly goes around in circles just pull that plug and regain your power.

Love to you all ❤️

Stacie xxx

Progress not Perfection

Evening all

I know I’ve already posted once today but I wanted to give a little update to where I am at the moment.

Past few weeks I’ve been pretty hard on myself.

I’ve not been completely on my diet plan and I’ve hardly had anytime to exercise.

I’ve actually not been eating my full calorie deficit.

And Im a nightmare for remembering to drink enough water.

I used to do 30 minutes on my exercise bike and some toning exercises but I’ve not been doing it due to just having hardly any energy.

I haven’t even been taking my supplements.

Which really throws my motivation off course.

I try really hard but my body has now gone into weight plateau.

It’s proving very hard to push past this part of my weightloss journey.

It’s all about time with me I’m very inpatient and I’m quite critical of myself.

I keep getting told its not a race but it’s the journey that matters and what I learn about myself along the way.

I’m a lot stronger mentally and more focused on where I’m heading in my future, but I know the future can change in a instant so I’m trying to remain positive.

This week I’m coming completely out of my comfort zone and recording a few videos to run alongside my blog.

I feel I need to do this to advance my career within blogging.

I’m really focused on my own little family and myself.

It’s all about making myself happier and not thinking about others and how they perceive me anymore.

I had started to slip into a black hole In my mind again after a few issues but I felt I just couldn’t put myself through that again and I sure as hell wasn’t going to go down without a fight.

So I pulled up my big girl pants and got on with it..

My confidence is back I know where I’m heading and to have that clarity is amazing after so long of wandering around in the dark.

I would just like to point out I’m not always glamorous, sometimes I look like a sack of spuds but no one’s perfect its whats on the inside that matters.

So from this week I hope you may see a different side to me.

I’m focusing more on my fitness my wellbeing and connecting with people who actually want to get to know me better.

I just have to learn to believe in myself more and not be so hard on myself.

So please keep an eye out on my social media for updates ❤️

Love to you all

Stacie xx

Losing yourself to find yourself

Life is a funny old thing isn’t it?

How many of us find ourselves hoping for a better day ahead.

You can find yourself so wrapped up with daily routine and structure, you forget how much of your life is passing you by.

Do you crumble at the idea of not having a plan in place for every outting or experience in life.

Then you just maybe existing and not living.

A lot of people need structure and fear spontaneous life events.

The classic what if moment.

That fills us with anxiety and fear of rejection.

Some of the best experiences in life are followed by a ephiany moment….

We as humans are stronger than we think.

An advantage human can go through several transition in a lifetime its how we evolve and adapt to change.

As you know change is inevitable and if the universe thinks that you are heading in the wrong direction it will make changes for you.

We loose our true self for all sorts or reasons but one thing is pretty much certain we always find our way back to our authentic self.

It’s difficult feeling being lost and hopeless, not knowing what’s next.

But not every situation needs to be controlled and it doesn’t need a plan either.

If your like me then I find it extremely hard to let my guard down and trust people, I hate not knowing why and when, but one thing I’ve learnt is it doesn’t matter how much you need structure or answers you don’t always get it.

For myself now don’t force anything any more because anything that needs to be forced isn’t worth having.

And great things can happen when you loosen the grip of needed to control everything.

There’s no magic eight ball…

But you have your intuition so use it well and trust the process only then will you find the way back to your authentic self.

Love to you all

Stacie xxx

Weekly Spiritual Guidance 11/10/2020 to 18/10/2020

Good Afternoon all.

I’m so sorry ive not done a weekly guidance blog for a while , But life takes over sometimes.

I’ve been going through a massive energy transition myself , I’ve needed to give my life a little bit of an overhaul and I’ve been closing some old chapters.

It seems that the month of October is the month for a huge energy shift.

Mercury goes retrograde for its final time in 2020 on October 14th.

So be prepared for the past to come back around , but don’t be alarmed because for a lot of you i feel you too will also be closing old chapters in life.

Lets get down to legalities and then we can get on with weekly vision message and spiritual tarot card guidance.

First of all I must declare that all my spiritual guidance blogs are for entertaiment purpose only.

Weekly spiritual guidance blogs are for all sign and elements take what resonates and leave the rest.

Weekly Vision Message

I’m standing on an exotic beach, i can feel the warm air on my skin.

I can hear waves crashing onto the shore its peaceful and calm no one is around .

I’m looking out to sea and towards the sunrise on the horizon.

I start walking down to the shore , I can start to hear voices behind me ,I can’t quite understand what’s being said but I can hear confutation, people asking for my help .

As I continue to walk away from the noise , I don’t look back ,I keep walking and keep focusing on the horizon.

As I reach the shoreline before I put my feet into the waves ,I look back one last time and smile.

Then I continue to walk into the sea and onto the horizon , I feel all the past negative emotions and heartbreak wash away from me.

I now feel like Ive been truly set free onwards I go to future ,no more looking back at the past.

Only forwards….

I feel this weeks vision relates to a lot of you out there!!

You can never change the past what’s done is done , There is no magic time machine for us to go back.

What we must do is learn from our past experience’s and use them for future choices and own self love.

Never run back to something or someone that broke you only ever move forwards.

We as humans like to fix what’s broken but not everything can be fixed not everything needs to be fixed we need to move on and learn from situation’s.

Maybe years down the road everything will make perfect sense but for now keep looking ahead.

Tarot Guidance

1st Card

The Hanged Man symbolizes suspension, change, reversal, sacrifice, readjustment, improvement, and rebirth.

The card means it is time to stop resisting and gain illumination.

It is the time for reflection before moving on.

Work on yourself and moving forward its time to move on and follow your own life path.

No matter what’s going on in your life, you can right the ship and keep moving forward.

2nd Card

The Judgement is in reverse I don’t normally reverse cards but it being a huge month of energy shift I feel its needed.

When the Judgment card is reversed in Tarot, it can mean fear of death, failure, possible loss, and ill health.

It can mean you are turning your back on something you must do, and it is costing you. You are hard on yourself and filled with the thought that you are incapable of doing what you need to.

Your in fear of loosing what’s already been lost, You must remember you can’t do anything about a situation or loosing someone who wants to leave.

Don’t be harsh on yourself and question what you could of done in order to change the outcome you must remember that you can’t change someone one else’s thoughts only your own.

3rd Card

Another card in reverse here we have the knight of pentacles.

When the Knight of Pentacles is reversed it indicates impracticality or wanting rewards without actually doing any work.

It can mean that your dreams will never happen if you don’t get to work on them.

The Knight of Pentacles reversed represents a person who is unstable, closed-minded, and pessimistic.

I feel this card is linked a person around you I feel for a lot of you your trying to change the outcome but the other party involved is happy being in this state of stagnant energy ,very stuck in there ways .

You can never truly follow your path with someone who is dragging there heels in the ground.

4th Card

Ten of Wands

The Ten of Wands in Tarot stands for overextending, overwork, burdens, oppression, and struggle.

When the Ten of Wands is upright it signifies that you have been pushing yourself too hard.

It is the time for you to cut back and lighten your load and perhaps even share some responsibilities.

It is a sign that, for the sake of your health, you need to cut down on your duties and unending tasks.

You are like the figure on the Ten of Wands card who is trying to carry the ten poles and bent under the burden.

You cannot see where you’re going and are only thinking of your responsibilities.

This is the time to stop focusing narrowly in one area and find a balance in life by including other interests.

5th Card

The Five of Cups stands for loss, bereavement, and regret.

The Five of Cups meaning in a Tarot reading is related to tangible losses, such as money, possessions, relationship, and work.

Or the losses could be intangible, such as dreams, opportunities, prospects, or reputation.

The loss, the sorrow, the regret could be great or small.

That said, you shouldn’t be discouraged by the appearance of this card because every negative has a positive side to it.

The figure on the Five of Cups card is draped in black and covered in grief.

He is staring at the overturned cups in front of him, oblivious to the fact that there are two upright cups behind him. Loss always hurts because we always resist change. However, every loss opens new opportunities and possibilities for growth.

Every loss initiates a change.

We need to go with the flow. If we struggle to hold on to what is gone, we suffer more.

6th Card

The Four of Swords stands for rest, contemplation, and quiet preparation.

All the Swords cards represent some form of trials and challenges, and the Four of Swords is no different.

It is a challenge to remain quiet.

When the Four of Swords is upright means you might need to slow down.

This is the time to get some rest.

For people always on the go, strenuous activity becomes a habit that isn’t easy to break. Drawing the Four of Swords card is an ultimate challenge for the person to do nothing! With today’s stressful working environments and busy lifestyles, you may have forgotten to stop and be still.

This card is a reminder to pause and contemplate.

This is the time to think things over, to put things back into their correct perspective.

You need time for quiet preparation, time to focus your energy, and time to gather your strength.

This is how you can bring out the best in you.

This is the time to recognize the benefits of rest and contemplation.

You might be completely healthy, but you still need a break. It will help make sure you don’t get sick.

Bottom Of The Deck Card

The Wheel of Fortune card symbolizes destiny, unexpected events, and progress. This card reminds you that good luck happens as easily as bad, and everything happens in cycles.

You may be on top of the world now, but you could just as easily be headed downward. Change is a constant and inevitable part of life, and nothing lasts forever.

The basic symbols of this card are a clockwise-turning wheel with figures or beasts on it that are rising or falling.

When the Wheel of Fortune card is upright the card means a stroke of luck, an unexpected windfall.

You may feel in sync with the universe, like everything is going your way.

Take advantage of this moment to steer your ship to where it needs to be.

Focus on yourselves and your own goals you will find your new found confidence will draw the right kind of energy in to your life.

I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.

Please feel free to share like and comment and donate to my blog if you wish.

Sending Love to you all

Stacie xx

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It’s one small step in the right direction that lead to the most adventurous paths.

Evening all

I hope your OK

Apologies for the lack of blogging but life’s been a little upside down lately.

Have you ever had that feeling of a. Weight being lifted from you it’s like seeing blue skies after a very dark storm.

This is where Im at now I’ve been through the worst of if and I’m finally realising that I deserve to put my own needs first.

Trouble is I give more out than I ever receive then I end up burning myself out in the process.

Its OK to put myself first it’s OK to say no.

Focusing on yourself is extremely important, growth is extremely important.

Moving on is important leaving the past behind is essential.

You can’t change what’s happened.

But you can learn from the experience and use it in your future.

I’ve literally grown so far away from who I used to be at times I’m unrecognisable even to myself.

But as one door shuts another is waiting to open.

Something better and more for filling.

I’ve always been held back and too scared to be myself in fear of what other people think.

But that’s not me any more.

I’m not perfect I don’t look amazing all time, I’m not always happy, I get annoyed & like to be left alone sometimes.

But that’s just me.

But I’ve realised it’s time to move on I’m ready to move on and work on the life I deserve.

My heart will always be happy helping people but I have to remind myself that I need to also help myself.

Today was a great day I purchased my first ever size 12/14 pj’s I’m so overwhelmed I’ve not been a size 12 since high school.

Massive achievement…

I’m also exited to be working with Acti Labs Super excited I will be posting another blog along with details soon but their products are my absolute favourite that’s why I have taken a leap of faith and I’ve chosen to work alongside them.

You will be able to purchase direct from me but again I’ll put all details on another blog post for you all.

Thank you so much for all your support and love I’m so grateful.

Love to you all

Stacie xxx

Changing your own mindset, and how to add positivity to your daily life.

Good Evening all.

Tonight’s article is all about changing your mindset and applying positivity to your own life.

I wanted to talk this evening on changing your own mindset , I know that sometimes its difficult to remain positive in tough situation’s or when your surrounded by negative people.

But you will be surprised how quickly life will change when you remain positive and manifest the life you require.

No one want’s to just settle in life but the key is to always be one step ahead.

Changing your mindset wont happen overnight it will happen gradually you will start to see progression in your own life just from changing the way you think and react to situations and people around you.

Let me ask you a few questions..

  1. Have you always put other people’s happiness before your own?

2. Do you sometimes feel envious of other peoples lives’ ?

3.Do you want to make positive changes but don’t know how ?

Let me answer the best way I can.

Are you a human being who thrives on making others smile and making people happy , do you put there happiness before your own ?

Let me stop you right there without sounding to harsh its ok to wear your heart on your sleeve but you can’t pour from an empty glass , you must make sure you nurture your own soul before you give your all to someone else, if you have ever gone along with a situation that your not completely at ease with just to make someone else happy this is where I stop you and say don’t put yourself in a situation you don’t feel comfortable with just to please someone else in the long run you will only have regrets.

You should feel able to openly speak with family and friends if you don’t feel comfortable with a situation, If you don’t feel you can openly communicate then maybe working on your relationship’s and friendship’s are needed and understanding is needed from both parties.

Its ok to feel envious of people, not everyone has the same outlook on life or wish fulfilment, everyone’s back story is different too, if its wealth you seek or true love make sure to apply manifestation to your life.

I would highly recommend a dream board to start the law of attraction process within your life.

Many people have used this technique to apply positivity to their lives.

May i also suggest this amazing book I’ve come across to help you understand the applying of law and attraction to the universe.

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It can be extremely difficult to make changes in life when your unsure on where to start , I’m going to give you a few pointers below.

1. Identify and understand what you want to change.

Whenever you decide to make a change, you must first understand why you’re making the change in the first place.

“You need to be able to identify what it is about your goal that adds to you as a person, that makes you feel better and more expansive,”

If your goal aligns with your core values, then “the thought of it will trigger a positive gut feeling.”

2. Rid your life of negativity.

This is not as simple as it may sound. If you’re surrounded by negativity, then how can you expect to have a positive and joyful life?

In fact, those who are negative or surrounded by negativity are more stressed, get sick more often, and have less opportunities than those who are positive.

“When we make a decision to become positive, and follow that decision up with action, we will begin to encounter situations and people that are also positive.”

Of course, that’s easier said than done. That’s why he suggests that you can accomplish this goal by doing the following:

You’ll find when you complete these steps, you’ll become more confident in your life.

3. Exercise more often.

You may be getting tired of hearing everyone telling you that you need more exercise. Sure. Exercising is great for you physically. But, it’s also an excellent way to become more positive in life.

Exercise can change the direction of most situations in your life.

The benefits of exercise are immeasurable. You gain purpose, drive, but most of all it teaches you a discipline.

For starters, when you exercise, you feel better about yourself, which leads to having more confidence. Exercise also reduces anxiety and stress and releases euphoric chemicals in the brain like endorphins and dopamine.

4. Build a support network.

A “strong social support network can be critical to help you through the stress of tough times, whether you’ve had a bad day at work or a year filled with loss or chronic illness.” This group of friends, family, and peers is also important because they provide additional benefits like providing a sense of belonging, an increase in self-worth, and a feeling of security whenever you need advice, information, or guidance.

5. Take baby steps.

“The one primary motivator that leads us to persevere is baby steps, That’s because when we look at the big picture we can get overwhelmed with all of the steps involved in achieving a goal.

Instead, break the “big picture goal down into systematic, manageable baby steps.” Then, document and celebrate your wins daily.

This will help you achieve that change that you’ve been seeking in a positive way and meaningful way.

Key is not to be so hard on yourself change can be fearful but letting go of negative influences and patterns can open new pathways.

Just always remember to nurture yourself and let positivity flow.

Love to you all

Stacie xxx

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Weekly Spiritual Guidance 04/09/2020 to 11/09/2020

Hello Everyone

I hope you are all well..

It’s that time of the week again for your weekly spiritual guidance from Seashells & Lipgloss blog.

I really do hope that all my readers enjoy them and please don’t forget to share like and subscribe to my blog for other daily blog posts on life love and everything else in-between.

As I must always state that all my weekly spiritual guidance’s posts are for entertainment purpose only.

My guidance’s posts are for all signs and elements.

Take What resonates and leave the rest to the universe.

 

 

My spiritual vision message for this week is…

This week as I was tuning into spirit ready for your guidance messages , I was shown a fast flowing stream, I also saw a girl with a large orange autumn leaf in her hand she want’s to put the leaf in the stream and let if float away but she’s worried that the stream will overpower the leaf and drag it under water.

What she feels is panic and fear of what might happen to the leaf if she lets go of it.

She sits there a while calm’s her thoughts and her mind as she contemplates she notices that whist she’s taken a step back to focus on herself that the stream has calmed down its not so fast moving anymore and her fear for the leaf has passed.

She is now able to let go and watch it sail down into the horizon until she can no longer see the leaf and she’s let go of the fear.

The moral to this vision is sometimes we don’t act on situations due to the fear of what might or might not happen but as we take a step back to refocus ourselves and evaluate situations we move forward with a more clear and positive mindset, this allows us to let go and move on to better and bigger things , just from releasing fear of the unknown.

1st Card

The Justice card in Tarot is about reason, truth, and, yes, justice.

This is the card about cold, objective balance.

It’s also about moderation in all things, as well as the realities of karma. If you’re not keeping the scales balanced, there could be some fallout.

Justice symbolizes harmony, balance, equality, righteousness, virtue, honour, and advice.

It can also mean a time for adjustments, as well as an opportunity to bring physical, emotional, social, and spiritual things back into balance.

It also means it is time to stand tall and strong against the things that might be trying to throw you off balance.

2nd Card

The Lovers card in Tarot symbolizes love, as well as romance, connection, attraction, and perfect harmony.

The basic symbols of this card are an angel or Cupid, a man and a woman, and two trees. In some decks, there is a man standing between two women, and in some decks, one tree is flowering and the other has fruit.

 it stands for love, harmony, trust, honour, the beginning of romance, and optimism.

It is a card of passion, and feeling passionate, but it isn’t strictly about romantic relationships and intense interpersonal bonds.

One basic meaning of this card is that you may come across a divergence you dare not miss, no matter the difficulty, even if it is against your chosen path.

Be on the lookout for this opportunity, and don’t automatically take the easy road.

Think things over before you come to a decision.

Perhaps it’s time to take a leap of faith in love and connections.

3rd Card

 

The Seven of Pentacles means you need a time-out.

This isn’t a card of finality. This is an in-between card that means you have to pause and check your strategy.

The image on the card is a person who has worked hard and then paused to take some time to admire their work.

It means it is time to catch your breath after a lot of activity.

It’s time to assess your work and what you get from that work.

Maybe you’ve been so busy that you haven’t taken the time to reflect on what you’ve accomplished.

This is the time to take stock of your situation and make sure you’re getting the results you want.

4th Card

 

The Hierophant card in Tarot symbolizes traditional values and is often associated with the religious or spiritual.

The purpose of the Hierophant is to bring the spiritual down to earth.

The basic meaning of this Tarot card is to create harmony in the face of crisis. During a crisis, the Hierophant diffuses the panic and offers good and practical advice.

The basic symbols of the Hierophant card are twin pillars, a staff, throne, the triple crown of a pope, a hand raised in blessing, and two acolytes.

 It symbolizes a need to conform and social approval on the one hand, and mercy, forgiveness, compassion, conformity, and inspiration on the other.

This card means that you know how to solve your problem even though it isn’t very easy.

5th Card

 

The Nine of Pentacles in Tarot stands for discipline, self-reliance, and refinement.

The Nine of Pentacles meaning in a Tarot reading is positive.

It’s about not concentrating too much on the business side of life, represented by coins in the image that are placed toward the ground.

On the other hand, there is another side to life: the arts, music, and the other forms of beauty that are very much part of our lives.

You have to enjoy these finer things, too.

It’s time to let go and enjoy the finer things in life and share that abundance with others. You’ve earned it. It’s time to focus less on work and more on enjoying arts and culture. The card also signifies self-reliance. Remember to trust your own abilities.

This is the time to take matters into your own hands.

6th Card

The Queen of Swords in Tarot stands for honesty, astuteness, forthrightness, wittiness, and experience.

Her personality is a combination of the positive air energy of the Swords suit and the inward focus of a Queen.

The Queen of Swords admires honesty, is committed to truth, and tells you exactly as it is. She has no interest in lies or tricks and has a marked lack of pretence.

She fully understands the good and the bad of the world and is not easy to fool.

She can easily analyse a situation, and she can identify a tricky one coming at her.

Her observations are straightforward and candid and not meant to be hurtful.

Another of the traits of the Queen of Swords is a sense of humour along with witty comebacks.

It means you need to think and feel like her.

The first and foremost way is to be completely honest. You need to figure out what is going on and ensure that you are not letting yourself be fooled.

You may also need to see the humour in a situation you are facing, and make sure that you’re inspired by her special energy.

I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.

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Sending Love to you all

Stacie xx