How To Starve A Narcissist

Hello my lovely people

Happy Sunday to you all I’m sorry I won’t be doing a weekly Spiritual Guidance Post this week I’m having a break, if truth be told I’m going to waste my whole Sunday playing sims 4.

Just because in sims I’ve got a better handle on life.

I’ve decided to do this post today because we have all dealt with a few narcissistic people in our life time.

You know the ones who are completely deluded that they have played a part in causing another human being pain.

It’s so easy to fall into a narcissistic trap because they are clever, at first they’ll say all right things and do all the right things to reel you in.

Once you have fallen into that black hole of nothingness it’s very difficult to pull yourself out of it.

It’s extremely difficult to remove yourself from a situation like this especially when you hold nothing but love for someone.

I can hundreds percent relate to the whole aspect of being in a connection with a certain individual.

That has these traits….

During the last few months of lockdown I feel its either gone two ways for people they have either been stuck within a narcissistic connection or have come within their power and a realisation that enough is enough and its time to act accordingly.

So how do you starve a narcissistic of your energy.

I know that a few of these steps won’t be easy for you but one thing I can promise you with time and self healing you will be fine.

This advice is from someone who’s been through it all yes it’s myself.

1. Go no contact.

This is the best option for you! If at all possible, cut all contact with him immediately and at once.

2. Be uninterested

This is the best option for you if you must have contact with the narcissist. Show no emotion, only answer the questions that must be answered and do so quick and to the point. Do not react at all to anything the narcissist says. Do not bite his bait of arguments or discussion about things that you’ve already discussed. Keep everything you say and do with him to an absolute minimum devoid of any emotion.

3. Keep it simple.

If you must have contact with the narcissist, keep all interaction brief. If he sends you a million texts, respond to only whatever is absolutely necessary. If you have to meet up, do what you came there for and nothing further. Again, remember – no emotion!

4. Walk away when their manipulative.

Whenever they starts to try to engage you, manipulate or blame you, walk away. Just end the conversation by leaving it. Don’t try to explain or reason with them about what’s happening. Just walk away. Soon you’ll train the narcissist that you aren’t available to be their energy supply any longer.

5. Don’t talk about the narcissist with people who know them.

If possible, don’t speak with them at all, but if you must, avoid details about your personal life and anything to do with the narcissist.

All of that information will end up making its way back to the narcissist and he or she can be fed energy from you through the third party. they will know what irks you and what buttons to push. they will know how their affecting you and you’ll continue to be seen as their energy source.

6. Set boundaries and don’t back down from them.

The reason the narcissist made their way into your life in the first place was because you didn’t have healthy boundaries in place.

Learn from that and implement the changes you need to make now!

Don’t feel bad for your boundaries and don’t reason your way out of enforcing them (i.e., “He or she doesn’t really know what he’s or she is doing,” or they are making improvements and he or she can change”). You teach other people how to treat you by how you treat yourself.

7. Live your life.

Work on you, focus on you, build your future!

Don’t allow the narcissist to take any more of your time.

Set goals for yourself and celebrate when you reach them.

Build a healthy support system around you and don’t look back! There’s nothing for you back there.

Start implementing these things and you’ll be surprised at how quickly you’ll find that the narcissist has no more hold on you!

One thing you always need to remember is that you hold the power to your own destiny we all get blindsided by love and connections but always believe in your own power to set boundaries and realise your self worth.

love to you all .

Stacie xxxx

What The Universe Wants You To Know ! Weekly Spiritual Guidance Blog 29/11/2020 to 6/12/2020

Good Afternoon to you all.

I trust you are all well as can be.

I feel there are a lot of you feeling quite lost at the moment I also feel very tired and surrounded by heavy energy

Today I’m going to get straight to business and concentrate on what the universe needs to share with you all.

I would like to state that all my weekly guidance blogs are for entertainment purpose only.

All signs and elements are included take what resonates and leave the rest.

Weekly vision message

Its late evening , im sitting on a porch in an old rocking chair.

I can hear the crickets chirping , The night time Wildlife ready to come to life in the darkness.

The sun is setting , the sky is filled with an eerily orange glow.

The silence is deafening.

But my mind feels clear and my heart feels pure, with each rock of the chair I can feel emotions arising, I feel like I’m trying to get somewhere but I’m getting no where fast.

I feel fear and frustration , I’m filled with fear and regret of not following my own heart and listing to other people.

As the darkness fills the sky my mind comes to life.

Within the few minutes where my mind was clear and my heart felt pure , I found true peace within.

That’s when the universe reminds me that between the chaos, there is calm and a chance of reflection, and a chance of true happiness.

You need to remind yourself that its ok to take a break and a step back.

Tarot Card Connection

1st Card

The Moon

With the Moon it’s likely that emotions are complicated at this time.

The environment can be one full of misunderstandings, and not everything is as it appears. You may need to do some work to get to the bottom of things; be sure to not only ensure the intentions of others, but also understand your own emotions, desires and motivations.

There may be old attitudes, beliefs or ideas that are clouding your judgement. Many things can be hiding in your unconscious affecting your ability to accept love. Are past relationships haunting you? Have you lost faith in love? Do you believe you are unworthy of love? All of these can have profound affects on how we approach relationships. Now is the time to examine them and reveal them as they truly are.

2nd Card

Justice In Reverse

Justice is about karma, and if you’ve been putting forth the effort, love and romance will be coming your way. If you’ve been kind, loving and supportive, your relationships will be a mirror of what you’ve been giving to others.

If you’ve been single, your loving and positive disposition will make you especially attractive to new potential romances.

Because this card is all about the law of cause and effect, make sure you have been treating your partner fairly. Watch out for resentment and defensiveness, and ensure that conflicts in your relationships are handled with respect and trust in your other half.

Compromise and understanding is needed now. Sometimes this card is also about being tactful, and expressing your frustrations in a way that are mindful of your partner’s feelings. As long as issues hare handled with honesty and good faith, your relationship will thrive.

3rd Card

Five of Wands Reversed

The Five of Wands reversed meaning can be that your natural method of dealing with disagreements is avoiding any kind of conflict by getting away from that place as fast as you can.

Sometimes this can be regarded as a good thing, but other times, it may lead to a number of issues that are brewing up within you, for which you will have to address soon.

On the other hand, it can also mean that you have worked through your troubles and that you do not have any more issues to worry about.

Issues of how you deal with conflict can affect your relationships now.

If you’re in a relationship, ensure that you haven’t been bottling up your resentments to avoid conflicts that the two of you need to have a smooth partnership.

Eventually avoiding difficult conversations lead to an erosion of trust. Remember that every person has the right to their needs, and having needs does not make you any less lovable.

If you’ve been doing the hard work of expressing yourself honestly with your partner however, you may find that misunderstandings are clearing up. What were once arguments may disappear once honesty and clarity have been achieved.

4th Card

The Devil

Getting the devil card in your reading shows that you have feelings of entrapment, emptiness and lack of fulfilment in your life.

It might also mean that you are a slave to materialism and opulence and no matter how hard you try, you just can’t seem to shake off the feeling of wanting to indulge in luxurious living. 

You might be aware that this kind of lifestyle is leading you down the rabbit hole, but you have that feeling of not having any form of control over your actions or urges.


Addiction to substances or material pleasures can also be the reason for your feelings of powerlessness and entrapment. 

In situations such as these, you may feel as though you are a slave, unable to control your impulses or willpower to direct yourself towards something other than the satisfaction of these desires. 

Lust and temptation are symbolized by the Devil.

There can be a sense of hedonism, and a selfish desire for gratification with this card. In less serious circumstances, it can also just simply mean a pursuit for all of life’s earthly pleasures.

There is nothing wrong in having a bit of fun, but make sure that you are not hurting others or giving them wrong impressions when you do.

If you’re only looking for hook-ups, it is up to you to communicate that with your dates. Make sure you avoid pressuring others if they decide your lifestyle isn’t something that suits them. Communication will be more important than ever now.

Alternatively, the Devil can also signal addiction, and in the context of love and relationships, co-dependency.

Over time, this can be destructive to the individuality and self of both partners. Be wary, and ensure that the two of you remain strong individuals within your relationship.

5th Card

Page Of Pentacles

When we meet the Page of Pentacles, we see immediately that she is one that is ambitious and focused. She is protected, nourished, provided for by the suit whose name she bears.

Guided by it, she is deeply tied to the earth, nature, and all of its gifts.

She cherishes the body, for it too is something which is a manifestation of her element. Her diligence, ambition and loyalty drives her to quickly make plans for the future – for it is there where her focus lies.


When you meet her, she may be the bearer of news connected to all earthly and material matters. When you hear her message, be inspired as she is – lay down the foundations to follow your ambitions.

Generally, the Page of pentacles refers to the kind of energy that you need to complete all that is needed for your work.

It may point to the determination, focus and the ability to stick with a particular task no matter how boring it may seem.

In terms of work, the Page of Pentacles may signify that there are a lot of tasks you are responsible for, but your time to complete them is much too limited. This is not the time to feel stressed and overwhelmed. Assistance will be there for you, you just have to ask for it. 

In relation to finances, the Page of Pentacles can refer to the reward for your hard work. For those who are investing their hard–earned money, this is not the perfect time for you to take the risk. Invest your money in a safe and traditional way – the diligence will pay you back. If you are currently experiencing a health issue, this problem may be the result of the continuous neglect. Let a professional make sure that this is not the case.

The person symbolized by the Page of Pentacles is ambitious, loyal and practical; they may often be seen as studious, but once you get to know them well, they can also be quite funny.

Their ambition and focus means that they are hardworking. They are likely to be as dedicated as they are to a lover, as they are to their goals.

Their quiet demeanour may make them hard to notice at first, compared to other folks that may be more out going.

If this doesn’t represent a person that is entering your love life, the Page of Pentacles tarot love meaning can simply signal this Page’s dedication and loyalty in your relationship.

While sometimes the relationship can lack passion and feel a bit boring, the love is there; you may only need to go out there and figure out how to inject some fun and excitement back into your romance. Try not to always put practicality before passion in the relationship and the two of you should be just fine.

6th Card

The Seven Of Wands

The Seven of Wands has a similar in meaning to the Five of Wands; both cards indicate struggles after the initial fulfilment and satisfaction of an event. The Seven of Wands however is different as it is is about the struggle

The Seven of Wands has a similar in meaning to the Five of Wands; both cards indicate struggles after the initial fulfilment and satisfaction of an event.

The Seven of Wands however is different as it is is about the struggle that you need to go through to maintain your position, rather than to attain it.

This is about the difficulties we face to continue to have success. You should be ready for the competition to you defend your title, and to prove yourself. Others are going to desire the same results that you do, so you need to stay ahead of the them.

There will be challenges to the success of your project or venture from an outside source. You must remain dedicated to your desires, and with a clear purpose and effort, you will overcome them.


The overall meaning of the Seven of Wands is to hold your ground, no matter what is challenging your position.

You will need to defend this position and take a stand against those who are aiming to take your spot. There are setbacks during this time, but you need to keep fighting for your beliefs and confront those that may threaten or oppose you and your beliefs.

Bottom Of The Deck

The Empress

The Empress shows us how deeply we are embedded to our femininity. Femininity could be associated with fertility, expression, creativity and nurturing among many other aspects.

It therefore calls you to connect with beauty and bring happiness to your life.

Understand yourself and get in touch with your sensuality so that you can attract life circumstances to bring happiness and joy. She is a signal that be kind to yourself, to take care of yourself.

The Empress is also a strong indication of pregnancy and motherhood.

You can look for other cards to confirm if this is truly pregnancy, or rather just an indication of a motherly, nurturing and caring attitude.

The Empress card could also mean the birth of a new idea, business or project on your life. Owing to the good fortune that surrounds this card, you can be sure that such situations and projects would end successfully in your life.

Discover and bring forth those ideas that have been clinging to you and make sure that you devote yourself towards accomplishing them.

This card is a sign that they are going to be successful, and well taken care of. The Empress, as the archetype of the mother earth, also encourages you to spend time interacting with nature, the mother of all of us.

The empress stems from the element of earth.

The person represented by this card can be loving, nurturing and caring, as has financial security or appreciative of beautiful, comforting things. Sometimes, the Empress can point to love and work coming together, either with a co-worker, or perhaps a new business venture.

When it comes to relationships, this card also heralds a stable, serious and committed relationship. Because the card also represents motherhood, sometimes it can also signal marriage or pregnancy, or at least a new family, in whatever form that means for you.

I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.

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Sending Love to you all

Stacie xx

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Toxic people! Raise the rent and kick them out.

Good evening.

Thank you for following my link this evening and choosing to act upon your own postive self love.

This post title speaks a thousand words in itself.

Toxicity chips at my walls of self defence and filling the cracks gets tiresome..

People like to get all in your head space and steal your self love and integrity.

When you have worked so hard to build yourself back up after situations that almost broke you, there isn’t a chance in hell I’m going to let anyone bring me that low again.

And neither should you!!!

If you have been to hell and back the past couple of months with your own mental health.

Don’t let the ones that broke your soul back in and allow them to try and finish the job.

It’s not your job to fix everything or everybody.

It’s your job to live a life you choose to live.

Don’t try and understand why people do the things they do or say the things they choose to say.

Your only responsible for your own actions.

And your own mindset, never let other people’s opinions of you change you.

That’s their perception of you it’s what they choose to see.

I’m a person who is caring, loving, straight talking and hardworking.

Dedicated, helpful and supportive.

I would never kick someone else down for trying to be someone in life it’s not my nature.

Stop letting other people’s opinions stop you for living your best life.

We aren’t all the same we are all born with freedom of speech and a choice to make our own happiness.

Stop letting other people’s negative emotions and energy affect your life.

Up your rent and kick them out your head.

Check out this song below 👇👇❤️

Still learning by halsey

Love to you all ❤️❤️

Stacie xxx

What The Universe Wants You To Know 22/11/2020 To 29/11/2020

Good afternoon everyone.

Happy Sunday to you all.

Tomorrow will be a start to a brand new week I’m feeling a lot of positivity from the universe at the moment, I feel the dynamics have somewhat changed , there has been a huge transitional shift .

Out with the negativity and the darkness and in comes the light at the end of the road.

For a lot of you it seems like a lifetime in waiting for such clarity and understanding of your own soul.

A lot more of you have opened your minds to what’s around you , this I feel is from you having time away from normal daily routine , as we all know life hasn’t been normal for all of us for a while now , but take one good thing from this pandemic its made us have time to sit and evaluate our lives and look at situations differently, for many of us it’s given us the power of voice and to allow our true selves to shine through braking down the false veil that we all shield behind.

I would like to state that all my spiritual guidance blogs are for entertaiment purpose only.

Take what resonates and leave the rest.

All signs and elements are included.

Weekly Vision Message

I’m standing in busy old fashioned train station , I can hear the steam from the engines and I can smell the burning of the coal.

There is a lot of people rushing around in all directions trying to get to their destinations.

As I approach my platform I can feel and see the sadness from loved ones saying goodbye to each other, also hugs of reassurance to.

As I reach my train I hesitate ,I take one deep breath and step aboard.

I’m feeling nervous and scared, will everything be ok , will I return again , Will things remain the same.

This message I feel is linked to long distance love connections , I feel a few of you are really struggling with this situation at the moment , if your in a relationship or apart from someone you wish to have a connection with then this is a message for you.

Time and distance can never come between true love connections , if the two of you are determined and wanting to make your situation work then it will, Trust is needed to build a solid foundation everything else comes from trust and loyalty.

As long as you both put the effort into this connection distance or time will never come between you.

Its frustrating not making plans for your intermediate future but have faith and be willing to make time for each other in other ways and remain truthful and honest to one another.

The universe is reassuring you that everything will work out fine….

1st Card

When the World card is reversed it symbolizes imperfection, lack of vision, and disappointment.

The result of the project is imperfect, disappointing, and lacks vision.

Or you are having trouble reaching your goal.

You may be frustrated and tempted to take a shortcut, but that will only lead to more frustration, and you won’t be happy with the result.

The world in reverse in love I feel with the world in reverse regarding your love life , is that your pushing away your soul mate due to fear , you don’t feel you both can overcome this situation.

So you are shutting down regarding your connection.

If your single this can mean your not ready to commit , your not interested in sharing your life with anyone at the moment.

2nd Card

When the Two of Swords is reversed in a Tarot reading, it can mean you are being indecisive.

There might be fear and confusion.

It might leave you inert and unable to act.

It can also mean that you’re finally seeing something for what it is.

The Two of Swords in reverse is an indication that things are no longer being stalled.

If you’re single, it might mean that you need to choose between two prospective partners and are having trouble deciding.

If you’re in a relationship, it can mean that you and your significant other are at a crossroads and need to decide what comes next.

3rd Card

When the Three of Cups is upright , it signifies feelings around friendship.

It represents community and the network created when we interact with others.

You may find you have a lot of parties and celebrations on your calendar.

This card also means it is time to examine your attachments from an emotional point of view.

The card may also represent all types of support, including giving and receiving help.

The Three of Cups in love is an indication that good times are ahead.

If you’re single, you may find a spark with someone from your past.

If you’ve been in a dry spell, you may find potential partners knocking on your door.

If you’re in a relationship, this card can mean there’s an upcoming celebration of love, such as a wedding or engagement.

4th Card

When the Lovers card is upright ,it stands for love, harmony, trust, honour, the beginning of romance, and optimism.

It is a card of passion, and feeling passionate, but it isn’t strictly about romantic relationships and intense interpersonal bonds.

One basic meaning of this card is that you may come across a divergence you dare not miss, no matter the difficulty, even if it is against your chosen path.

Be on the lookout for this opportunity, and don’t automatically take the easy road.

Think things over before you come to a decision.

Perhaps it’s time to take a leap of faith.

The Lovers card in a Tarot is seriously romantic.

If you’re single, hang on tight because a red-hot romance is headed to you.

If you’re in a relationship, things are about to heat up between you.

5th Card

When the Eight of Cups is upright , it is time to realize that the past is gone.

An end is approaching, and what was thought to be permanent is no longer so.

It is time to accept the change that is staring you in the face.

The card signals that it’s time to move on. The only thing permanent in life is change, and everything slips away sooner or later.

The Eight of Cups in love represents feeling’s of abandonment.

If you’re in a relationship, it could mean that you or your partner is ready to walk away.

But I feel communication is needed as I feel that your holding back on your feelings.

If you’re single, it represents loneliness and the inability to allow yourself to thrive in a new relationship.

6th Card

When the Four of Swords is reversed, it can mean you are finally finding the strength to get through (or out of) something.

It can also indicate that you’re ready to address stress, anxiety, and other things that worry you.

It can also mean taking care of yourself after a long time of not doing so.

The Four of Swords in love is an indication that you are ready to connect or reconnect with a past love !!

If you’re single, it means you might want to take some time to figure out exactly what you want in a partner before welcoming someone new into your life.

If you’re in a relationship, you are entering a period of peacefulness with your partner.

Bottom Of the Deck

When the Tower card is reversed in a Tarot reading, it means that you are stuck in a rut or trapped in a bad situation.

You need to shake things up.

You probably know this, but you have been procrastinating about making a big change.

Take a hard look at habits and traditions that you’ve been following unquestioningly.

Ask yourself how they are holding you back.

And why your scared of following your heart

What can you throw away to make room for something better?

The Tower card in love means profound changes are happening.

If you’re single, it could mean you need to reconstruct yourself from the ground up before you have room for a relationship.

If you’re in a relationship, it might have to end, signalling a breakup or divorce.

Even if the relationship remains standing, it will change fundamentally in some way.

Angel Oracle Message

Any obstacles that you have been experiencing are temporary.

Your guardian angels are taking care of the details to remove them from your path.

Do not worry about the appearance of challenges, because they are just an illusion that will soon disappear.

If you worry excessively about these issues, you will fuel them with power and energy.

See them instead as wispy clouds that can’t really block you.

This is an especially important time for you to stay in steady contact with God and your angels.

Sometimes when we are under stress, we forget to pray and ask for Heaven’s help – yet these are the times when it is best for us to enlist the assistance of our Creator and celestial guides.

It is your angels’ great pleasure to help you to navigate along a smooth path.

They know that you will grow faster in a peaceful setting, just as a plant grows strongest with the optimal nutrients, sunlight, and water.

Your life is becoming more stable with a quieter form of excitement.

The drama of obstacles is now a thing of the past.

I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.

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Sending Love to you all

Stacie xx

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Weekly Spiritual Guidance 15/11/2020 to 22/11/2020

Good Afternoon all

How this week has passed us by so quickly its that time of the week again for your weekly spiritual guidance .

Today my energy is feeling a bit ropey but I’m here and ready to pass on messages from the divine.

Let me just remind you all that my spiritual guidance blogs are for entertainment purpose only.

Take what resonates and leave the rest.

For all signs and elements for the week commencing 15/11/2020 to 22/11/2020

Lets see what vision message the universe wants to share with you today..

I am seeing an image of a gentleman sitting at a table with his phone in front of him , I can feel mixed emotions bubbling up inside of him.

I feel the urgency of speaking the truth ,I feel this is linked to a past love interest that didn’t quite go as expected.

He is hovering over his phone , his heart starts to beat fast , he gains the courage to message this female , the message says !!

”HI I HOPE YOUR DOING WELL, THIS MAYBE A LONGSHOT BUT I WOULD REALLY LIKE TO MEET AND TALK TO YOU ”

He hits the send button and eagerly awaits a response, I can feel the anxiety rising within.

Will she reply ?

Its taken months maybe years for this gentleman to come to a realisation of how he feels about the female but now fears it maybe to late for them !!

He knows deep down there maybe a chance she wont reply , Either way he gets closure or the chance to speak the truth .

The universe want you to know that everyone makes mistakes , everyone feels fear when it comes to realisation of emotions , some people cant process emotions like others only option is to shut it out and push it aside.

Until the realisation of what you truly feel hits home and the damage is already done .

To right a wrong you must be truthful , you must also understand that sometimes there isn’t a way forward from your past mistake , there is only closure of a cycle .

But the universe wants you to be at peace and your past connections to be at peace , so if you cant make peace with the past at least make peace with yourself.

Lets Proceed With Our Weekly Tarot Card Guidance

Card 1

When the Ace of Cups is upright it means that you are a vessel for deep love and sympathy.

Love is the essence of this card, but it may or may not be romantic love.

Look to connect with other people

. This is the time to forgive or ask for forgiveness.

This is the time to set your anger aside and look for peace, and to drop your reserve and let your feelings come to the fore.

This is the time when your time is coming.

The Ace of Cups in love is an indication that there is tremendous romantic potential at this time.

If you are single, you may experience a very deep connection with someone new.

If you are in a relationship, then you and your partner will enjoy a period of deep intimacy and togetherness.

Card 2

When the Magician card is upright , it symbolizes originality, creativity, skill, self-confidence, and dexterity.

The card means you will be given an idea, a solution to a problem, an ambitious career, a love life, or a job.

You must trust in your big brain to help you find what you need and let the world open up to you.

The Magician card in love is usually a sign of positive things to come.

If you’re single, a new (and profound!) love is likely headed your way.

If you’re in a relationship, it could mean it is time to deepen your bond with your partner. All in all, a very good thing.

Card 3

When the Queen of Pentacles is upright ,it means you think as she does. You feel warm and caring toward others.

You are sensible in your approach.

You are true to your word. You’re highly generous, and best of all, you can be trusted when the chips are down.

By drawing the Queen of Pentacles card, you can be inspired by the atmosphere of warmth, trust, security, and whatever else the Queen stands for, including her special energy.

The Queen of Pentacles in love means you’re feeling confident and secure in love.

If you’re single, make sure to take time in picking the perfect partner.

If you’re in a relationship, it might mean it is time for you and your significant other to take a luxurious, romantic vacation together.

Card 4

When the Five of Cups is upright in a Tarot reading, it is there to alert you to the possibilities of a loss.

You might already be aware of the loss.

If not, this is when you must try to reduce the importance of the loss, if not avoid it altogether.

The Five of Cups in love means you have some sense of loss and grief when it comes to your relationships, past and present.

If you are single, it means you might live in worry that you let your soul mate get away.

If you’re in a relationship, the Five of Cups might mean that a breakup is coming in your future.

If you don’t want that to happen, you need to work on resolving deep issues.

Card 5

When the World card is upright it symbolizes completion, perfection, and recognition, in addition to honours, the end result, success, fulfilment, triumph, and eternal life.

It indicates a happy end to a project.

It will be accompanied by well-earned praise, celebration, and success.

Enjoy the satisfaction and fulfilment of a job well done.

The World card in love suggests finality, soul mates, ideal partners, a permanent and successful relationship.

If you are single, it may mean that you are feeling ready to begin something new, with fresh new optimism.

If you are in a relationship, maybe you are celebrating a happy anniversary or a marriage after a long engagement.

Card 6

The Queen of Wands always looks at the positive in all situations.

Her life is busy, and nothing gets her down.

She is healthy and fit, naturally strong, perfectly coordinated, and a good athlete.

The Queen of Wands has faith in her own abilities but is never arrogant.

Her belief that she can accomplish whatever she wishes comes from her self-assurance. When the Queen of Wands is upright in a Tarot reading, you need to feel and think like she does.

You need to feel attractive, believe in yourself, and be full of energy.

Her special energy has a special meaning. You need to be inspired by the Queen of Wands in whatever form she appears to you.

The appearance of this card may suggest that you be wholeheartedly adventurous, creative, and trusting. In fact, shake off those blues and be gung-ho about life.

This card means you need to create an atmosphere of cheerfulness and confident enthusiasm.

This is the time to be inspired by everything the Queen of Wands stands for.

The Queen of Wands in love is a lovely thing.

If you’re single, it might mean that either you’re about to meet a Queen of Wands type or you are the Queen of Wands type.

If you’re in a relationship, it means that you’re taking on characteristics of the Queen of Wands or that your partner is.

Bottom Of The Deck

When the Two of Pentacles is upright it means you can take care of all the demands made of you. You’ll juggle obstacles with excitement.

The card is a sign that you have to believe in yourself even if you aren’t feeling confident.

You can meet all challenges if you just remember to be flexible.

Forcing your way through difficulties is not going to work.

Sometimes the way forward is by a step to the side or backward.

The Two of Pentacles in love is an indication that you have a decision coming up.

If you’re single, this means you must decide if you want to stay single or make room for someone new in your life.

If you’re in a relationship, you might be facing a large financial decision that will impact the future of your relationship.

Be honest with yourself about what you want.

I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.

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Sending Love to you all

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Weekly Spiritual Guidance Blog 08/11/2020 to 15/11/2020

Good Afternoon all

Thank you for joining me this week for another weekly spiritual guidance blog.

I’m so sorry I have missed last weeks post my energy was extremely low , but I’m here this week with another fantastic spiritual connection for you all.

Let me just remind you all that my spiritual guidance blogs are for entertainment purpose only.

Take what resonates and leave the rest.

For all signs and elements for the week commencing 08/11/2020 to 15/11/2020

Lets get straight to it …….

I’m sat on the floor in a old rundown house leaves are blowing around me and the paint is peeling off the walls.

There are holes in the floor , windows are broken , Its icy cold and so uninviting.

I really feel a sense of loss and confusion, I feel there is no hope.

Where do I start?

How do I fix this?

Can I make progress?

As I start to walk around the house , I see a flower growing on a window ledge Just outside of a small window.

I paused for a while , it was then that I realised that the universe doesn’t care about materialistic surroundings .

Beauty can grown in all kinds of places , with just a bit of effort and patience.

Life will teach us all kinds of lessons .

It will teach us that nothing that’s worth having will come easy, We need solid foundations to build and create around us.

We need love and laughter to uplift our souls , and we need heartbreak to make us stronger and wiser.

I feel for a lot of you this is what your inuring now , your finding the time to strip back all the layers of our souls to get back to your solid foundations and building the life you want and deserve.

Your removing blockages and finding the the beauty in all kinds of situations and experiences.

Your evolving not adjusting as your world is changing around you.

Tarot Card Reading

1st Card

When the Five of Pentacles is upright it could mean many things.

It may mean that you’ve fallen on bad times.

It could mean that you’re not taking care of your physical health.

Now is when you need to prioritize your health and wellness.

It could also mean you’re facing economic setbacks. In that case, if someone offers to help, let them. And remember that these bad times will not last forever.

Five of pentacles in love if you are single you may be feeling rejected by someone you were interested in, or you may just be feeling lonely.

If you’re in a relationship, this can signify a breakup or that you’re feeling unloved. It might also mean that your partner is going through a rough time and it’s causing problems in your relationship.

2nd Card

With the Seven of Swords is reversed it can mean you feel like a fraud or a phony even if you’re not. You or someone near you might be engaging in acts of deception or harbouring big secrets.

Your holding back on speaking your truth but also coming to a realisation of your true feelings surrounding a situation.

Its never to late to make a change.

The Seven of Swords in love is an indication of betrayal and lies.

If you’re single, it means you should be careful when meeting new potential partners.

It can also indicate that you need to be more honest in your approach to relationships. If you’re in a relationship, it can mean there is some betrayal, dishonesty, or bad action happening. It’s not necessarily enough to end the relationship, but it should be addressed.

For your own sanity you need to either work at your situation or put it to bed and move on.

3rd Card

When the Queen of Cups is upright it means you feel and think as she does.

Have you received an intuitive message?

Have you been moved by another’s pain? Are you aware of the emotional climate?

Do you trust your own heart?

The Queen of Cups encourages you to tap in to the feminine, and know that the women in your life have your back. She also wants you to treat yourself with kindness, compassion, and love.

The Queen of Cups in love is an indication that things will be looking up in this department.

If you are single, it means it is time to put yourself out there and be willing to accept the love you deserve.

If you are in a relationship, you should plan some romance with your partner.

That said, the Queen of Cups loves love, so make sure to keep at least a part of your foot on the ground when she comes calling. You don’t want to get too carried away!

4th Card

When the Knight of Pentacles is upright it means you have some, if not all, the characteristics of the Knight.

You need to find out whether these aspects of the Knight of Pentacles are helpful or harmful to you. Are you working very hard?

Do you refuse to listen to reason?

Are you surrounded by an aura of gloom and doom?

These are indications that it’s time to find balance and make changes.

The Knight of Pentacles in love means stability.

If you’re single, this card indicates that you’re ready for a serious relationship and may soon find someone who’s ready to provide you with the security and support you want.

If you’re in a relationship, this card means your commitment is solid.

So stop looking for faults.

5th Card

When the Chariot card is reversed it symbolizes defeat, failure, and being vanquished.

It also indicates feelings of being out of control and not on top of a situation.

It might also mean it is time to reassess your wants, desires, and goals and make sure everything is in alignment with your best interests.

Only then can you forge ahead.

The Chariot card in love is all about being self-sufficient and fine on your own.

If you’re single, it means you love your freedom and should make sure the other person truly deserves you before you enter a relationship.

If you’re in a relationship, it might mean that you and your significant other are good partners for taking on challenges together.

6th Card

When the King of Pentacles is upright it’s time for you to emulate the King in his actions.

You must be steadfast in keeping your commitments to others and to yourself.

You must support and sponsor new ventures and provide an environment of steady, reliable competence.

In other words, you are the backbone, and you will make it all happen with a little hard work and a lot of reliability.

The King of Pentacles in love means you take love seriously and are in a secure place.

If you’re single, it means someone steady and upright is headed your way.

If you’re in a relationship, it means you’re just going with the flow.

Under the deck

When the Two of Cups is upright you need to look for the connections, especially one-on-one connections, in your life.

This is the time to join forces, to work as a partnership.

The Two of Cups is not just a symbol of harmony in romantic relationships, it can also mean mutual appreciation in your friendships and other relationships.

Stop holding back due to fear of the response.

The Two of Cups in love is a really good card to get in this area.

If you’re single, it means you have a new romance forming or that someone you have been longing for feels the same way about you.

If you are in a relationship, this is a very good omen that means you may be with your perfect partner.

This is an indication that it’s time to take things to the next level.

Final Message from the Angels

Your angels have a very special and specific answer to your question.

You can expect to see signs right away that will have deep meaning to you.

Many people see white feathers to indicate that their angels are with them. Or they may smell scents from their childhood that they connect with a family member.

Signs require focused attention, so be awake to the possibilities.

Don’t mistake synchronistic events for mere “coincidences” at this time. They are a message especially designed for you!

I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.

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Sending Love to you all

Stacie xx

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To believe or not to believe that is the question?

Good Evening ..

Tonight’s blog is all about my own spiritual journey and how I became connected to the universe within a deeper level of my own consciousness.

I get asked quite a lot about my psychic abilities from believers and non believers it’s perfectly normal to have opinion’s on subjects that are unknown to us.

But this evening i wanted to share with you all my experiences growing up as a spiritually gifted child and adapting through to adult hood.

When I was a small child I knew I was different from other children I was always happy in my own company to be honest that’s never changed since getting older I prefer the peace rather than the drama.

But I enjoyed doing my own thing , I looked at nature and everything around me differently than others and I found the beauty in everything.

Growing up I would always feel and see spirit it didn’t frighten me because as a child I never knew any different.

But as got to my teenage years I started to block my psychic abilities out due to it not being cool and I didn’t want to be seen as the weird child.

As I started hitting my twenties my gift slowly started to come back and I could not block it out anymore.

After I lost my grandad tom my whole world fell apart and if I’m honest its never felt the same since, it wasn’t until after his passing did i realise that its ok to be yourself.

He would always say to me why be something your not always be true to who you are.

Ive always drawn strength from that.

After my eldest the daughter was born I decided to try and advance my psychic skills further by joining a paranormal team called S.P.R.T where I met some pretty amazing people and to this day we still remain friends.

During my time with S.P.R.T I was asked to do some filming with tv production company at a haunted leisure facility.

I have always been very grateful for this experience and ive cherished how far my gift pushed me during this time.

As the years have gone by I have made some great connections within the spiritual community.

Some real connections that can’t quite be explained but the puzzle pieces just fit right.

Ive investigated some fantastic places over my years within the paranormal field.

And I really do miss Investigating and connecting to spirits within locations.

I’m also very connected to peoples emotions and my intuition is very strong , I’m like an energy sponge I draw energy in sometimes its not always good but I’m learning to control that aspect of my gift.

Over the years I’ve passed on many messages and guidance to other’s.

Why I decided to blog about my spiritual gift was because I wanted people to understand why I offer my weekly guidance blog posts because I wanted to give something back to others and where better to do so than my own blog.

Going through what ive gone through over the last few years has defiantly taught me that I’m strong And its ok for me to love myself and most importantly be myself.

I will continue to work on my abilities and strengthen my beliefs, but I’m super excited for 2021 and my future plans.

Love to you all

Stacie xx

We are Tierd

Here we are right back at the start
Months and months of time apart.

Bussiness open then told to shut.
To all the worker who’s pays have been cut.

Shield your face with a mask
Stay indoors the government asks.

But we are tierd and slightly confused.
At more restrictions and your rules.

You can’t do this and you can’t do that.
Somethings not right we smell a rat.

Our children have suffered enough.
The last nine months have been extremely tough.

Listen to us as a nation, listen to our stories and situations.

We don’t want statistics we just want facts.
We want to breathe freely again without a mask.

We don’t doubt the virus to some of us can be deadly.

But what about the terminally ill and mentally health facilities.

And to the families who are struggling with financial difficulties.

Please sit back and review correctly.
And address the nation directly.

Give us hope for our future.
We are tierd and sick of the rumors.

Stacie Leanne
31/10/2020
#seashellsandlipglossblog

Weekly Spiritual Guidance 25/10/2020 to 1/11/2020

Good Afternoon all .

Its that time of the week again what does the universe have in store for you.

I really enjoy doing these weekly blog posts and I know my readers on my blog and everyone at fashion potluck also loves reading them too.

So lets see what the universe has to share with us all this week.

Lets get the legal formalities out the way firstly all my weekly spiritual guidance blog posts are for entertaiment purpose only .

All signs and elements are included take what resonates and leave the rest.

Starting with my weekly vision message…

Its a hot summers day , I’m walking up a small winding path.

The birds tweeting and there are butterflies dancing amongst the flowers, the grass is the perfect shade of green, and the sky is so blue there isn’t a cloud in sight.

As I’m walking up the path I see a old wooden bridge ahead it looked a little unsteady.

Before I cross the bridge I hesitate , my heart starts to race and my mind fills with fear.

What if I fall , what if I get hurt….

As I am standing on the edge of the path along come’s a little boy and a dog.

He asks me why do you hesitate to cross the bridge lady ?

I simply replied because I’m scared and I fear that I may get hurt, The boy replied but how will you continue your journey without crossing the bridge.

You can’t stay where you are you must move forward..

Without hesitation the boy skipped over the bridge with a smile the dog followed closely behind him.

When the boy reached the other side, he shouted over to me “See it wasn’t so bad after all , if I can do it so can you.

You just need to let go of fear and have faith.

Within this message I feel a lot of people are fearing the unknown and the uncertainty of their own futures, Fear fuels negativity and negativity spreads like a wildfire from one person to the next.

It present times I know people are tired and fearful but what the universe want’s you all to know is that you are all free spirits , you all have control over your own destiny let go of that fear and the negativity allow yourselves time to heal from the past.

Only then will you allow yourself to be at peace.

Let the light of positivity shine your way forward without fear you can accomplish anything & have faith in yourself.

1st Card

When the Moon card is reversed it symbolizes discovering deception before damage can be done, trifling mistakes, and taking advantage of someone.

It’s the releasing of negativity and the letting go of fears.

Your problems will lighten and you’ll emerge with newfound confidence and clarity.

The Moon card in love is one of insecurity cards .

If you’re single, try to keep your wits about you with your new love interest to make sure everything is on the up and up.

If you’re in a relationship, it might be time to examine if this is exactly what you want.

Maybe you look like the perfect couple on the outside, but there’s another story behind closed doors.

2nd Card

When the Justice card is upright it symbolizes harmony, balance, equality, righteousness, virtue, honour, and advice.

It can also mean a time for adjustments, as well as an opportunity to bring physical, emotional, social, and spiritual things back into balance.

It also means it is time to stand tall and strong against the things that might be trying to throw you off balance.

The Justice card in a love is a portent of true, honest love.

If you’re single, it could mean that someone with a background in the law is coming into your life.

If you’re in a relationship, the Justice card will shine a light on the actions of you and your partner. Are you both acting in a fair and just manner?

3rd Card

When the Devil card is upright it symbolizes downfall, unexpected failure, controversy, violence, disaster, an ill-tempered person, and weird or strange experiences.

The Devil card warns you not to be too restrained but to be passionate and ambitious. You are restrained because you allow yourself to be.

The Devil card in love can be somewhat complicated.

If you’re single, it can indicate that you want to be loved but are unsure of how.

It might also signal that you’re using sex as a stand-in for true intimacy and might do best if you took a step back to re-evaluate what you really want in a relationship.

If you’re in a relationship, it might indicate that you feel suffocated, trapped, or are overly co-dependent, which should be addressed if you want to move into a place of relationship health.

4th Card

When the Seven of Pentacles is upright and it means it is time to catch your breath after a lot of activity.

It’s time to assess your work and what you get from that work.

Maybe you’ve been so busy that you haven’t taken the time to reflect on what you’ve accomplished. This is the time to take stock of your situation and make sure you’re getting the results you want.

The Seven of Pentacles in love is an indication that you can manifest what you want.

If you’re single, you should reflect on past relationships to understand what you want out of a future love.

If you’re in a relationship, this card usually means that the work you’ve been putting into your relationship will pay off very soon.

5th Card

When the Four of Swords is reversed it can mean you are finally finding the strength to get through (or out of) something.

It can also indicate that you’re ready to address stress, anxiety, and other things that worry you.

It can also mean taking care of yourself after a long time of not doing so.

The Four of Swords in love is an indication that you are ready to connect or reconnect.

If you’re single, it means you might want to take some time to figure out exactly what you want in a partner before welcoming someone new into your life.

If you’re in a relationship, you are entering a period of peacefulness with your partner.

6th Card

When the Seven of Wands is reversed it means turning your back on your own truths and beliefs and convictions.

It can also represent making a compromise or being unpopular.

Let the conflict go.

Fight only if it is worth fighting, even if you’ve already invested time and energy in it.

If your cause is just, stand by your convictions as indicated by the Seven of Wands.

The Seven of Wands in a love ,If you’re single, it might mean that you’re going to have to work very hard to get the person you desire.

If you’re in a relationship, be prepared to fight for what you want and need.

Bottom of the deck

When the Hermit card is upright it symbolizes counsel, inner strength, prudence, caution, vigilance, patience, and withdrawal.

You might be impatient with people who cannot see what you can see, and you may have a desire to be alone.

You are diving deep and figuring things out for yourself.

It might mean you need to be alone to do the self-reflection that’s necessary right now.

The Hermit card in a love is an indication of a fresh start.

If you’re single and you’ve recently retreated (perhaps due to previous heartbreak), you’re finally ready to put your heart back out there.

If you’re in a relationship, it might mean you and your partner need to focus on each other. Independence is good, but there’s a reason you’re together.

I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.

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Sending Love to you all

Stacie xx

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Losing yourself to find yourself

Life is a funny old thing isn’t it?

How many of us find ourselves hoping for a better day ahead.

You can find yourself so wrapped up with daily routine and structure, you forget how much of your life is passing you by.

Do you crumble at the idea of not having a plan in place for every outting or experience in life.

Then you just maybe existing and not living.

A lot of people need structure and fear spontaneous life events.

The classic what if moment.

That fills us with anxiety and fear of rejection.

Some of the best experiences in life are followed by a ephiany moment….

We as humans are stronger than we think.

An advantage human can go through several transition in a lifetime its how we evolve and adapt to change.

As you know change is inevitable and if the universe thinks that you are heading in the wrong direction it will make changes for you.

We loose our true self for all sorts or reasons but one thing is pretty much certain we always find our way back to our authentic self.

It’s difficult feeling being lost and hopeless, not knowing what’s next.

But not every situation needs to be controlled and it doesn’t need a plan either.

If your like me then I find it extremely hard to let my guard down and trust people, I hate not knowing why and when, but one thing I’ve learnt is it doesn’t matter how much you need structure or answers you don’t always get it.

For myself now don’t force anything any more because anything that needs to be forced isn’t worth having.

And great things can happen when you loosen the grip of needed to control everything.

There’s no magic eight ball…

But you have your intuition so use it well and trust the process only then will you find the way back to your authentic self.

Love to you all

Stacie xxx