I’ve always had the the ability to tell the truth regarding situations and my own emotions.
This blog this evening is something that I’ve been struggling to come to terms with.
And that’s understanding that when it comes to love and relationships it simply can’t be all onesided.
I know most people have dealt with similar situations in regards to connections.
Can anyone here genuinely say they have ever been so in love that they would do anything to make the other person happy and completely disregarding their own feelings in order to be more appealing to the other party I know I have.
You know how it goes you play it cool try and keep busy but all your waiting for is the next….
To then find that it never comes.
One thing I’ve realised is that connections work both ways effort needs to come from both sides.
Your not the one who takes orders from a ringleader.
You make your own rules and follow them as you wish.
Over the years I’ve put my everything into my connections with people, I’ve really gone above board to make people happy, trouble is with me, I wear my heart on my sleeve I always have, and I love to love it’s just in my nature.
One thing I’ve realised over the past few months is that sometimes the universe will remove toxic people from your life other times you must remove them yourself.
Those who bring ill intentions into our lives do not or will not love us.
They will simply take what they need then leave.
That isn’t someone who loves you.
Love and respect is a two way street.
Never wait for someone to change their mind regarding their feelings.
That may never happen which leaves you feeling deflated.
Always be true to you but when the times right you will meet someone who understands you completely and no matter what the feelings will be mutual never onesided.
Loving all the wrong people prepares us to completely be ourselves and be at peace in our lives.
But most importantly it prepares us to receive the love we all deserve.
Welcome to my first guest blog , I decided to start writing guest articles a few month’s ago because I believe in empowering others.
Guest Blogging is a fantastic way of sharing other peoples talent’s and showing your support.
So lets get to it and let me introduce to you all the wonderfully talented Kibla Ahmed.
I first come across Kibla on Instagram, I can’t quite remember how long ago but I remember being taken back by Kibla’s immense love for comic book characters and even more so the talent and passion Kibla puts into his artistic creations.
Its not very often I come across someone who loves superhero’s as much as I do but Kibla journey and progress has really amazed me.
The hard work and time that goes into Kibla’s art work actually shows with every finished piece and its truly unique.
Kibla is a truly talented artist and I truly believe he will go far but what stands out the most, Kibla always remains humble and true to himself.
My Journey Told By Kibla
My story isn’t much “sounds like the beginning of a comic book” we go through our hardships in life but I won’t bore you with that stuff but what I will do is share my journey with you from five years ago to now, Impossible is a state of mind because if you really put your mind to it anything is impossible.
I know you’ve seen this on the home page already but I live by this, I’ll put it here again as a reminder, if you’ve haven’t seen this movie go check it out.
“We’ve always defined ourselves by the ability to overcome the impossible. And we count these moments. These moments when we dare to aim higher, to break barriers, to reach for the stars, to make the unknown known. We count these moments as our proudest achievements. But we lost all that. Or perhaps we’ve just forgotten that we are still pioneers. And we’ve barely begun. And that our greatest accomplishments cannot be behind us, because our destiny lies above us.”– Cooper – Interstellar
I started this Journey back in 2013, I hadn’t put pencil to paper in 15 years. I forgot what it was like to be creative and let my mind express my imagination, I was always sketching away back in school days then got to my college years and life turned upside down, it was a whole new world, to be honest, It’s was part of my life where I forgot about my younger self and my creativeness.
As you grow older and life’s hardships kick you around for a little bit it changes us, in a lot of ways it changes you, it makes you stronger or a little bit stranger in a good way. Then the moment happens that’s all it takes that one moment and that what happened to me, sorry this parts is cheesy “I got struck by lightning but I didn’t become The Flash”, without getting into too much detail five years ago while I was in the loft clearing things I stumbled across my old sketchbooks from school days and started flicking through the pages and in that moment a colorful orgasmic moment happen in my head an explosion of memories and ideas.
A part of my mind which was locked away for almost 15 years and it all came rushing back to me, I remember sketching for hours that evening up in the loft lost within my imagination and my imagination on paper it all started there.
I think you can all agree that Kibla’s down to earth personality really shines through within his story and Kibla’s talent shows within his outstanding art work.
As i continue to follow Kibla’s journey I hope you will too ,because the world needs more positive and creative people Like Kibla.
Please take a look at some of Kibla’s creations below….
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Ive been writing this article for quite some time now debating whether or not to post it on my blog due to its controversial nature.
I have been posting in different articles about the current situation with snippets of information regarding the awakening.
I must add that a spiritual awakening isn’t about U.F.O’s and the world ending, An awakening is a shift in consciousness in which thinking and awareness separate.
For most people it is not an event but a process they undergo.
Even those rare beings who experience a sudden, dramatic, and seemingly irreversible awakening will still go through a process in which the new state of consciousness gradually flows into and transforms everything they do and so becomes integrated into their lives.
Another definition is an act or moment of becoming suddenly aware of something.
Your no longer walking around asleep , you find yourself asking questions that you wouldn’t normally ask you see situations and people for what they really are.
People who go through an awakening are not crazy , people tend to attack things they don’t understand.
My awakening started over a year ago and I still don’t feel like its complete but I know I’m near the end.
With current situations in the world along side my own awakening and the fact ive seen nobody but work colleges for the past seven months and ive not seen my own family since November 2019 , I’m starting to see there is a major injustice that is occurring within our own lives, there is a lot of people who are still asleep people who are following the system , living in fear , who are being compliance to what we are being told to do.
When you go through a awakening you drop the ego , your eyes are open to what is going on and you question everything and that’s because you no longer feel the need of control and compliance, you live your own life.
Of course everyone has there own views and I’m not here to try and change anyone’s views but the world of today needs you to wake up and stand up for your freedom.
I get asked about my awakening a lot do I find it frightening , do I find it challenging has it changed me as a person .
What I always says that change is scary yes but once you let go of the fear and you accept that you are being awakened everything is more free flowing and less confusing , its been very confusing over certain stages but I feel that ive learnt a lot over the past few months about myself and the world we live in.
So I wanted to give you all a little insight into the stages of awakening so I have listed the Ten known awakening stages below.
The 10 Stages of Awakening
You are despondent about life and are unhappy with the current state you are in. You feel unsupported or frustrated by life or those around you. You start feeling the desire take your power back and make changes.
You feel the desire to take your life into your own hands and take responsibility for it. You no longer want to rely on others or external events for your happiness. Just setting the intention to claim your power back helps to activate your energy, your chakra’s and your soul. This causes you to open your eyes. Awakening has begun.
You are able to see life in a whole new light. You experience a sense of bliss, euphoria and freedom, but there is also a pain. Suddenly, you are confronted with all sorts of emotions surrounding your past and how you have chosen to live your life. You start to question everything. You start to challenge everything.
There is a push-pull between staying awake and closing your eyes. There is a fear of what will happen if you continue on the path of awakening. You are at the point of taking a leap into the unknown. Things around your start to crumble. Your beliefs, the way you have lived your life, all start to become meaningless or mistaken. You start to feel stuck and bewildered. The ground you are walking on suddenly feels shaky, you know if you continue it will implode. At this stage, many people go back to sleep, but those who continue, begin to transform.
Everything has crumbled and you are in the dark, but you must be in the dark in order to understand the light. You look around and are perplexed by the state of the world. The poverty, the greed, the state of the environment. You wonder how this has been allowed to happen. You feel depressed and wonder how you will integrate into society. You have a desire to be a hermit, to be alone, to be with nature. The people around you can’t understand, they think its a “phase”. Suddenly there is no satisfaction in your life. You feel alone and lost, you start to question- “Who am I?”
You realize that you don’t need to change the world but you need to loosen the grip to fear and control.
You start looking within and realize that through changing yourself you will automatically change the world. You start feeling a greater sense of connectedness to the world. You start focusing your attention on love and gratitude. You may even start studying or researching spirituality or all things metaphysical. You slowly start changing your perception of the world and realize that you are on this earth for a reason.
You start to really feel and see the inter-connectedness of all things; nature, animals, the stars. You see that we are not in the Universe, but part of it. Your consciousness is and you start seeing the world on a deeper, more connected level.
Your intuition and psychic gifts expand and you see that we are all equal and one of the same. Your life starts showing you signs of synchronicity You start realizing that your thoughts, emotions and feelings shape your reality. Your lifestyle slowly starts shifting and changing to support this.
This new awareness allows you to feel one with the Universe. You start understanding your purpose. You start shifting away from the tangible and instead, realize the greater power of energy and intention. You start seeing that all you need to do to start walking the path of your higher purpose is to be your true, authentic self. You realize that your authentic self is what you have come to this earth to share.
You begin to align with your true, authentic self. Ideas burst out of you like seeds. Inspiration follows you. Things start unfolding, your destiny becomes clearer. You start attracting abundance into your life through your creations and ideas. Your life is very much transformed and the people around you and experiences that you have, reflect your current state of higher consciousness. Challenges are still presented to you, but you are better equipped emotionally and spiritually to deal with them.
As you pursue your path you realize that you are co creating with the divine .
You realize that when you surrender to and work with the Divine, things are better, bigger and have more flow. You start working alongside Source energy and understand that you will always be guided. You may even start connecting with your Spirit guides guardian angels or higher self.
Your intuition and psychic gifts may develop to be even stronger.
As you work alongside the Divine, you start to align your energy with that of unconditional love.
You are love, you radiate love and you feel love. You realize that this life is temporary and simply an experience to enjoy. You understand that the entire awakening process has simply been to make your life easier, more peaceful and more secure.
I can’t stress enough how important it is not to fight against your awakening it will happen and when it does everything will make sense and you will be amazed at what you will see when your eyes are truly open .
Please Take a look at this YouTube video below.
Please feel free to contact me via my contact box I would love to hear your awakening experience’s.
I’m here today with your weekly spiritual guidance but this week its from the Angel Therapy deck I’m so excited to use this oracle deck this week the energy felt right so here we are.
Legalities our the way before I continue with this weeks visual message and spiritual guidance.
I must state that all my guidance blogs are for entertainment only take what resonates and leave the rest.
Please note that these are general messages for all star signs and elements.
As I connect to the spiritual world this afternoon I’m getting shown a large number of people with a divide right down the middle of them their arguing and shouting at each other and getting very frustrated.
I feel the plan here was to come to either an agreement or a realisation but neither sides will compromise as I’m standing looking at the large group of people arguing back and forth in the distance I can see a small boy and a small girl both from different sides of the line slowly walking towards each other totally oblivious to others around them there is too much noise and negativity , but through all the noise and the argument the two meet and greet each other and come to a compromise and an understanding that two human being’s can have different opinions but still be as one in harmony.
With this visual message I feel its a very clear indication that throughout every storm there will comes a rainbow there will comes an understanding and compromise between two sides.
You just need to let go of the control and the ability to always think your right in every situation.
Everyone has different views and expectations, but what you mustn’t do is remain close minded to other peoples way of thinking and life , we are all individuals even though all of us are made the same way we are not wired the same way.
Very strong message here that meeting the middle is needed compromise is needed.
1st Angel Card
“Protect yourself from harsh orFear based energies by envisioning a cocoon of healing light surrounding you.”
“The angels brought this card to you because of your heightened sensitivity to energies. This sensitivity means that you may inadvertently absorb other people’s energies, which may make you feel tired, unfocused , or upset.
Just as you would not walk outdoors in a rainstorm without an umbrella, it’s important to use an energy umbrella in the face of any emotional downpour.
If you feel negative energy – or people are arguing, competing, or using frightening words – it is vital for you to shield yourself. This means imagining that a bubble of protective light surrounds your entire body. You can also ask Archangel Michael to guard you from lower energies, and you can even “borrow” his shield as a protective buffer.
2nd Oracle Card
“Ask the angels to release any toxic energies that you may have absorbed.”
“This card comes to you because the angels see that you are carrying some lower energies. Because of your high sensitivity and compassion, you may have absorbed this negativity from other people’s fears.
These toxic energies may have also sprung from your own past fears. Regardless of their material source, your angels want to help you clear your energy field.
It’s a good idea to ask for angelic clearing whenever you have experienced harsh situations where arguing, intense competition, violence, or substance abuse has occurred.
As a sensitive lightworker, you sometimes unwittingly carry others’ painful energy in a well intentioned desire to be helpful (but please ask the angels to shoulder this pain from now on, as they are equipped to handle its radioactive toxicity without harming themselves.) Ready to clear?
3rd Oracle Card
Be Willing To Forgive
“Ask the angels to clear your mind and body of past pain in exchange for peacefulness.”
“The angels are trying to help you with the topic of your question by urging you to heal anger related to your past experiences and relationships.
This old anger has become a barrier to attracting your desires, as well as a magnet that attracts similar situations to your side. This is a very important message, and your little bit of willingness to forgive is all that is required.
You do not need to forgive the action that occurred in your past.
You simply need to be willing to allow the angels to help you clear away the toxic poison of unforgiveness from your heart and mind. In this regard, you are trading pain for peace. The benefits of forgiveness include increased peace of mind, renewed energy, and the ability to focus.
4th Oracle Card
Solar Plexus Chakra
“It is safe for you to be powerful and take charge of your life in positive ways.” “This card comes to you to because the angels wish to help you with issues concerning power and control. They first want to reassure you that you are powerful. You, who were made in the image and likeness of your creator, hold those same qualities, including power. It does not matter if you feel it or if you are afraid of your inner might – the fact is: you are powerful.
Second, it is safe for you to use your power in loving ways. The angels will not allow you to abuse it, and the people who truly love you will respect and applaud your spirited words and actions. remember that power does not equate to aggression; it simply means being completely authentic with yourself and others.
The angels want to remind you that no one else is controlling you, or can control you, without your permission. You always have options and choices, and the angels can help you make those decisions if you ask. They will also assist you in feeling more in control of your life and your spiritual gifts.
5th Oracle Card
“Use your spiritual gifts and natural abilities to attract your desired outcome.”
“You have got the power! With this card, the angels remind you of your innate spiritual abilities. Perhaps you have been complaining about something or have been feeling like a victim under the influence of someone else’s will. This card is a reminder that you do have the power to change everything in your life by using your natural spiritual gifts of manifestation.
When you complain, you give away your power to others.
Complaints are also negative affirmations that attract more of the same undesirable effects. The angels would like you to replace the old complaining habit with a healthier response of visualizing and intending your desired outcome. It works!
6th Oracle Card
“The answer that you seek is in your heart right now. Be open to giving and receiving love.”
“The angels want you to trust your feelings. your heart is wise, and it is calling for you to make important changes. Trust this wisdom, as it will not let you down.
Every time you defy your inner feelings, your heart breaks a little bit. Repair your heart and your relationship with yourself by honouring your emotions.
For instance, it you are unhappy with a situation, it means that something is wrong and action is necessary. Ask the angels to give you support and courage to make healthy changes at home and work.
This card also calls upon you to open your heart to love. Perhaps you have been hurt in prior relationships and are guarded against additional pain. the angels assure you that they will protect you and your heart, so it is safe for you to feel love and other emotions.
I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.
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Evening all I’ve not late night blogged for a while but it’s Sunday evening and
I’m filled with anxiety again.
There’s days where I need to have a moment to myself just to put my head straight.
It’s extremely difficult to be one hundred percent who you are these days.
I find that people are very judgmental and quick to jump to conclusions.
Without the facts.
I have to say that sometimes humans don’t have an alternative motif for just simply being helpful or truthful.
Sometimes it’s just in their nature to be honest without fear and to want to work hard to make a difference.
I truly believe that the current situation I find myself in is exactly where I need to be, you find yourself in certain situations in life where there is either lessons to be learnt or truth to be given in order for change to take place.
Somethings been stagnant for to long stubborn for change then….
You smack bang in the middle of a situation you either need to learn from or make a difference.
One thing I’ve realised is when you see through people your not very well liked that’s a know fact.
When your real and disconnect from the drama that’s when you become the drama and in no way shape or form have I got time for drama.
I’m literally at that stage where I still feel anxious and some days I’m not as strong.
But honestly your put on this earth to yes be thoughtful of others but to also be thoughtful of yourself.
I can’t stress enough to people if your struggling to juggle life and struggling with the people around you.
Distance is sometimes the best key you can never pour from an empty cup.
You can make sure your vessel is fine but if the minds off balance then the two don’t work in harmony.
Don’t put to much pressure on yourself to be the perfect parent, sibling, partner, friend or work colleague.
You need to nurture your own soul before you give to others.
When people try and drag you into Drama don’t fall for it, if it’s not your issue then leave it, some people don’t like the truth and can be….
But don’t fall for it you can’t fix everything or everyone so don’t try to.
Just be honest to yourself and honest with others and if your respected for it great if not there’s no love lost.
Do any of you get bored of you’re hair colours very quickly…
If so you are very much like me I get so bored of being the same all the time , It doesn’t matter how many times you reinvent yourself as long as your happy that all that matters.
So I swapped my shadow root black and red hair to split coloured hair this weekend , Ive been wanting to do for a while and because I’m a bit impulsive and different i hate looking the same just to fit in with society.
So I don’t really listen to other peoples opinion’s as I live my life the way I want to live it.
Home Hair colouring can send shockwaves of anxiety through your body , so many questions surrounding home haircolouring but ive decided to do this blog to try and ease your worries.
I must add i have had training and passed both in hair & beauty level 2 & 3.
So please be aware I am familiar with the science behind hair products.
I must state that if your going to colour your own hair please follow the guidelines on the the product you purchase regarding patch testing before going ahead with the full head colouring .
Select your best shade
To find your best shade at the store, eye those close to your current one.
Boxed dyes are usually displayed in colour order on a shelf, Hold a section of your hair up to a box to find a close match, then choose from the next two shades on either side.
You don’t want to run out of dye halfway through the process.
Make sure you purchase enough product
If your hair is shoulder length or longer, you may need two boxes to cover your whole head, depending on hair thickness.
If you end up with a leftover box, you can always save it for next time or return it.
Do not mix Hair colours of different shades
Unless you’re a professional, combining multiple different shades of hair colour is not recommended (ever!).
None of the major companies would guarantee that the resulting colour would be a predictable combination.
In fact, even when you stick with a single colour, the result usually varies slightly from what’s pictured on the box.
Your best bet is to simply pick one shade and follow the instructions to the letter, strand test included.
Always follow strand and skin test procedures
Though bypassing it is tempting, the strand test is key, especially when trying a new shade.
Colour a few trimmed or hidden hairs first, then look at the result before you commit.
A common horror story from testers who didn’t do this hair that turned orange and purple or green.
Having the right tools to do the task at hand.
Set up your tools on the counter before you begin.
Read through the included instructions before you jump in.
That way, you’ll be clear on the steps and won’t have to stop mid-process, which could lead to mistakes like leaving the dye on too long or missing areas.
Always Apply Colour to dry hair
Hair colour experts (and hair colour packaging directions) recommend dyeing your hair when it is dry.
When hair is saturated with water, the dye may not take to the hair strands or become diluted, producing an undesirable result.
You should begin applying hair dye at the roots.
Always apply to the roots first
Because they are where regrowth occurs first and the least damaged part of hair, they need the most colour and processing time.
Let the hair colour develop for the amount of time indicated on packaging directions. Then comb it through the rest of your hair to distribute it evenly and avoid a two-tone effect.
Look in two mirror’s
Colouring the back of your head can be tricky.
Use a double mirrors to check the back of your head in the bathroom mirror as you colour so you won’t miss spots.
Get rid of unwanted dye spills before they stain your skin.
To sweep away any dye splatters as they happen so they don’t have a chance to set, have facial cleansing wipes on hand or a simply baby wipe will do.
Choosing new colour hair products
No shampoo is totally colour-safe, since all shampooing requires wetting hair — and water itself strips dye “Though sulphate-free shampoos are thought to slow down colour loss, our tests have found that they don’t always perform significantly better than those with sulphate’s.
Extend your shade’s life with a shampoo or conditioner designed specifically for colour-treated hair ,Look for terminology such as “colour protect,” “colour-preserving” or “for colour” on packaging. They’re less likely to strip away added colour (which other products may), so your new shade lasts longer.
Some find it easier to just go to the salon and leave it to the expert’s but for me I like to do my own hair because I know exactly what I want and from experience not all salons will give you your desired outcome.
But please know I do have previous experience within the hairdressing industry to perform more complex hair colouring technique’s on my own hair.
Here is my new colour below ….
If you have any questions please feel free to contact me using the contact box or comments below..
Evening all better late then never but today’s weekly guidance is a little later than normal.Its Friday evening and I’m in my home office ready to channel your weekly messages and guidance.lets get the legalities out the way ..All my spiritual guidance posts are for entertainment purpose only.All weekly guidance posts contain general messages and guidance for all signs and elements.I hope you enjoy but take what resonates and leave the rest.
Weekly Vision MessageI’m on a roller coaster I’m approaching the lift hill its dark, I can see the fairground lights in the distance.
I can feel the breeze on my face I can’t hear anything but my own heart beating and the mechanics of the train , the feeling of apprehension and fear of what’s to come the unknown is rippling through me , my brain is telling me to get off but my heart’s telling me to take the leap of faith be spontaneous.Just as the train is about to go over the edge the vision fades.Within this Vision I have come to a understanding that some of you must come to a decision do you stay with what’s safe and known or do you take a leap of faith and ride the rollercoaster we call life , I also believe its an understanding of oneself the desire to live life and not to just exist.
Feeling stuck in a situation is taking its toll on you and i feel you maybe staying put because of fear of hurting others by meeting your desire.
Three Of Pentacles
The Three of Pentacles in Tarot stands for teamwork, planning, and competence. The Three of Pentacles meaning in a Tarot reading is about overcoming the impossible.The three of pentacles means you will be successful if you let others help you achieve your goals. You don’t have to do it all by yourself. In fact, to succeed, you need to work with a team toward a common goal.This is not the time to rush into anything. You need to plan and prepare and think through the various possibilities.
The Six of Swords
The Six of Swords in Tarot stands for the blues, recovery, and travel. It represents pushing through a rough sea to reach calmer waters.The Six of Swords can mean that you might be in a bad place right now, but you are moving toward something better.Things might have been difficult, sad, or depressing, but you are moving to a more positive place and more hopeful conditions.The appearance of the Six of Swords may also indicate recovery, especially if you have experienced rough times.In troubled times, nothing matters at all. You just feel numb and disconnected.As times goes by, you begin to pick up the pieces of your life as you begin to recover. At times, recovery may mean moving to new places.The Six of Swords card also represents travel and moving to new places.
This would normally mean a physical relocation, but this may be far from the truth.The travel or move could indicate an inner journey, a journey from one frame of mind to another.
The Temperance can be difficult to interpret, but in general it’s about the blending of opposites and the achieving of synthesis.Its also the Sagittarius card in the tarot deck so listen out if your a Sagittarius.This card is all about harmony, peace, and patience. it symbolizes moderation, temperance, patience, harmony, fusion, good influence, and confidence.This card can also be a warning to temper your behaviour and a reminder that irreconcilable opposites can be reconciled.You are truly connected to what makes a good life, and you are living it.You have a strict moral code, and you will work hard to reach your goals, whatever they might be.But don’t be to stubborn Sagittarius you might loose out on something that’s truly going to make you happy.
Three of Cups
The Three of Cups in Tarot stands for exuberance, friendship, and community.The Three of Cups meaning in a Tarot reading is coming together in love.It comes from the viewpoint of emotions, such as feelings you have when joining with others, whether that’s a friendship or a community.It signifies feelings around friendship.It represents community and the network created when we interact with others.You may find you have a lot of parties and celebrations on your calendar for the future.Lots of making up for lost time.It may also mean time to examine your attachments from an emotional point of view.
The card may also represent all types of support, including giving and receiving help.
Queen Of Pentacles
The Queen of Pentacles stands for nurturing, bigheartedness, resourcefulness, and trustworthiness.The Queen of Pentacles meaning in Tarot is that something needs to be done, and she’s here to help make it happen.Her personality is a combination of the positive earth energy of the Pentacles suit and the inward focus of a Queen.She is warm and generous, and she takes great pleasure in caring for and nurturing others. Sensible and practical, she ensures everyone is happy and secure.The Queen of Pentacles is always ready to calm your fears and share all your troubles.Queen of Pentacles means you think as she does.You feel warm and caring toward others.You are sensible in your approach. You are true to your word. You’re highly generous, and best of all, you can be trusted when the chips are down.By drawing the Queen of Pentacles card, you can be inspired by the atmosphere of warmth, trust, security, and whatever else the Queen stands for, including her special energy.One for our fellow earth signs Taurus , Virgo or Capricorn the significant link between all earth signs and one fire sign here so you maybe dealing with either a fire sign or earth sign when linking the Queen of Pentacle’s and the Temperance.
Knight Of Cups
The Knight of Cups in stands for being romantic, imaginative, and sensitive.The Knight of Cups meaning in a Tarot reading can also be somewhat moody and temperamental, but also a thing of great beauty, both the creation of beautiful things and the appreciation of them.
It is charm, affection, and big, big emotions.With the Knight of Cups you need to check whether the energy of the Knight is helpful to you or not.Is your home life full of emotions, or is it ruled by common sense? You need to check your feelings. Are they excessive or appropriate? Are you being driven crazy by someone’s moodiness? If this style of the Knight is evident, it might be time for a change, a time for balance.If the style and energy of the Knight are missing, you may need to try something else. Express yourself instead of being restrained.Try being extravagant instead of being practical.
Visit the Knight’s world of romance and beauty.I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.Please feel free to share like and comment and donate to my blog if you wish.
Tonight’s article is all about changing your mindset and applying positivity to your own life.
I wanted to talk this evening on changing your own mindset , I know that sometimes its difficult to remain positive in tough situation’s or when your surrounded by negative people.
But you will be surprised how quickly life will change when you remain positive and manifest the life you require.
No one want’s to just settle in life but the key is to always be one step ahead.
Changing your mindset wont happen overnight it will happen gradually you will start to see progression in your own life just from changing the way you think and react to situations and people around you.
Let me ask you a few questions..
Have you always put other people’s happiness before your own?
2. Do you sometimes feel envious of other peoples lives’ ?
3.Do you want to make positive changes but don’t know how ?
Let me answer the best way I can.
Are you a human being who thrives on making others smile and making people happy , do you put there happiness before your own ?
Let me stop you right there without sounding to harsh its ok to wear your heart on your sleeve but you can’t pour from an empty glass , you must make sure you nurture your own soul before you give your all to someone else, if you have ever gone along with a situation that your not completely at ease with just to make someone else happy this is where I stop you and say don’t put yourself in a situation you don’t feel comfortable with just to please someone else in the long run you will only have regrets.
You should feel able to openly speak with family and friends if you don’t feel comfortable with a situation, If you don’t feel you can openly communicate then maybe working on your relationship’s and friendship’s are needed and understanding is needed from both parties.
Its ok to feel envious of people, not everyone has the same outlook on life or wish fulfilment, everyone’s back story is different too, if its wealth you seek or true love make sure to apply manifestation to your life.
I would highly recommend a dream board to start the law of attraction process within your life.
Many people have used this technique to apply positivity to their lives.
May i also suggest this amazing book I’ve come across to help you understand the applying of law and attraction to the universe.
It can be extremely difficult to make changes in life when your unsure on where to start , I’m going to give you a few pointers below.
1. Identify and understand what you want to change.
Whenever you decide to make a change, you must first understand why you’re making the change in the first place.
“You need to be able to identify what it is about your goal that adds to you as a person, that makes you feel better and more expansive,”
If your goal aligns with your core values, then “the thought of it will trigger a positive gut feeling.”
2. Rid your life of negativity.
This is not as simple as it may sound. If you’re surrounded by negativity, then how can you expect to have a positive and joyful life?
In fact, those who are negative or surrounded by negativity are more stressed, get sick more often, and have less opportunities than those who are positive.
“When we make a decision to become positive, and follow that decision up with action, we will begin to encounter situations and people that are also positive.”
Of course, that’s easier said than done. That’s why he suggests that you can accomplish this goal by doing the following:
You’ll find when you complete these steps, you’ll become more confident in your life.
3. Exercise more often.
You may be getting tired of hearing everyone telling you that you need more exercise. Sure. Exercising is great for you physically. But, it’s also an excellent way to become more positive in life.
Exercise can change the direction of most situations in your life.
The benefits of exercise are immeasurable. You gain purpose, drive, but most of all it teaches you a discipline.
For starters, when you exercise, you feel better about yourself, which leads to having more confidence. Exercise also reduces anxiety and stress and releases euphoric chemicals in the brain like endorphins and dopamine.
4. Build a support network.
A “strong social support network can be critical to help you through the stress of tough times, whether you’ve had a bad day at work or a year filled with loss or chronic illness.” This group of friends, family, and peers is also important because they provide additional benefits like providing a sense of belonging, an increase in self-worth, and a feeling of security whenever you need advice, information, or guidance.
5. Take baby steps.
“The one primary motivator that leads us to persevere is baby steps, That’s because when we look at the big picture we can get overwhelmed with all of the steps involved in achieving a goal.
Instead, break the “big picture goal down into systematic, manageable baby steps.” Then, document and celebrate your wins daily.
This will help you achieve that change that you’ve been seeking in a positive way and meaningful way.
Key is not to be so hard on yourself change can be fearful but letting go of negative influences and patterns can open new pathways.
Just always remember to nurture yourself and let positivity flow.