Weekly Spiritual Guidance 04/09/2020 to 11/09/2020

Hello Everyone

I hope you are all well..

It’s that time of the week again for your weekly spiritual guidance from Seashells & Lipgloss blog.

I really do hope that all my readers enjoy them and please don’t forget to share like and subscribe to my blog for other daily blog posts on life love and everything else in-between.

As I must always state that all my weekly spiritual guidance’s posts are for entertainment purpose only.

My guidance’s posts are for all signs and elements.

Take What resonates and leave the rest to the universe.

 

 

My spiritual vision message for this week is…

This week as I was tuning into spirit ready for your guidance messages , I was shown a fast flowing stream, I also saw a girl with a large orange autumn leaf in her hand she want’s to put the leaf in the stream and let if float away but she’s worried that the stream will overpower the leaf and drag it under water.

What she feels is panic and fear of what might happen to the leaf if she lets go of it.

She sits there a while calm’s her thoughts and her mind as she contemplates she notices that whist she’s taken a step back to focus on herself that the stream has calmed down its not so fast moving anymore and her fear for the leaf has passed.

She is now able to let go and watch it sail down into the horizon until she can no longer see the leaf and she’s let go of the fear.

The moral to this vision is sometimes we don’t act on situations due to the fear of what might or might not happen but as we take a step back to refocus ourselves and evaluate situations we move forward with a more clear and positive mindset, this allows us to let go and move on to better and bigger things , just from releasing fear of the unknown.

1st Card

The Justice card in Tarot is about reason, truth, and, yes, justice.

This is the card about cold, objective balance.

It’s also about moderation in all things, as well as the realities of karma. If you’re not keeping the scales balanced, there could be some fallout.

Justice symbolizes harmony, balance, equality, righteousness, virtue, honour, and advice.

It can also mean a time for adjustments, as well as an opportunity to bring physical, emotional, social, and spiritual things back into balance.

It also means it is time to stand tall and strong against the things that might be trying to throw you off balance.

2nd Card

The Lovers card in Tarot symbolizes love, as well as romance, connection, attraction, and perfect harmony.

The basic symbols of this card are an angel or Cupid, a man and a woman, and two trees. In some decks, there is a man standing between two women, and in some decks, one tree is flowering and the other has fruit.

 it stands for love, harmony, trust, honour, the beginning of romance, and optimism.

It is a card of passion, and feeling passionate, but it isn’t strictly about romantic relationships and intense interpersonal bonds.

One basic meaning of this card is that you may come across a divergence you dare not miss, no matter the difficulty, even if it is against your chosen path.

Be on the lookout for this opportunity, and don’t automatically take the easy road.

Think things over before you come to a decision.

Perhaps it’s time to take a leap of faith in love and connections.

3rd Card

 

The Seven of Pentacles means you need a time-out.

This isn’t a card of finality. This is an in-between card that means you have to pause and check your strategy.

The image on the card is a person who has worked hard and then paused to take some time to admire their work.

It means it is time to catch your breath after a lot of activity.

It’s time to assess your work and what you get from that work.

Maybe you’ve been so busy that you haven’t taken the time to reflect on what you’ve accomplished.

This is the time to take stock of your situation and make sure you’re getting the results you want.

4th Card

 

The Hierophant card in Tarot symbolizes traditional values and is often associated with the religious or spiritual.

The purpose of the Hierophant is to bring the spiritual down to earth.

The basic meaning of this Tarot card is to create harmony in the face of crisis. During a crisis, the Hierophant diffuses the panic and offers good and practical advice.

The basic symbols of the Hierophant card are twin pillars, a staff, throne, the triple crown of a pope, a hand raised in blessing, and two acolytes.

 It symbolizes a need to conform and social approval on the one hand, and mercy, forgiveness, compassion, conformity, and inspiration on the other.

This card means that you know how to solve your problem even though it isn’t very easy.

5th Card

 

The Nine of Pentacles in Tarot stands for discipline, self-reliance, and refinement.

The Nine of Pentacles meaning in a Tarot reading is positive.

It’s about not concentrating too much on the business side of life, represented by coins in the image that are placed toward the ground.

On the other hand, there is another side to life: the arts, music, and the other forms of beauty that are very much part of our lives.

You have to enjoy these finer things, too.

It’s time to let go and enjoy the finer things in life and share that abundance with others. You’ve earned it. It’s time to focus less on work and more on enjoying arts and culture. The card also signifies self-reliance. Remember to trust your own abilities.

This is the time to take matters into your own hands.

6th Card

The Queen of Swords in Tarot stands for honesty, astuteness, forthrightness, wittiness, and experience.

Her personality is a combination of the positive air energy of the Swords suit and the inward focus of a Queen.

The Queen of Swords admires honesty, is committed to truth, and tells you exactly as it is. She has no interest in lies or tricks and has a marked lack of pretence.

She fully understands the good and the bad of the world and is not easy to fool.

She can easily analyse a situation, and she can identify a tricky one coming at her.

Her observations are straightforward and candid and not meant to be hurtful.

Another of the traits of the Queen of Swords is a sense of humour along with witty comebacks.

It means you need to think and feel like her.

The first and foremost way is to be completely honest. You need to figure out what is going on and ensure that you are not letting yourself be fooled.

You may also need to see the humour in a situation you are facing, and make sure that you’re inspired by her special energy.

I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.

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𝕎𝕙𝕒𝕥’𝕤 𝕞𝕪 𝕞𝕚𝕤𝕤𝕚𝕠𝕟

Hi

Here’s a little bit of late night blogging for you.

This is always the time that I reflect on my day.My house is quite and my mind is clear.

I was asked today what my mission was in life, do I have direct plans on where I would like my future to go.People are absolutely obsessed with making plans.

Yes it’s essential for travel and the more constructive way of life but when we look into our connections with people and future plans how can you really plan ahead.

Time changes in an instant so do connections no one can be prepared for that you just have to do your best to deal with situations as there unfolding.

No amount of planning can stop the inevitable from happening.I think this is where humans really go wrong in life.

Trying to press the stop button before their feet have even left the ground running.

It’s difficult trying to be yourself in a world that’s so judgemental.

My mission in life is to show people that anything is possible if you believe that you can achieve it.

So my mission is positivity, I won’t get involved with anything or anyone who I know will either have distructive trait or cause unessary negative vibes.

It’s not what I’m about anymore.I don’t want it and the world doesn’t need it.With great change also comes sacrifice you loose parts of yourself which you thought you where holding on to for all the right reasons turns out its only causing you more damage in the long run.

My mission isn’t to preach my mission is to make people awake to their own surroundings and to what serves thier greater good.

It feels great to give to connections but make sure you’re also giving to yourself.

Love to you all

Stacie xxx

Getting Back To Normal

Good Afternoon All.

I hope your having a great bank holiday tomorrow my annual leave is over and it’s back to work for me.

As the Country tries to get back to some sort of normality, I know there will be many apprehensive parents regarding sending children back into full time education.

I don’t normally talk about my children on my blog but, I wanted to share my experience dealing with my own children and current pandemic covid 19 and how its affected there social needs.

I am fully aware that I’m not the only parent who has had similar issues especially if you have older children in high school .

When lockdown hit a state of national panic set in it’s a situation when have never had to deal with undoubtable it was freighting at times , the fear of daily life’s restricted and of course catching the virus and spreading it to more vulnerable people was a massive worry , schools , shops , entertainment venues where forced to shut people where continually glued to social media and the news.

As a parent we have to try and be strong for our children me I’m already O.C.D about my kids touching things and being to far away from me unless their in a secure environment like school or with family.

But what i haven’t really understood until now is how its deeply affected them both mentally and physically.

School is a normal way of life its six hours from Monday to Friday where they are learning, mixing with friends without the influence of parents.

School helps children grow it gives them their confidence and helps them widen there skills to help them through the early stages of Life.

I’ve seen mixed emotions online regarding children going back to school , if you want my honest view and this is totally my personal opinion on it all , I may get some negative press regarding this but honestly it’s just how I perceive the situation

It’s time for them to go back , of course they will not be able to mix with children in a normal manner but at least its a start to bringing back their normal routine.

I have to say home schooling has been somewhat stressful its been many years since I was school and the curriculum has changed so much i know I’m not the only parent who will agree.

My youngest child has asked many questions regarding Covid and ive tried to give the most honest replies some time’s its not been easy but we have managed to explain the best way we know how.

My eldest i feel has been frightened it got to the point I’ve had to remove her social media with there being a lot of fake news she can be very vulnerable so i felt it was the best outcome to try and ease her anxiety.

When talking to our children about difficult situations it can leave us a wreck it makes us really question our abilities as parents, here we have tiny humans who are like sponges may I add they absorb all information that may not hold the complete truth, that in itself causes anxiety and depression over time.

Ive watched my children closely over this pandemic and ive noticed certain negative changes and its been challenging even more than normal.

Ive tried to put plans in place to help them both progress but what i have found out is that being open and talking to each other on a level a child or teenager would understand its helped ease their worries.

I have listed a few tips below to help worried parents , try not to be to hard on yourself either.

  • Don’t be afraid to talk about it: Convey the facts and set an emotionally reassuring tone.
  • Be age-appropriate: Teens can process and handle a higher level of detail than five year olds. Focus on answering your child/student’s questions. Do your best to answer honestly and clearly; it’s okay if you can’t answer everything.
  • Follow their lead: Invite your child or student to ask questions and share their perspective: Invite them to tell you anything they may have heard about the coronavirus and express how they feel.
  • Check yourself: Feeling anxious? Take some time to calm down before trying to have a conversation or answer your child’s questions.
  • Focus on actions you can take: Emphasize safety precautions everyone can take to help keep themselves and others healthy: good hand hygiene, cough and sneeze etiquette, social distancing and staying home if you aren’t feeling well.
  • Stick to routine: Structured days with regular mealtimes and bedtimes are an essential part of keeping kids happy and healthy.
  • Keep talking: Tell kids/students you will keep them updated as you learn more. Let them know the lines of communication are going to be open and as you learn more, you will share the information with them, too.

Please feel free to share this image with your children.

(Not schools are recommending facemasks’ be sure to check your child’s school for guidelines )

I know there will be many worried parents over the next few days but we are all in this together please remember that school’s have guidelines that they need to stick by ordered by the government like everything a massive learning curve for us all i do feel this will be the way of life for a while.

But its so important that we address the mental health side of this pandemic within children as they are the next generation and support and structure is needed.

Im sending love to you all.

Stacie x

𝕀’𝕧𝕖 𝔾𝕠𝕥 𝕄𝕪 𝕆𝕨𝕟 𝔹𝕒𝕔𝕜

Evening all

I haven’t published any late night blogs for a while.

I’ve been busy with life and a few things have changed for me.As life progresses we expect a lot of change, we have to expect change otherwise there will be no forward movement.

You find that where you are just isn’t enough anymore.

For me it isn’t my location it’s my actual life I’ve not been happy for a while and I’ve realised that if I keep going round on this hamster wheel I may never get off, it’s only certain aspects of my life I find I’m feeling a little stuck and undervalued.

So I’ve had to put plans in motion for change.

You can’t grow if you stay in the shade.

I’ve taken many risks in my younger years and many haven’t worked out but it was a massive learning curve for me.

Being a mum, someone’s daughter, sister and friend sometimes isn’t easy.

And to be honest I know I’ve been hard work at times.

I don’t answer phone calls, messages for days on end just way I am I live in my own little space sometimes it all gets a little to much.

Don’t get me wrong I’m a strange person I like love but also crave my own space, I can’t stand constant communication or talking all the time.

I get easily irritated by forced conversations and will withdraw and zone out if put in a position I don’t feel comfortable in.

I like people but only small group of people they will tend to be long term friendships I will only forge new friendships If I really want to.

I will literally help anyone anyway I can within reason.

But alot of people can’t take to me and my personality.

I used to let that affect the way I saw myself but now I don’t care I just let people think what they want to think.

They say when you stop pleasing others and start pleasing yourself that’s when life really takes flight.

That’s the truth your vibe will attract the right type of people to your life and repel the wrong type of people because that’s when you are truly aligned with yourself.

Now I don’t rely on anyone but myself .

I’m making things happen for myself and I will do whatever it takes to get to my own happiness.

I’m half way through writing my own book.

My blog is doing amazing

I have new opportunities all the time.

But I know down the line I will have to take more leaps of faith to see where it guides me but now I have my own back I will achieve anything.

Love to you all

Stacie xx

Blindsided

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Good Morning All

Its Saturday Which means its the weekend..

I awoke from not much sleep but Ive worked out coffee in hand I’m ready to be creative and let my passion flow.

Ive been getting a lot of emails and messages lately honestly I love getting messages from you all asking me for my guidance regarding your situations it makes me feel like I know what I’m talking about & also I like being helpful to other people.

I received an email of a lady in the U.S.A she had previously come across my blog and wanted my advice after her relationship of thirteen years ended abruptly.

I’m going to be honest I could feel her pain whilst reading her email one line that will always stick with me is I’m lost I really don’t know how I will carry on.

I just wanted to give her a hug because when your in love with someone and the feelings are no longer there on the partners side its a terrible feeling.

You just don’t know what you could of possibly done wrong, was you the actual problem all along.

Lets go over what the actual meaning of blindsided in love .

Blindside in love happens when one person thinks that everything is smooth and perfect in the relationship and suddenly the other person announces that they want to opt out. Being blindsided can shatter a person as it is unexpected and came without a warning.

We don’t see the red flags because we are so in love with someone we put them on a pedestal, it doesn’t matter what that person does to us we just don’t see the bigger picture.

  1. Your Feelings Are Normal

When you fail to pick up any signs that your partner was unhappy in the relationship and then suddenly ends it, you are going to feel like you have been blindsided by a breakup.

It’s normal to feel total shock and disbelief that this is happening to you because you thought you were both happy.

You will torture yourself with endless questions wondering how did it all go wrong. All these feelings are normal and they will pass as you process this heart breaking event.


2. Don’t Blame Yourself

Aside from cheating or doing something equally as destructive in the relationship, you can’t take the full blame for being splitting up.

If your ex wasn’t happy, they should have spoken up and discussed the issues that were bothering them.

But some people feel it’s easier to walk away rather than work through the issues towards a better relationship. You might have just been unlucky enough to fall for one of these types.


3. Take Time For Yourself

Be kind to yourself as you process this breakup.

Your heart has taken quite a blow without warning and it’s going to feel as if your world has been flipped upside down.

Often, your self-esteem will take a steep nosedive because you are going to feel unloved and unwanted.

The best way to combat these negative feelings is to pamper yourself so you get mini boosts of happiness as you work your way through the emotional pain.


4. Be Happy With Other People

Keep misery to a minimum by hanging out with good friends that can give you a shoulder to cry on.

Do fun things that you enjoy to take your mind off the breakup.

It’s really easy to slip into depression when someone you love tells you that they don’t want to be with you.

Surround yourself with people who think positive and can cheer you up when you are hurting the most.


5. Don’t Waste Your Time Trying To Convince Them.

The last thing you should do is try to convince them that they have made a mistake. Although it may have come as a complete surprise to you, it’s highly likely they where thinking about exiting the relationship long before it happened.

They had gave it a lot of thought before they actually initiated the breakup.

At this point, they have had more time to process the painful emotions and has detached themselves from them.


6. Acceptance Wont Come Easy

Although it always takes some time to accept a breakup, this one is going to be particularly difficult because you weren’t expecting to lose them at all.

You will remember the most recent time that they said “I love you” and struggle with the idea that their feelings couldn’t have changed that quickly.

Worst of all is that you will expect them to come back to you, and many times they won’t. It’s best to think of that relationship as a chapter in your life that has come to an end unless they says otherwise.


7. Distract Yourself

Find distractions to keep your mind from drowning in memories of your old relationship.

After you have been through a blindsiding breakup, your mind is going to struggle and try to make sense of the whole situation, which will bring up many old memories.

Find things to distract yourself like find a new hobby, sign up for a class in something you have always wanted to learn or learn a new language. The goal is to distract yourself so you won’t constantly be tortured by thoughts of your ex.

The key is to work on yourself when you go through a situation like this not because you where the problem in the first place but because you deserve to be loved and understood being blindsided can really be a whirlwind process but you will get through it , it just takes time.

You will learn new things about yourself when your in a state of vulnerability but you must always remember not every relationship will be the same as your last so please don’t give up on love when the time is right you will know but for now take your time and get to know yourself.

Please don’t Hesitate to email me if you need my advice using contact box below .

I’m Sending you love.

Stacie xxx

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Weekly Spiritual Guidance Blog 28/08/2020 to 4/09/2020

Good Afternoon everyone.

I’m super excited to share this weeks spiritual guidance blog with you all.

Firstly I want to say that I really do hope that my guidance blogs helps all my readers in some way or another, I have had a spiritual gift for all my life and a huge interest in what come’s to us all after our passing for a very long time but I will save that for another blog.

My spiritual guidance blogs are all about you guys and me giving something back to you all as good will gesture for always taking the time out to read my blogs and support me in everything I do.

So lets get on with the legalities and get the boring stuff out the way first..

I have to state that all my guidance blogs are for entertainment purpose’s only .

My weekly guidance blogs are for all signs and elements, take what resonates and leave the rest to the universe .

Here we go..

I have a little message from the universe to everyone who’s really struggling with life at the moment.

Whilst connecting to gain clarity regarding your guidance today I was show a very clear image of a shadow person in front this shadow person two pathways formed as the vision got clearer I started to see more of a clearer outline of the shadow person, he was male , his expression on his face was somewhat of confusion and fear after a short while and hesitation…

I herd what path should I take the right one it seems less bumpy more plain sailing but what seeks me at the end is safe , unfulfilling in the long run it seems and easy less effort I have a dreaded feeling of regret.

He looks at the left path its full of bumps its looks scary full of uncertainties, dark corners great highs and steep lows he feels fear , excitement , great love and release from the ties of life.

As he stands there he knows he has to make a choice he can’t keep holding back in the darkness and floating about hoping everything will work out fine.

This is a very clear message I get for a lot of you, if you want something in life you have to make it happen it won’t just fall in your lap the universe doesn’t work like that you have to put the effort in .

If you want that dream job get of your butt start researching now on training , work on gaining skills and the opportunities’ will be endless.

If you have wanted a connection with someone emotionally for a while but you have always been held back by your own emotions and fear , speak your truth because it something wonderful can happen from just one honest truthful conversation if it works out great if it doesn’t no regret’s only lesson’s learnt.

Life doesn’t have a road map you don’t always need a plan because plans, people and situations can change just like the direction of the wind you need to live in the present and the now.

First Card

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Four of Cups

Has the grass been looking greener on the other side?

The Four of Cups is a card that tells us we aren’t looking at the good things we already have in our lives, and instead are longing for what we could have.

When this card appears in your readings, it’s challenging you to stop daydreaming about what you could have in your life and instead count your blessings.

The Four of Cups is a warning that we need to be more appreciative of what we have, and show a little more gratitude towards the things we’ve already been blessed with.

When we become self-absorbed, and start taking what we have for granted, we tend to miss out on other opportunities.

The Four of Cups calls attention to the fact that while you are busy wondering about other things, you’re missing out on the chance to improve what you already have.

Second Card

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Five Of Cups

The Five of Cups is a surprisingly complex card for being a part of the Minor Arcana.

It is depicted as five golden chalices, three of which have been knocked to their sides while the remaining two stay standing.

This card brings about confirmation of loss, sorrow, and despair, but also signifies that there is light at the end of the tunnel.

The three downed cups typically refer to the feelings you already have about your situation.

Whatever it may be that life has thrown at you, it can be hard to come to terms with not being able to put things back as they were.

The Cups suit is related to water, and you certainly cannot refill the fallen chalices with the water they already held.

The two chalices that have been untouched, however, promise that your situation can be salvaged, even if some of its parts have been changed.

Third Card

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Page Of Swords

The Page of Swords is represented by a young man atop a hill, grasping a silver sword in both his hands.

Like the other Page cards of the Minor Arcana, he is still learning and growing.

Often he represents an actual young person in your life.

The Page of Swords stands for truth and justice, as well as open and honest communication.

He is likely to appear to those who are struggling between telling the truth and sparing someone’s feelings, or those who are having a hard time verbally expressing their emotions.

Its important that you express your emotions without fear of the outcome because your at greater risk of hurting yourself trying to keep others happy.

Forth Card

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Page Of Wands

Generally speaking, the Page of Wands is in the area of having projects that come to fruition.

Something you initiated a while back starts to deliver positive results.

Another meaning that is to be considered frequently in a reading is that this Page represents a literal person in your life.

(S)he is a high energy person, a high-achiever that brings a positive vibe in your world.

Beware of lack of focus though.

Energy, success and enthusiasm are all good, but don’t take your eyes off the prize just yet.

Keep going keep achieving your hearts desires.

Fifth Card

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Ace Of Cups

This card is generally depicted as a large golden chalice with water overflowing from within.

The Ace of Cups shows up in a reading when you have reached a point of emotional stability, happiness, and peace.

It is a reminder that you have good emotional intelligence and a strong foundation on which you are able to take on the world, usually with a smile on your face.

A present position Ace of Cups means that the path your life has taken is the best one for you.

Whether it’s your relationship, family life, or career, you are in a secure and stable place emotionally.

Whatever you’ve been doing, it’s working in your favour so keep at it.

Sixth Card

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The World

This card is also about gaining more insight into what is your role in a bigger scheme of things.

It can be a big project, it can be the community you are part of and so on.

The meaning is that you are more in tune with the world around you.

There is a virtuous circle, i.e. the more success you have, the more connected you feel and the more you are motivated to contribute.

In terms of travel, the World can literally indicate that you may be traveling around the world. You may soon go for a long distance trip.

You may also receive a message from the Universe to be more open to take in elements from the world around you.

Try to become more receptive and expand your awareness.

Thank you for reading i hope you gained comfort and guidance from this weeks post.

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Stacie xx

𝕋𝕙𝕖 𝔾𝕝𝕠𝕨 𝕌𝕡

Hiya Everyone

I hope you have had a great day I would like to say I have but that hasn’t been the case.

Do you know when you roll out of bed in the morning and you know its not going to be a great day both emotionally and physically, most the time these days I have my shit together.

But today I felt like the whole world was against me, my anxiety attacks are less and less these days since I’ve found my confidence back but still one slips through the cracks of that barrier that ive built so high around my soul and every now and again the old Stacie tries to remerge from the shadows and i have to rain her back into the darkness because that jush isn’t me anymore.

This blog post I’ve wanted to post for along time now and I’ve been putting it off for a while but i think its time to share it with you all.

To the people who know me in person who read my blog will understand exactly how I’ve been feeling and hopefully you will understand why I’ve needed to do what I have done to simply keep my head above water and to stop myself from drowning.

Up until the last six months Ive been at war with myself , my mind and my heart trying to align all three has been a battle and half.

I’ve always put others first and always put myself last just to make other people happy.

Ive loved and not always been loved back the old unrequited love is an arsehole.

I’ve sat there and listened and let someone pull me apart piece by piece for simply being me.

Ive kept calm when the fire inside me had raged.

I’ve been battered and bruised by my own self confidence.

Until that day comes and you think you know enough is enough I’m not taking this anymore.

I got up that morning in February and thought this is the last time i will allow my life and the people around me to control me..

It started with some external changes I was so determined to loose weight as that held my confidence back massively and I knew I had to drastically do something to achieve what i wanted so that was the first step for me.

So then the hair changed you always know when a women means business she changes her hair said coco channel , so that’s when my transformation really started when the red hair came along , that in itself gave me a lot of confidence.

Over the past 7 months i have worked on my surroundings and the company i kept.

I had taken a step back from anyone who brings drama to my life, I’m not about the drama, I just want a peaceful life.

One thing I realised when your going through a glow up is that some people will support you others will completely turn on you.

Ive been called nasty and evil plus lot more but i know that’s not me at all.

That’s the kind of people I haven’t got time for anymore.

We all go through bad times i know but its how we choose to evolve from it.

You see some people don’t like other people evolving due to their own insecurities, that’s when you realise that your energies are not meant to combine.

Your eyes open and you truly see people and situations that you once where involved with and think what the hell was i doing.

Transformation does that to you.

So what are my plans for the near future I’m sure that people will have something to say but you know what its my life my body I will do what makes me happy.

I don’t go into things blind I do my research..

so I’m fast approaching 33 and its time to start taking proper care of myself as vain as that sounds but again my choice, so i have been in touch with the Harley medical group to see if they will sort my loose skin from weight loss, that for me is a massive step in the mean time i will just have to put up with it.

Its ok people saying you look fine but its my choice i have to do what makes me happy and i would never go to the extreme.

So the glow up after such a rubbish time is amazing and I’m in this bubble at the moment where I feel untouchable from anything or anyone who caused me heartache and upset in the past.

If you like the new me then cool if you don’t then tough I’m never going back.

And I’m so proud of myself, I still have bad days and I know that one day someone will get me and will love me completely for just being me if given half the chance all I want to do is be happy but until then I’m like a elastic band I will always ping back ….

Love to you all

Stacie xxx

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Good Afternoon all.

I hope you are well, I just wanted to do a quick blog about a new exciting opportunity I have decided to progress forward with.

I’m not sure if any other fellow bloggers have come across the term guest blogging, but its Guest blogging, also called “guest posting,” is the act of writing content for another company or sole talent.

But why have I chosen to showcase other people’s business and talent’s I hear you ask.

I feel its extremely important to help each other grow there are times in life where we need to be selfish but when it comes to empowerment and recognising other peoples talents it doesn’t help to show your support.

All throughout my younger years ive built up my talent skills and I can really put my hand to mostly anything call me del boy but honestly there isn’t anything I wont try and learn to help with my own progression.

But what I lacked was support and people willing to help me grow so after a few failed attempts I know how gut wrenching it feels when you fail due to lack of support.

So here I am the universe gave me a sign to empower people and showcase their business and talents.

And it maybe only a small gesture of my own good will but from one small gesture can come some amazing opportunities.

All my life ive been selfless and I’ve always wanted to help others I suppose I wear my heart on my sleeve but I truly know how hard it is to be heard in a world that’s always so noisy.

So here is my pitch i hope it draws you in to work along side me lets help each other grow.

Once a month i will be giving away one free guest blog spot on my own blog seashells and lipgloss blog.

This post will stay on my blog indefinitely so that new readers will always be able read your blog and get to know your business and your talent’s leading them to choose to follow your journey through your own social media accounts and lead to potential clientele growth.

I’m looking for…

Artist’s , Musicians’, Photographer’s , All Small Businesses , Charites, Venues , Creative Writer’s.

I’m open to new talent opportunities also it doesn’t just have to be what’s listed above.

If your interested in what I have to offer please email me on..

seashellsandlipglossblog@gmail.com or via my contact block below

 

Two Day Mini Break North West Uk

Good Evening All.

I hope you are all ok , sorry i haven’t blogged a lot during the last few days but i have been taking some time away from everyday life.

Living in the North West i feel so lucky to live by some amazing places to visit.

Growing up in the West Midlands we always had to travel along way to be by the seaside now i have it on my doorstep and i feel so lucky to be where i am in this present moment in my life.

So let me tell you about my two day break and how Covid 19 impacted it.

So a few weeks ago i decided that i was in need of a break away from home life , work and daily routines just so we could try and relax and recharge and actually spend some time together.

So I booked to go to the (Vegas of the North ) Blackpool ,Lancashire ( Fylde Coast)

Its not everyone’s cup of tea i couldn’t even get my dad there even if i bribed him but its something about its traditional seaside experience that draws millions of people to visit every year.

There is plenty to do in Blackpool but I’m going to be honest unless you need to pre plan and pre book tickets to attractions , otherwise you may need a small bank loan its always best to pre book for the best deals on tickets.

During my trip the weather wasn’t fantastic was windy but I’m not complaining its a break away.

Now lets get the Covid 19 experience out the way .

I have very mixed feelings as ive worked all through the pandemic like most key workers have , we have been used to a lot of changes on a daily basis.

Anyone who is still traveling during Covid will understand what I’m about to say.

The messages are mixed and what you need to understand is that as long as you do your bit and stick within the guidelines set by the venue and location you cant go wrong of course there is a risk in doing anything in life.

Wear a mask when stated , Sanitize Hands , use track and trace guidelines for each venue that’s how you can do you bit.

There will be queuing wherever you go within One or two meter rule depending on the company policies possible temperature checks to as long as you understand the procedure’s and do your part you can still enjoy your break.

But what you all need to know is that life must go on.

Lets get on with the fun part Blackpool Attractions.

The Golden Mile is the stretch of Promenade between the North and South pier full of attractions such as…

Sea life Centre (Merlin saver pass)

Madame Tussauds (Merlin saver Pass)

Blackpool Tower and Ballroom (Merlin saver Pass)

Blackpool Pleasure Beach

Ripley’s Believe it or Not

Sandcastles Waterpark

Coral Island

The Dungeons (Merlin Saver Pass)

It also has a great shopping Centre full of gift shops and high street brands.

Its a short bus ride to the neighbouring St Anne’s and Lytham .

Blackpool also holds three major event’s yearly a firework Competition, Illumination’s And Blackpool Air Show.

It also hosts a modern Clean Seafront with plenty of dining out and takeaway restaurant’s .

Lets get down to where to say…

Did you know .. The resort has over 3,000 hotels, guest houses and bed and breakfasts.

Between them, they offer over 90,000 rooms, more than most other UK cities.

I found a lovely hotel around three years ago just located in central Blackpool i have to give credit to the owners of Happy Return Hotel they have worked so hard on the hotel its truly fabulous and their service is amazing to a true credit to the Lancashire tourist board.

If your looking to stay somewhere that’s a home from home in a lovely clean modern establishment then this is the hotel for you i have posted link and pictures below for you all to see but i highly recommend The Happy Return hotel.

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Here are few pictures from My trip ..

 


I have posted links below to major Attractions Located in Blackpool.

 

https://www.visitbritainshop.com/world/blackpool-attractions-pass-the-big-ticket/

Sandcastle Waterpark

https://www.blackpoolpleasurebeach.com/

https://www.coralisland.co.uk/

I hope you find my blog interesting and helpful if your planning on paying a visit to the Vegas of the North that is known as Blackpool

 

Sending Love to you all 

Stacie xxx

 

 

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Queen of Cups

The Queen of Cups in Tarot stands for being loving, tender-hearted, intuitive, psychic, and spiritual.

The Queen of Cups meaning is a combination of the positive water energy of all the Cups and the inward focus of a Queen.

She always has a loving and sensitive nature. She never reacts with impatience or anger, and she has a kind word for everyone. She is compassionate and lets her heart lead the way.

The Queen is more open to her inner knowledge and trusts her intuition. She reveres all aspects of the divine’s creation, loves and embraces everyone, and is moved by the tragedies and beauties of life.

you feel and think as she does. Have you received an intuitive message? Have you been moved by another’s pain? Are you aware of the emotional climate? Do you trust your own heart? The Queen of Cups encourages you to tap in to the feminine, and know that the women in your life have your back. She also wants you to treat yourself with kindness, compassion, and love.

2nd Card

Nine Of Wands

The Nine of Wands in Tarot stands for defensiveness, perseverance, stamina, resilience, and resistance. A look at the figure on the Nine of Wands card shows that he has been through certain battles. The figure is bandaged on his head and arm and supported by a crutch.

He might be hurt, but he is not down, He is still standing! Because he’s hurt, he may become defensive.

sign to proceed with caution because there is every possibility of being hurt, either physically or mentally. Defensiveness is natural if you have been hurt, but the trick is not to be bitter.

You now need to be more watchful. As you have been through travails, you have become stronger as well. Strength and stamina are other aspects of the Nine of Wands.

As a fighter, you need to be tough and have the inner stamina to persist, come what may.

This is the spirit of this card. The Nine of Wands wants you to keep going despite all odds. Do not give up, whatever the opposition. You have within you the strength to overcome. And yes, you could get hurt. You may have gone through rough times and gotten hurt, but you are still not defeated! Another quality of this card is resilience. Despite setbacks, you persist. You need to keep on going, irrespective of everything.

3rd Card

Eight of Cups

The Eight of Cups in Tarot stands for deeper meaning, moving on, and weariness.

The figure on the card is a man leaving on a journey, striking out on a new path. The card means that change could come in many forms. It could be physical, such as a job change, relocation, or change in relationships. Change could also refer to inner changes, such as replacing older patterns of thought with new ones.

When the Eight of Cups is upright in a Tarot, it is time to realize that the past is gone.

An end is approaching, and what was thought to be permanent is no longer so. It is time to accept the change that is staring you in the face. The card signals that it’s time to move on. The only thing permanent in life is change, and everything slips away sooner or later.

4th Card

Three of Wands

The Three of Wands , it’s time for you to take the long view of things, just as the figure on the card is standing on a cliff and looking at the distant mountains across the sea.

From atop the cliff, from that great height, the figure sees all that lies ahead. This card represents vision. With vision, you gain perspective.

Don’t react in the heat of the moment, but rather step back and reconsider. Dream beyond your current perspective and look at the greater picture. It could be an indication of things to come.

You should be confident in your vision. Fearlessly explore new areas. Do not set your sights too near. Behave like a true leader and show the way.

The Three of Wands also represents exploration. Explore, but do it with full awareness.

5th Card

Seven Of Wands

The Seven of Wands in Tarot stands for defiance, defense, aggression, conviction, and valor.

Aggression and defiance are both represented by the Seven of Wands as two sides of the same coin. Some of the cards that reinforce the qualities of the Seven of Wands are the Five of Wands, Nine of Wands, and Five of Swords

When the Seven of Wands is upright in a Tarot reading, you could be involved in a conflict.

Some conflicts may be worth fighting, but others are just trouble.

You need to check if it is worth fighting, if it will serve your purpose. Only then do you need to defend your position by being bold and aggressive.

This card asks you to take a stand, an act that will change the energy flow for better or for worse. Most of the time events carry everyone forward along with the flow.

At times, people want to resist and change the course of the flow entirely. When taking a stand, you start an energy of resistance. If you become aggressive, your opponent becomes defiant.

But before you take a stand, you must believe in yourself and in your position. Otherwise, let the conflict go. Fight only if it is worth fighting, even if you’ve already invested time and energy in it. If your cause is just, stand by your convictions as indicated by the Seven of Wands

6th Card

knight of Wands

The Knight of Wands in Tarot stands for being charming (superficial), self-confident (cocky), daring (foolhardy), adventurous (restless), and passionate (hot-tempered). Where on the one hand, the Knight of Wands is full of energy and never seems to be afraid to try new things.

On the other hand, he seems too sure of himself and his abilities. Although others may be baffled by his crazy stunts, his courage and passion are still admired.

The Knight of Wands tends to be shallow, and one can’t expect deep commitment from him. He is reckless and irresponsible and acts without thinking. This gets him into trouble. The Knight of Wands also delivers spiritual messages.

.When the Knight of Wands is upright in a Tarot reading, it may suggest that you or someone else connected with the situation (or the atmosphere in general) has a confident and passionate style, just as the Knight of Wands does.

The only thing to check is whether this “energy” of the Knight is helpful or not. Is it confidence or cockiness you feel? Are you (or is your company) rushing into something without preparation (which could be risky)? This could be a time for a change, for balance. If this energy is missing, then it might be the time to try something new, maybe have some fun.

The Knight of Wands could be an indication to go out for some adventure, some excitement, some risk. Only you can decide if the Knight’s energy is helpful or wanting.

If you are dealt this card, check to see whether your confidence is really cockiness. Do you feel angry and impatient all the time? If this style of the Knight is evident, you probably need to rebalance. It might be time for a change instead of rushing into something risky without any preparation.

If you are missing the Knight’s energy, you might need to try something new. If you have been working hard, maybe it’s time to go and have some fun.

I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.

Love to you All

Stacie xxx