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Evening all

I thought I would do a little blog on where I’m at just to let you all know why I’m not around as much at the moment.

Well the title says it all radio silence for the people who haven’t heard this saying before I will explain below.

It means a Β periodΒ ofΒ timeΒ when someone does notΒ communicateΒ with anotherΒ personΒ or otherΒ people.

Seems dramatic I know but its my choice.

I’ve needed to strip back every aspect in my life and look at what direction I was heading towards.

Believe me it wasn’t healthy to some extent I’m still battling with my demons.

I’ve been through a very long period of heartache and self loathing for such a long time I’ve just had enough.

Closing the last chapter was the hardest and I have one last hurdle to get over before I can truly move forward.

I suppose you have to fully let the old layers of yourself fall away before you can heal and rebuild yourself.

I’ve given so much of myself to people who didn’t deserve me.

Now I know that and it’s difficult for me to pull my energy back.

But it’s what’s needed for me to be the best person I can be.


It’s time for me to take back my power and allow myself to put myself first.

So I’ve decided to pull back my energy from social media even though its a great place to reach out and put yourself our there I don’t feel I’m 100% ready for it.

With me trying to engage with people I found it’s drained me physically and emotionally.

I just simply can’t find the strength to deal with other peoples issues at the moment it makes me  hypocritical giving our advice and not listing to my own inner wisdom.

I’ve decided to not post anymore pictures or videos of myself at the moment because Im really not happy within myself and because I want people to get to know the real me not just the outside exterior of myself.

Tommrow I’m back on my health kick and the universe is giving me a massive…
To move forward so I will be back after some me time and I will come back better and stronger.

Love to you all ❀️

Stacie xxx

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The Shutdown

Evening everyone

I hope your all OK…

This year has been pretty hectic for all of us and its about to get extra bumpy as mercury retrograde is on its way from October 14th to November 3rd.

So buckle up its going to be a wild ride.

I always feel very odd this time of the year it feels very much off balance.

Feels like I’m fighting for air in paper bag but never getting anywhere fast.

So frustrating for me because I’m a virgo and I’m impatient.

Every so often I feel utterly helpless my body feels drained and painful.

I’m in the process of clearing out an old cycle and becoming a newer more improved Stacie.

As if one transition wasn’t enough this year, I’ve been graced with another.

Progression is always needed to assend onto a better version of yourself.

During this period of time it gets very confusing and emotional.

You become more detached from the people around you.

Sometimes that’s not a bad thing this gives you time to observe the company you keep.

And who you allow to impact your life.

There’s no point holding on to people or situations that just cause you deep emotional anxiety and emotional pain.

Everybody will need to withdraw their energy at some point in life its unavoidable.

Think of it as a spiritual clear out nobody likes cobwebs in the corners of thier minds.

Mercury retrograde can be tough for us all but it’s how we handle ourselves during.

And what lessons can be learnt.

So how can we survive the next mercury retrograde….
Surviving Mercury retrograde is pretty simple: Remember to proofread everything, choose your words carefully, avoid signing contracts (or review them extra carefully), back up your data, and plan for travel mishap .

The truth, cosmic warrior, is that Mercury retrograde isn’t all bad; in fact, it can serve as your quarterly self-assessment.

How prepared are you for inconveniences? How zen are you feeling these days? Although Mercury retrograde isn’t a great time to make huge changes, it is ideal for reflection.

So if your feeling a little out of sorts at the moment and over the next few weeks that will be…

And its perfectly fine to be in hermit mode at the moment to avoid unnecessary stress and pain.

Love to you all

Stacie xxx

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Listen… It’s not your job to be everything to everyone.

Evening all I’ve not late night blogged for a while but it’s Sunday evening and

I’m filled with anxiety again.

There’s days where I need to have a moment to myself just to put my head straight.

It’s extremely difficult to be one hundred percent who you are these days.

I find that people are very judgmental and quick to jump to conclusions.

Without the facts.

I have to say that sometimes humans don’t have an alternative motif for just simply being helpful or truthful.

Sometimes it’s just in their nature to be honest without fear and to want to work hard to make a difference.

I truly believe that the current situation I find myself in is exactly where I need to be, you find yourself in certain situations in life where there is either lessons to be learnt or truth to be given in order for change to take place.

Somethings been stagnant for to long stubborn for change then….

You smack bang in the middle of a situation you either need to learn from or make a difference.

One thing I’ve realised is when you see through people your not very well liked that’s a know fact.

When your real and disconnect from the drama that’s when you become the drama and in no way shape or form have I got time for drama.

I’m literally at that stage where I still feel anxious and some days I’m not as strong.

But honestly your put on this earth to yes be thoughtful of others but to also be thoughtful of yourself.

I can’t stress enough to people if your struggling to juggle life and struggling with the people around you.

Distance is sometimes the best key you can never pour from an empty cup.

You can make sure your vessel is fine but if the minds off balance then the two don’t work in harmony.

Don’t put to much pressure on yourself to be the perfect parent, sibling, partner, friend or work colleague.

You need to nurture your own soul before you give to others.

When people try and drag you into Drama don’t fall for it, if it’s not your issue then leave it, some people don’t like the truth and can be….

But don’t fall for it you can’t fix everything or everyone so don’t try to.

Just be honest to yourself and honest with others and if your respected for it great if not there’s no love lost.

Good night everyone

Love to you all

Stacie xxx

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It’s been a minute since I’ve properly blogged.

It’s been one of those weeks well months if I’m honest but it’s all been hush hush.

I’ve really wanted to blog about situations but I know I can’t at the moment i haven’t got the heart to.

Or the words to discribe how it’s made me feel.

You wake up everyday with this ambition of wanting to make a change an difference to yourself and the world around you.

You build yourself up then for others to try and knock you down and to me that’s not fair.

It’s not all bad news and depressing states though I’ve learnt alot about myself during this process.

I’ve removed a lot of toxic energy but some is still remaining its been quite tough trying to find a solution to situation where you don’t even know where to start.

Anyone who understands what I’m going on about knows how hard it is to try and it still not be good enough.

I talk alot about myself in my blogs because this is the whole reason why I decided to share parts of myself with you all.

So that people could relate and not feel alone.

Because feeling alone is worst feeling in the world.

One thing I’ve realised is I’m not normal and neither do I want to be.

But then what is classed as not normal these days we all have faults somewhere down the line.

Can we actually define the social expectations of being normal?

Someone who shows traits of an eccentric character in society isn’t deemed to be normal.

Why because they don’t allow themselves to fall into the trap of normal social existence.

Go to school, get a job, fall in love, get married, have babies.

That’s great in all if that’s what you want but to just simply be you and make yourself happy sometimes doesn’t sit well with others.

Not everyone will understand you or know why you do the things you do.

And that’s OK it’s not right to judge somebody else’s path.

Some times you just need to take a second to refocus.

Progress is progress however big or small it is, it’s still progress..

So little by little than none at all.

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Love to you all

Stacie xx

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Afternoon everyone.

I wanted to share a blog with you all this afternoon about my mental issues and my weight loss.

I know quite a few people that would benefit from this blog post so I decided to share my thoughts and experiences surrounding the Mental affects of loosing weight and how I’ve been dealing with it.

I hope whoever reads my blog will find it helpful.

Isn’t it just fabulous when you loose weight.

In just over seven months I’ve managed to loose three and a half stone on the exante diet.

I couldn’t be any happier I’ve actually achieved something and most importantly have actually stuck to a diet by the third week I’ve normally given up but no I was determined to do it so I have.

I’ve had the odd blip along the way but that’s normally when I’m under stress and I have to say won’t give my Sunday dinners or the odd gin up for no one that’s my weekly treat.

One thing I’ve had issues with is clothes and my mental health.

I haven’t had a problem purchasing clothes at times I’ve thought oh lord somebody take my bank card off me.

But what I’ve have had issues with is the mental side of loosing weight.

My whole style has changed because I no longer feel that I need to cover up every part of my body.

Or look in the mirror and hate the way I see myself.

One of the issues I’ve had is when I’ve been shopping online I’ve been automatically looking at my original pre weightloss size it happens everytime I still forget even now.

It’s so nice to to say I can’t purchase that as its not in a plus size range.

Not that I’m being biased about other ranges.

But after so long of liking clothing that I would feel silly in due to my size.

I can now shop anywhere and know I will find something I will like in my new size and feel amazing in the style and colours of my choice.

Instead of looking like a member of the adams family.

Now I don’t have to feel that way any more but again your mind can have a negative impact on your desired outcome if you let it.

I popped out today to a bit of essential and non essential shopping.

Its been a while since I’ve set foot in a proper clothing store other than primark.

So I decided to go into newlook my local store in town hasn’t got a plus size range but I’ve always gone for the biggest size they stock.

Looking through the clothing racks not touching anything was hard expecially when you’re trying to work out sizes.

But needs must my brain was saying to me you need biggest size they have.

I actually stood their for a while thinking what the hell am I doing I don’t need the biggest size anymore.

Put my normal size back and picked up my new clothing size.

I’m not sure if I will get used to being a small size its been a very long time since I’ve been in a smaller size.

I cannot express how emotional I am to be able to get my whole bottom half of Me in a size 14 trousers from a store like new look and know I’ve achieved that outcome from my own determination.

Normally i wouldn’t of been able to get my ankles in a size 14 never mind my whole bottom half of my body.

It’s so difficult to train your own mind after years of negative thoughts about your own body.

It’s affected me both mentally and physically and its also affected my relationships with past partners.

Really knocked my confidence.

But In time I hope I can change my shopping mindset still i can’t believe I’m a completely different person and with the transformation still ongoing I just suppose it will take some getting used to and a whole lot of Selflove.

Today’s purchase #newlook

Love to you all.

Stacie xxxx

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Evening all ❀️I’m starting of tonights blog on a positive note because its all about the positivity and being your true self.

It’s very rare to find real people to connect with by real I mean the types of people who are straight up no strings bullshit attached

.

Say it as it is.

Here’s the thing when you find yourself in a tough situation with another human being its difficult to try and come to terms with their reaction and behaviour.

In an instant they will completely forget everything you ever did that was kind or nice for them.

And they will only see the bad situation surrounding the connection the good won’t matter anymore.

Two adults should be able to sit and sort through differences with out acting like two kids in a playground.

Not everyone has to be an enemy.

If people actually take the time to think and work through problems the world would be a much better functioning place.

I’ve tried so many times to fix others I’ve forgotten to fix myself.

Let me tell you being honest doesn’t always make people think highly of you some people don’t want to hear the truth.

Beacause they see no errors in their way of life.

You can’t fix a connection if the other party isn’t taking half the responsibility for the issues surrounding you both.

There’s no smoke without fire.

I used to get so wrapped up in what other people thought of me I lost a little bit of myself each day trying to hide who I really was.

Now I just don’t care anymore I’m my authentic self and I’m trying to make my mark on the world.

Some people won’t like you for being real but don’t forget that comes from their own insecurities.

I’m not happy all the time.

But the one thing I will always be is honest.

I’m too tired for games, being scared of offending anyone & hiding the real me to make others feel comfortable.

Give me real honest communication any day.

A good connection is based on complete honesty.

If you feel you can’t be honest with either partners or freinships maybe it’s not meant to be.

I respect people more for being real.

Love to you all.

Stacie πŸ’‹πŸ’•β€οΈπŸ’•β€οΈ

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Evening all ❀️

I have to start by saying sorry for my late night rambling on last nights blog.

I’ve just been going through something, transtion is tough but so am i.

My blog isn’t ways full of helpful information it’s just me myself and my thoughts.

Tonight’s blog hopefully makes more sense.

After talking to my friend this evening i think she mentioned that it seems everyone seems to be feeling a little off at the moment im guessing it’s possibly how things are in the world and how the energy is all over the place.

Seem a lot of uncertainty and negativity around.

Im an empath.. I feel everything

But what is an empath
An empath is someone who is highly aware of the emotions of those around them, to the point of feeling those emotions themselves.

Empaths see the world differently than other people; they’re keenly aware of others, their pain points, and what they need emotionally.

So basically we are like walking emotional sponges we pick up on people feelings and pain without the other party knowing we do so.

Sometimes it’s very overwhelming, we aren’t just only dealing with our own issues but we are also sensitive to other people which when combined can causes complete energy drain and feeling very low in mood.

Only way we can recharge is to take ourselves away from certain situations.

Signs your empathetic.

I’ve been dealing with this for a very long time.

At time’s it’s tough as of late i knew i had to change the game completely new way of seeing life and situations i find myself in.

You can’t keep pouring from an empty cup.

You need to think if I’m not taking care of me then who will.

It’s important to remember self love and learning to respect yourself.

It’s ok giving all that love and time to people but remember to keep abit back for yourself.

Its important you’re important.

Never forget that.

Love to you all 😊 😊

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Heya all ❀️

I hope your having a good evening.

This evening im hollering at everyone whoever feels caught up in their own head and find themselves battling a dark cloud of insecurities.

When i started my blog back in April 2019 I wasn’t sure if anyone would actually read it yet alone relate to it.

I’ve had people say to me in the past that i wouldn’t be any good at writing because my english isn’t fantastic and my spelling and punctuation is rubbish.

Well here i am im still going and least i admit that im not fantastic.

My blog posts are raw, truthful and direct because that’s who i am in person.

If people don’t like what i write that’s fine by me because aslong as im truthful and i hold my hands up to my mistakes.

Then i know i will always bring the right type of reader to my blog.

Tonight’s blog is definitely a πŸ”ž because i do sometimes use language that isn’t appropriate for people who are easily offended.

You’re probably wondering about the blog title but it fits perfectly with tonights topic.

So here it goes if you dont like cussing don’t read on….

Have you tried so hard at something in life and it starts paying off weither it be a personal goal or something that you have never had the confidence to do then you finally get of your butt and make it happen.

And you feel better in yourself psychically, mentally and Soul fully.

You feel as if you have a good support network around you.

Because people who are supposed to love us are suppose to want the best for us.

Right…

Im not saying that everyone turns out to be this way.

But you find when you start to turn your frown upside down and actually start feeling remotely human.

Some one comes in like a huge..

Leaves their negative attitude and insecurities on you then.

Just struts away like a pigeon that’s just shit all over your favourite sandwich. making you feel like a quivering wreak in the dark corners of your mind.

Inside your screaming at yourself not to give in.

Its very easy for an enemy to mask themselves as a person who has your best intentions at heart.

And to be honest ive been through this myself a few times.

It never hurts any less just to pre warn you.

You just grow thicker skin.

As we grow and evolve we outgrow our old souls and we outgrow people and life paths.

And thats perfectly fine.

We dont need a shit storm everytime we make progress.

You need to remind yourself…

You need to do what’s best for you and sometimes that might mean upsetting someone else in the process.

People will always talk but make sure the people who are in your circle are the ones rowing the boat not drilling holes.

Leave them to fight there own demons.

But what you must not do is loose sight of your own goals just because someone doesn’t support your choices.

Don’t let their insecurities becomes your burden.

Dont let them put you in a situation that you must put up and shut up and not speak your truth.

Your not a follower your the star in this Broadway show we call life.

Dont be victimised into not living the life you deserve.

And if they turn round and say…

Tell them you don’t fucking want to.

Dont ever be anything less than your authentic self.

And if you ever find yourself a victim of other’s insecurities its time to cut ties and move on.

You can’t be both bold and someone’s emotional punching bag.

Humans can be incredibly mean to each other.

Remember the ones who support you and love you will show nothing less than happiness for your success.

They wont pick at your faults or drain your soul.

Its time to πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡

And show them you mean bussiness.

Stay strong everyone. 🌈

In a world where you can be anything be kind.

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 πŸ’‹ πŸ’„ ❀️ ❀️ ❀️

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Afternoon all from the beautiful sunny Merseyside UK.

Im just recharging myself in the sun before another week of chaos and internal screaming inside.

Why do weekends go so fast even when we are still in lockdown they seem to fly by.

After long conversations yesterday and thinking deep into the night.

Ive decided to do a blog post about…

Surrendering and learning that you don’t always get what you want in life.

Sometimes we need to put more effort into it or just know when to admit defeat and move on.

When we are hit with heartbreaking situations in life.

And we see no way forward and your exhausted from fighting a battle that never seems to never end.

For your own sanity you want to admit defeat and just sit in a dark corner and cry.

But we as humans are put through lessons in life that we are meant to learn from.

We all love a good love story and wish for a fairytale in life but we can somehow put to much effort into a connection that we end up loosing ourselves in the process.

We stumble upon partnerships we feel an istant connection to and give everything we have to offer for it to end up being either taken for granted or not reciprocated.

It fills us with doubt and insecurity.

You must remember that its not always you who is at fault, you may have not done anything but love a person and try and make them happy.

But sometimes its not enough you can be so wrapped up in the situation you mistake their hurt for love and affection.

A partnership works both ways and both of you need to be on same wavelength for progression to happen.

Experiencing a difficult love connection is also frustrating and exhausting.

But you need to ask yourself is it worth holding on or letting go.

Yes you maybe hurt you maybe you feel defeated.

Don’t forget how its made you feel.

Sometimes for once in a while its nice to be fought for never give up on love just because of a bad chapter in life.

And if a connection feels right then fight for it.

Leave the ball in their court and rebulid yourself and your heart.

If its meant to be it will work out but do not put life on hold.

People come into our lives to either love us unconditionally or to teach us a lesson.

Sometimes we find love in the strangest of situations but we dont see it until its to late.

Remember nothing is ever final but in the meantime breathe and if all you did today was try and survive then im proud of you.

Love to you all.

Stacie 🐚 πŸ’‹ πŸ’„ ❀️ ❀️

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Artists: Halsey, Marshmello

Album: Be Kind
Released: 2020

Wanna believe, wanna believe
That you don’t have a bad bone in your body
But the bruises on your ego make you go wild, wild, wild, yeah
Wanna believe, wanna believe
That even when you’re stone cold, you’re sorry
Tell me why you gotta be so out of your mind, yeah

I know you’re chokin’ on your fears
Already told you I’m right here
I will stay by your side every night

I don’t know why you hide from the one

And close your eyes to the one
Mess up and lie to the one that you love
When you know you can cry to the one
Always confide in the one
You can be kind to the one that you love
Ah

I know you need, I know you need

The upper hand even when we aren’t fighting
‘Cause in the past, you had to prepare every time, yeah
Don’t wanna leave, don’t wanna leave
But if you’re gonna fight then do it for me
I know you’re built to love, but broken now, so just try, yeah

I know you’re chokin’ on your fears

Already told you, I’m right here
I will stay by your side every night

I don’t know why you hide from the one

And close your eyes to the one
Mess up and lie to the one that you love
When you know you can cry to the one
Always confide in the one
You can be kind to the one that you love
Ah

I know it’s hard for you, but it’s not fair

Going sick in the head tryna get you there
And I know it’s hard for you, but it’s not fair
It’s not fair

I don’t know why you hide from the one

And close your eyes to the one
Mess up and lie to the one that you love
When you know you can cry to the one
Always confide in the one
You can be kind to the one that you love
Ah
Ah
When you know you can cry to the one
Always confide in the one
You can be kind to the one that you love
Ah

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Be Kind Halsey

Stacie 😊 😊

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