Good Afternoon to you all.
I trust you are all well as can be.
I feel there are a lot of you feeling quite lost at the moment I also feel very tired and surrounded by heavy energy
Today I’m going to get straight to business and concentrate on what the universe needs to share with you all.
I would like to state that all my weekly guidance blogs are for entertainment purpose only.
All signs and elements are included take what resonates and leave the rest.
Weekly vision message
Its late evening , im sitting on a porch in an old rocking chair.
I can hear the crickets chirping , The night time Wildlife ready to come to life in the darkness.
The sun is setting , the sky is filled with an eerily orange glow.
The silence is deafening.
But my mind feels clear and my heart feels pure, with each rock of the chair I can feel emotions arising, I feel like I’m trying to get somewhere but I’m getting no where fast.
I feel fear and frustration , I’m filled with fear and regret of not following my own heart and listing to other people.
As the darkness fills the sky my mind comes to life.
Within the few minutes where my mind was clear and my heart felt pure , I found true peace within.
That’s when the universe reminds me that between the chaos, there is calm and a chance of reflection, and a chance of true happiness.
You need to remind yourself that its ok to take a break and a step back.
Tarot Card Connection
With the Moon it’s likely that emotions are complicated at this time.
The environment can be one full of misunderstandings, and not everything is as it appears. You may need to do some work to get to the bottom of things; be sure to not only ensure the intentions of others, but also understand your own emotions, desires and motivations.
There may be old attitudes, beliefs or ideas that are clouding your judgement. Many things can be hiding in your unconscious affecting your ability to accept love. Are past relationships haunting you? Have you lost faith in love? Do you believe you are unworthy of love? All of these can have profound affects on how we approach relationships. Now is the time to examine them and reveal them as they truly are.
Justice In Reverse
Justice is about karma, and if you’ve been putting forth the effort, love and romance will be coming your way. If you’ve been kind, loving and supportive, your relationships will be a mirror of what you’ve been giving to others.
If you’ve been single, your loving and positive disposition will make you especially attractive to new potential romances.
Because this card is all about the law of cause and effect, make sure you have been treating your partner fairly. Watch out for resentment and defensiveness, and ensure that conflicts in your relationships are handled with respect and trust in your other half.
Compromise and understanding is needed now. Sometimes this card is also about being tactful, and expressing your frustrations in a way that are mindful of your partner’s feelings. As long as issues hare handled with honesty and good faith, your relationship will thrive.
Five of Wands Reversed
The Five of Wands reversed meaning can be that your natural method of dealing with disagreements is avoiding any kind of conflict by getting away from that place as fast as you can.
Sometimes this can be regarded as a good thing, but other times, it may lead to a number of issues that are brewing up within you, for which you will have to address soon.
On the other hand, it can also mean that you have worked through your troubles and that you do not have any more issues to worry about.
Issues of how you deal with conflict can affect your relationships now.
If you’re in a relationship, ensure that you haven’t been bottling up your resentments to avoid conflicts that the two of you need to have a smooth partnership.
Eventually avoiding difficult conversations lead to an erosion of trust. Remember that every person has the right to their needs, and having needs does not make you any less lovable.
If you’ve been doing the hard work of expressing yourself honestly with your partner however, you may find that misunderstandings are clearing up. What were once arguments may disappear once honesty and clarity have been achieved.
Getting the devil card in your reading shows that you have feelings of entrapment, emptiness and lack of fulfilment in your life.
It might also mean that you are a slave to materialism and opulence and no matter how hard you try, you just can’t seem to shake off the feeling of wanting to indulge in luxurious living.
You might be aware that this kind of lifestyle is leading you down the rabbit hole, but you have that feeling of not having any form of control over your actions or urges.
Addiction to substances or material pleasures can also be the reason for your feelings of powerlessness and entrapment.
In situations such as these, you may feel as though you are a slave, unable to control your impulses or willpower to direct yourself towards something other than the satisfaction of these desires.
Lust and temptation are symbolized by the Devil.
There can be a sense of hedonism, and a selfish desire for gratification with this card. In less serious circumstances, it can also just simply mean a pursuit for all of life’s earthly pleasures.
There is nothing wrong in having a bit of fun, but make sure that you are not hurting others or giving them wrong impressions when you do.
If you’re only looking for hook-ups, it is up to you to communicate that with your dates. Make sure you avoid pressuring others if they decide your lifestyle isn’t something that suits them. Communication will be more important than ever now.
Alternatively, the Devil can also signal addiction, and in the context of love and relationships, co-dependency.
Over time, this can be destructive to the individuality and self of both partners. Be wary, and ensure that the two of you remain strong individuals within your relationship.
Page Of Pentacles
When we meet the Page of Pentacles, we see immediately that she is one that is ambitious and focused. She is protected, nourished, provided for by the suit whose name she bears.
Guided by it, she is deeply tied to the earth, nature, and all of its gifts.
She cherishes the body, for it too is something which is a manifestation of her element. Her diligence, ambition and loyalty drives her to quickly make plans for the future – for it is there where her focus lies.
When you meet her, she may be the bearer of news connected to all earthly and material matters. When you hear her message, be inspired as she is – lay down the foundations to follow your ambitions.
Generally, the Page of pentacles refers to the kind of energy that you need to complete all that is needed for your work.
It may point to the determination, focus and the ability to stick with a particular task no matter how boring it may seem.
In terms of work, the Page of Pentacles may signify that there are a lot of tasks you are responsible for, but your time to complete them is much too limited. This is not the time to feel stressed and overwhelmed. Assistance will be there for you, you just have to ask for it.
In relation to finances, the Page of Pentacles can refer to the reward for your hard work. For those who are investing their hard–earned money, this is not the perfect time for you to take the risk. Invest your money in a safe and traditional way – the diligence will pay you back. If you are currently experiencing a health issue, this problem may be the result of the continuous neglect. Let a professional make sure that this is not the case.
The person symbolized by the Page of Pentacles is ambitious, loyal and practical; they may often be seen as studious, but once you get to know them well, they can also be quite funny.
Their ambition and focus means that they are hardworking. They are likely to be as dedicated as they are to a lover, as they are to their goals.
Their quiet demeanour may make them hard to notice at first, compared to other folks that may be more out going.
If this doesn’t represent a person that is entering your love life, the Page of Pentacles tarot love meaning can simply signal this Page’s dedication and loyalty in your relationship.
While sometimes the relationship can lack passion and feel a bit boring, the love is there; you may only need to go out there and figure out how to inject some fun and excitement back into your romance. Try not to always put practicality before passion in the relationship and the two of you should be just fine.
The Seven Of Wands
The Seven of Wands has a similar in meaning to the Five of Wands; both cards indicate struggles after the initial fulfilment and satisfaction of an event. The Seven of Wands however is different as it is is about the struggle
The Seven of Wands has a similar in meaning to the Five of Wands; both cards indicate struggles after the initial fulfilment and satisfaction of an event.
The Seven of Wands however is different as it is is about the struggle that you need to go through to maintain your position, rather than to attain it.
This is about the difficulties we face to continue to have success. You should be ready for the competition to you defend your title, and to prove yourself. Others are going to desire the same results that you do, so you need to stay ahead of the them.
There will be challenges to the success of your project or venture from an outside source. You must remain dedicated to your desires, and with a clear purpose and effort, you will overcome them.
The overall meaning of the Seven of Wands is to hold your ground, no matter what is challenging your position.
You will need to defend this position and take a stand against those who are aiming to take your spot. There are setbacks during this time, but you need to keep fighting for your beliefs and confront those that may threaten or oppose you and your beliefs.
Bottom Of The Deck
The Empress shows us how deeply we are embedded to our femininity. Femininity could be associated with fertility, expression, creativity and nurturing among many other aspects.
It therefore calls you to connect with beauty and bring happiness to your life.
Understand yourself and get in touch with your sensuality so that you can attract life circumstances to bring happiness and joy. She is a signal that be kind to yourself, to take care of yourself.
The Empress is also a strong indication of pregnancy and motherhood.
You can look for other cards to confirm if this is truly pregnancy, or rather just an indication of a motherly, nurturing and caring attitude.
The Empress card could also mean the birth of a new idea, business or project on your life. Owing to the good fortune that surrounds this card, you can be sure that such situations and projects would end successfully in your life.
Discover and bring forth those ideas that have been clinging to you and make sure that you devote yourself towards accomplishing them.
This card is a sign that they are going to be successful, and well taken care of. The Empress, as the archetype of the mother earth, also encourages you to spend time interacting with nature, the mother of all of us.
The empress stems from the element of earth.
The person represented by this card can be loving, nurturing and caring, as has financial security or appreciative of beautiful, comforting things. Sometimes, the Empress can point to love and work coming together, either with a co-worker, or perhaps a new business venture.
When it comes to relationships, this card also heralds a stable, serious and committed relationship. Because the card also represents motherhood, sometimes it can also signal marriage or pregnancy, or at least a new family, in whatever form that means for you.
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Sending Love to you all
Good Afternoon all
How this week has passed us by so quickly its that time of the week again for your weekly spiritual guidance .
Today my energy is feeling a bit ropey but I’m here and ready to pass on messages from the divine.
Let me just remind you all that my spiritual guidance blogs are for entertainment purpose only.
Take what resonates and leave the rest.
For all signs and elements for the week commencing 15/11/2020 to 22/11/2020
Lets see what vision message the universe wants to share with you today..
I am seeing an image of a gentleman sitting at a table with his phone in front of him , I can feel mixed emotions bubbling up inside of him.
I feel the urgency of speaking the truth ,I feel this is linked to a past love interest that didn’t quite go as expected.
He is hovering over his phone , his heart starts to beat fast , he gains the courage to message this female , the message says !!
”HI I HOPE YOUR DOING WELL, THIS MAYBE A LONGSHOT BUT I WOULD REALLY LIKE TO MEET AND TALK TO YOU ”
He hits the send button and eagerly awaits a response, I can feel the anxiety rising within.
Will she reply ?
Its taken months maybe years for this gentleman to come to a realisation of how he feels about the female but now fears it maybe to late for them !!
He knows deep down there maybe a chance she wont reply , Either way he gets closure or the chance to speak the truth .
The universe want you to know that everyone makes mistakes , everyone feels fear when it comes to realisation of emotions , some people cant process emotions like others only option is to shut it out and push it aside.
Until the realisation of what you truly feel hits home and the damage is already done .
To right a wrong you must be truthful , you must also understand that sometimes there isn’t a way forward from your past mistake , there is only closure of a cycle .
But the universe wants you to be at peace and your past connections to be at peace , so if you cant make peace with the past at least make peace with yourself.
Lets Proceed With Our Weekly Tarot Card Guidance
When the Ace of Cups is upright it means that you are a vessel for deep love and sympathy.
Love is the essence of this card, but it may or may not be romantic love.
Look to connect with other people
. This is the time to forgive or ask for forgiveness.
This is the time to set your anger aside and look for peace, and to drop your reserve and let your feelings come to the fore.
This is the time when your time is coming.
The Ace of Cups in love is an indication that there is tremendous romantic potential at this time.
If you are single, you may experience a very deep connection with someone new.
If you are in a relationship, then you and your partner will enjoy a period of deep intimacy and togetherness.
When the Magician card is upright , it symbolizes originality, creativity, skill, self-confidence, and dexterity.
The card means you will be given an idea, a solution to a problem, an ambitious career, a love life, or a job.
You must trust in your big brain to help you find what you need and let the world open up to you.
The Magician card in love is usually a sign of positive things to come.
If you’re single, a new (and profound!) love is likely headed your way.
If you’re in a relationship, it could mean it is time to deepen your bond with your partner. All in all, a very good thing.
When the Queen of Pentacles is upright ,it means you think as she does. You feel warm and caring toward others.
You are sensible in your approach.
You are true to your word. You’re highly generous, and best of all, you can be trusted when the chips are down.
By drawing the Queen of Pentacles card, you can be inspired by the atmosphere of warmth, trust, security, and whatever else the Queen stands for, including her special energy.
The Queen of Pentacles in love means you’re feeling confident and secure in love.
If you’re single, make sure to take time in picking the perfect partner.
If you’re in a relationship, it might mean it is time for you and your significant other to take a luxurious, romantic vacation together.
When the Five of Cups is upright in a Tarot reading, it is there to alert you to the possibilities of a loss.
You might already be aware of the loss.
If not, this is when you must try to reduce the importance of the loss, if not avoid it altogether.
The Five of Cups in love means you have some sense of loss and grief when it comes to your relationships, past and present.
If you are single, it means you might live in worry that you let your soul mate get away.
If you’re in a relationship, the Five of Cups might mean that a breakup is coming in your future.
If you don’t want that to happen, you need to work on resolving deep issues.
When the World card is upright it symbolizes completion, perfection, and recognition, in addition to honours, the end result, success, fulfilment, triumph, and eternal life.
It indicates a happy end to a project.
It will be accompanied by well-earned praise, celebration, and success.
Enjoy the satisfaction and fulfilment of a job well done.
The World card in love suggests finality, soul mates, ideal partners, a permanent and successful relationship.
If you are single, it may mean that you are feeling ready to begin something new, with fresh new optimism.
If you are in a relationship, maybe you are celebrating a happy anniversary or a marriage after a long engagement.
The Queen of Wands always looks at the positive in all situations.
Her life is busy, and nothing gets her down.
She is healthy and fit, naturally strong, perfectly coordinated, and a good athlete.
The Queen of Wands has faith in her own abilities but is never arrogant.
Her belief that she can accomplish whatever she wishes comes from her self-assurance. When the Queen of Wands is upright in a Tarot reading, you need to feel and think like she does.
You need to feel attractive, believe in yourself, and be full of energy.
Her special energy has a special meaning. You need to be inspired by the Queen of Wands in whatever form she appears to you.
The appearance of this card may suggest that you be wholeheartedly adventurous, creative, and trusting. In fact, shake off those blues and be gung-ho about life.
This card means you need to create an atmosphere of cheerfulness and confident enthusiasm.
This is the time to be inspired by everything the Queen of Wands stands for.
The Queen of Wands in love is a lovely thing.
If you’re single, it might mean that either you’re about to meet a Queen of Wands type or you are the Queen of Wands type.
If you’re in a relationship, it means that you’re taking on characteristics of the Queen of Wands or that your partner is.
Bottom Of The Deck
When the Two of Pentacles is upright it means you can take care of all the demands made of you. You’ll juggle obstacles with excitement.
The card is a sign that you have to believe in yourself even if you aren’t feeling confident.
You can meet all challenges if you just remember to be flexible.
Forcing your way through difficulties is not going to work.
Sometimes the way forward is by a step to the side or backward.
The Two of Pentacles in love is an indication that you have a decision coming up.
If you’re single, this means you must decide if you want to stay single or make room for someone new in your life.
If you’re in a relationship, you might be facing a large financial decision that will impact the future of your relationship.
Be honest with yourself about what you want.
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Sending Love to you all
I hope your OK
Apologies for the lack of blogging but life’s been a little upside down lately.
Have you ever had that feeling of a. Weight being lifted from you it’s like seeing blue skies after a very dark storm.
This is where Im at now I’ve been through the worst of if and I’m finally realising that I deserve to put my own needs first.
Trouble is I give more out than I ever receive then I end up burning myself out in the process.
Its OK to put myself first it’s OK to say no.
Focusing on yourself is extremely important, growth is extremely important.
Moving on is important leaving the past behind is essential.
You can’t change what’s happened.
But you can learn from the experience and use it in your future.
I’ve literally grown so far away from who I used to be at times I’m unrecognisable even to myself.
But as one door shuts another is waiting to open.
Something better and more for filling.
I’ve always been held back and too scared to be myself in fear of what other people think.
But that’s not me any more.
I’m not perfect I don’t look amazing all time, I’m not always happy, I get annoyed & like to be left alone sometimes.
But that’s just me.
But I’ve realised it’s time to move on I’m ready to move on and work on the life I deserve.
My heart will always be happy helping people but I have to remind myself that I need to also help myself.
Today was a great day I purchased my first ever size 12/14 pj’s I’m so overwhelmed I’ve not been a size 12 since high school.
I’m also exited to be working with Acti Labs Super excited I will be posting another blog along with details soon but their products are my absolute favourite that’s why I have taken a leap of faith and I’ve chosen to work alongside them.
You will be able to purchase direct from me but again I’ll put all details on another blog post for you all.
Thank you so much for all your support and love I’m so grateful.
Love to you all
Been a while since my last late night blog.
I’ve always had the the ability to tell the truth regarding situations and my own emotions.
This blog this evening is something that I’ve been struggling to come to terms with.
And that’s understanding that when it comes to love and relationships it simply can’t be all onesided.
I know most people have dealt with similar situations in regards to connections.
Can anyone here genuinely say they have ever been so in love that they would do anything to make the other person happy and completely disregarding their own feelings in order to be more appealing to the other party I know I have.
You know how it goes you play it cool try and keep busy but all your waiting for is the next….
To then find that it never comes.
One thing I’ve realised is that connections work both ways effort needs to come from both sides.
Your not the one who takes orders from a ringleader.
You make your own rules and follow them as you wish.
Over the years I’ve put my everything into my connections with people, I’ve really gone above board to make people happy, trouble is with me, I wear my heart on my sleeve I always have, and I love to love it’s just in my nature.
One thing I’ve realised over the past few months is that sometimes the universe will remove toxic people from your life other times you must remove them yourself.
Those who bring ill intentions into our lives do not or will not love us.
They will simply take what they need then leave.
That isn’t someone who loves you.
Love and respect is a two way street.
Never wait for someone to change their mind regarding their feelings.
That may never happen which leaves you feeling deflated.
Always be true to you but when the times right you will meet someone who understands you completely and no matter what the feelings will be mutual never onesided.
Loving all the wrong people prepares us to completely be ourselves and be at peace in our lives.
But most importantly it prepares us to receive the love we all deserve.
Love to you all
Evening all I’ve not late night blogged for a while but it’s Sunday evening and
I’m filled with anxiety again.
There’s days where I need to have a moment to myself just to put my head straight.
It’s extremely difficult to be one hundred percent who you are these days.
I find that people are very judgmental and quick to jump to conclusions.
Without the facts.
I have to say that sometimes humans don’t have an alternative motif for just simply being helpful or truthful.
Sometimes it’s just in their nature to be honest without fear and to want to work hard to make a difference.
I truly believe that the current situation I find myself in is exactly where I need to be, you find yourself in certain situations in life where there is either lessons to be learnt or truth to be given in order for change to take place.
Somethings been stagnant for to long stubborn for change then….
You smack bang in the middle of a situation you either need to learn from or make a difference.
One thing I’ve realised is when you see through people your not very well liked that’s a know fact.
When your real and disconnect from the drama that’s when you become the drama and in no way shape or form have I got time for drama.
I’m literally at that stage where I still feel anxious and some days I’m not as strong.
But honestly your put on this earth to yes be thoughtful of others but to also be thoughtful of yourself.
I can’t stress enough to people if your struggling to juggle life and struggling with the people around you.
Distance is sometimes the best key you can never pour from an empty cup.
You can make sure your vessel is fine but if the minds off balance then the two don’t work in harmony.
Don’t put to much pressure on yourself to be the perfect parent, sibling, partner, friend or work colleague.
You need to nurture your own soul before you give to others.
When people try and drag you into Drama don’t fall for it, if it’s not your issue then leave it, some people don’t like the truth and can be….
But don’t fall for it you can’t fix everything or everyone so don’t try to.
Just be honest to yourself and honest with others and if your respected for it great if not there’s no love lost.
Good night everyone
Love to you all
Good Evening all.
Tonight’s article is all about changing your mindset and applying positivity to your own life.
I wanted to talk this evening on changing your own mindset , I know that sometimes its difficult to remain positive in tough situation’s or when your surrounded by negative people.
But you will be surprised how quickly life will change when you remain positive and manifest the life you require.
No one want’s to just settle in life but the key is to always be one step ahead.
Changing your mindset wont happen overnight it will happen gradually you will start to see progression in your own life just from changing the way you think and react to situations and people around you.
Let me ask you a few questions..
- Have you always put other people’s happiness before your own?
2. Do you sometimes feel envious of other peoples lives’ ?
3.Do you want to make positive changes but don’t know how ?
Let me answer the best way I can.
Are you a human being who thrives on making others smile and making people happy , do you put there happiness before your own ?
Let me stop you right there without sounding to harsh its ok to wear your heart on your sleeve but you can’t pour from an empty glass , you must make sure you nurture your own soul before you give your all to someone else, if you have ever gone along with a situation that your not completely at ease with just to make someone else happy this is where I stop you and say don’t put yourself in a situation you don’t feel comfortable with just to please someone else in the long run you will only have regrets.
You should feel able to openly speak with family and friends if you don’t feel comfortable with a situation, If you don’t feel you can openly communicate then maybe working on your relationship’s and friendship’s are needed and understanding is needed from both parties.
Its ok to feel envious of people, not everyone has the same outlook on life or wish fulfilment, everyone’s back story is different too, if its wealth you seek or true love make sure to apply manifestation to your life.
I would highly recommend a dream board to start the law of attraction process within your life.
Many people have used this technique to apply positivity to their lives.
May i also suggest this amazing book I’ve come across to help you understand the applying of law and attraction to the universe.
It can be extremely difficult to make changes in life when your unsure on where to start , I’m going to give you a few pointers below.
1. Identify and understand what you want to change.
Whenever you decide to make a change, you must first understand why you’re making the change in the first place.
“You need to be able to identify what it is about your goal that adds to you as a person, that makes you feel better and more expansive,”
If your goal aligns with your core values, then “the thought of it will trigger a positive gut feeling.”
2. Rid your life of negativity.
This is not as simple as it may sound. If you’re surrounded by negativity, then how can you expect to have a positive and joyful life?
In fact, those who are negative or surrounded by negativity are more stressed, get sick more often, and have less opportunities than those who are positive.
“When we make a decision to become positive, and follow that decision up with action, we will begin to encounter situations and people that are also positive.”
Of course, that’s easier said than done. That’s why he suggests that you can accomplish this goal by doing the following:
You’ll find when you complete these steps, you’ll become more confident in your life.
3. Exercise more often.
You may be getting tired of hearing everyone telling you that you need more exercise. Sure. Exercising is great for you physically. But, it’s also an excellent way to become more positive in life.
Exercise can change the direction of most situations in your life.
The benefits of exercise are immeasurable. You gain purpose, drive, but most of all it teaches you a discipline.
For starters, when you exercise, you feel better about yourself, which leads to having more confidence. Exercise also reduces anxiety and stress and releases euphoric chemicals in the brain like endorphins and dopamine.
4. Build a support network.
A “strong social support network can be critical to help you through the stress of tough times, whether you’ve had a bad day at work or a year filled with loss or chronic illness.” This group of friends, family, and peers is also important because they provide additional benefits like providing a sense of belonging, an increase in self-worth, and a feeling of security whenever you need advice, information, or guidance.
5. Take baby steps.
“The one primary motivator that leads us to persevere is baby steps, That’s because when we look at the big picture we can get overwhelmed with all of the steps involved in achieving a goal.
Instead, break the “big picture goal down into systematic, manageable baby steps.” Then, document and celebrate your wins daily.
This will help you achieve that change that you’ve been seeking in a positive way and meaningful way.
Key is not to be so hard on yourself change can be fearful but letting go of negative influences and patterns can open new pathways.
Just always remember to nurture yourself and let positivity flow.
Love to you all
This will be my last blog post at the age of 32 tomorrow is my birthday.
Do you even celebrate when your in your 30’s my answer to that is yes.
I’ve made it to 33 after everything I’ve been through I’ve made it.
It’s been tough lifes not been kind but im grateful I’m here and I’m alive.
What does being thirty three years of age mean to me and how will I be making changes for the foreseeable future.
After a few wobbly weeks I’ve been really thinking about myself as a person and how I approach situations.
I’ve realised that it’s time to move on from anything or anyone that’s caused me great harm.
Worst thing to do in the world of hold on to a grudge you only ever hurt yourself in the process…
The other issue I have is feeling guilty for actually living my life the way I want too and having to keep other people happy, I’m not doing it anymore so heads up people Stacie is going to do what she wants to do and if it upsets the apple cart tough..
You get to a point in life you can’t keep worrying about other people.
Keep yourself in check make yourself happy because no one else will do it for you.
I’ll always be me but an upgraded version of my old self.
I’m finding people are seeking the old version of myself but she’s just not there anymore.
I’ve made huge progress so far I’m not going to stop now.
The diet is back tommrow after a weekend of eating out and gin..
My aim is to loose another stone by end of September.
It’s achievable but I’ll need to be strict and keep active.
So what are my birthday plans well I’ll be on my own just the way I like it hopefully weather is OK.
I will head down my local beach and grab a coffee somewhere and watch the world go by.
I do have plans to see one of my best friends and my other friend at the end of September for a girlie night out with festival vibes but until then it will be hard work and dedication.
And growing a little bit stronger each day.
I hope you have a fantastic week ahead don’t let people get you down and keep smiling.
Love to you all
I never thought I had the motivation to make a change to my lifestyle and eating habits but after a few rough months and lots of heartache.
I decided it was time to make drastic changes.
I didn’t want to just lose the weight that was holding me back but I wanted to work on my self-worth and learn to love myself again.
Over the past ten years, as I’ve gradually yoyo dieted and lost and gained weight.
I’ve been aware of so many changes – not just in my body but life in general.
But this time round I’ve worked my hardest.
Here are 10 things that you don’t expect to happen when you lose weight…
1.Your skin will loosen and head to your feet.
I know, gross. Once you start dropping the pounds, everyone experiences this and its not always exercise that helps with excess skin in fact it doesn’t hardly help at all.
This has to be one of my main issues at the moment it’s been getting to me that bad I’ve actually consulted two private medical practices to ask about paid surgery to remove excess skin.
It’s unbearable at times.
2. Itchy skin and sore stretch marks.
If you have lost weight and have stretch marks from either having children or rapid weight gain.
The healing process of shrinking stretch marks is terrible if you have this problem too then you feel my pain.
I miss the fullness of my boobs.
Don’t get me wrong, they are still a good handful but not quite what they were.
I’ve reversed two cup sizes which is good for me due to less back pain and better fitting underwear.
4.You feel guilty for even looking at a freddo
I’m more relaxed with my eating now but in the first few months I would feel so guilty if I ate something ‘naughty’. Do allow yourself treats (weekends are a good time for this) but in moderation, of course!
5.You become a boring .
I’m sure I’ve bored friends and family with my nutritional advice as they bite into a sandwich. Sorry.
It’s just because you feel so passionate about your own body and taking care of it you just try and help others.
That can sometimes come across as being over boring with annoying weight loss information.
6. Constantly having to be careful when buying new items of clothing.
This should be enjoyable and a happier side of weightloss infact the whole thing just stresses me out, down to remembering you don’t need your past bigger sizes.
To not wanting to spend a small fortune on clothes that may not fit you after more increased weightloss.
7. The true understanding that being thin doesn’t make you happier.
True statement there, just because being thin changes your body and mental attitude it doesn’t mean that all your problems will disappear.
Remember that your weight doesn’t define you as a person.
8. Maintaining the weight loss.
Maintenance can be even harder than losing the weight itself. When I began my journey, I was fueled by success, non-scale victories, and a newfound confidence I gained from becoming a healthier and happier me. But once I began to reach that weight range I’d been gunning for, I started to think, “Well, I’ve already lost a ton of weight.
So adapting my future healthy eating plan for long term process wasn’t going to be easy.
9. My relationships with friends and family have changed; some have grown stronger, and some have become more distant.
When you embark on a big lifestyle change like this, you aren’t just adjusting your eating habits and physical activity. Your interests, hobbies, and thought processes change, too. Even my relationships have changed.
Some friendships have grown apart, because our relationships were so heavily fueled by social drinking and eating.
I think the hardest part about this lifestyle change is that I never anticipated my friendships would shift.
10. I am still scared that I will spiral out of control and gain everything back.
This is an irrational thought, but it is also a very real one. It is especially heightened when I’m traveling or enjoying life and I go in the “fuck it, I’m on vacation” mode, and I binge to the point where I’m not sure I can come back from it.
Like going hard on sweets or alcohol hiding it from friends out of guilt, or overeating in general.
I’m aware that this is a problem for me, and it terrifies me when I lose control that way.
While I would be upset if I reversed my hard work, I think there’s a deeper fear there of disappointing everyone else and having my failure displayed on a very public level.
So there you have it the truth that no one tells you during the process of losing weight…
I hope I’ve helped 😊
Love to you all
Good Morning All
Its Saturday Which means its the weekend..
I awoke from not much sleep but Ive worked out coffee in hand I’m ready to be creative and let my passion flow.
Ive been getting a lot of emails and messages lately honestly I love getting messages from you all asking me for my guidance regarding your situations it makes me feel like I know what I’m talking about & also I like being helpful to other people.
I received an email of a lady in the U.S.A she had previously come across my blog and wanted my advice after her relationship of thirteen years ended abruptly.
I’m going to be honest I could feel her pain whilst reading her email one line that will always stick with me is I’m lost I really don’t know how I will carry on.
I just wanted to give her a hug because when your in love with someone and the feelings are no longer there on the partners side its a terrible feeling.
You just don’t know what you could of possibly done wrong, was you the actual problem all along.
Lets go over what the actual meaning of blindsided in love .
Blindside in love happens when one person thinks that everything is smooth and perfect in the relationship and suddenly the other person announces that they want to opt out. Being blindsided can shatter a person as it is unexpected and came without a warning.
We don’t see the red flags because we are so in love with someone we put them on a pedestal, it doesn’t matter what that person does to us we just don’t see the bigger picture.
- Your Feelings Are Normal
When you fail to pick up any signs that your partner was unhappy in the relationship and then suddenly ends it, you are going to feel like you have been blindsided by a breakup.
It’s normal to feel total shock and disbelief that this is happening to you because you thought you were both happy.
You will torture yourself with endless questions wondering how did it all go wrong. All these feelings are normal and they will pass as you process this heart breaking event.
2. Don’t Blame Yourself
Aside from cheating or doing something equally as destructive in the relationship, you can’t take the full blame for being splitting up.
If your ex wasn’t happy, they should have spoken up and discussed the issues that were bothering them.
But some people feel it’s easier to walk away rather than work through the issues towards a better relationship. You might have just been unlucky enough to fall for one of these types.
3. Take Time For Yourself
Be kind to yourself as you process this breakup.
Your heart has taken quite a blow without warning and it’s going to feel as if your world has been flipped upside down.
Often, your self-esteem will take a steep nosedive because you are going to feel unloved and unwanted.
The best way to combat these negative feelings is to pamper yourself so you get mini boosts of happiness as you work your way through the emotional pain.
4. Be Happy With Other People
Keep misery to a minimum by hanging out with good friends that can give you a shoulder to cry on.
Do fun things that you enjoy to take your mind off the breakup.
It’s really easy to slip into depression when someone you love tells you that they don’t want to be with you.
Surround yourself with people who think positive and can cheer you up when you are hurting the most.
5. Don’t Waste Your Time Trying To Convince Them.
The last thing you should do is try to convince them that they have made a mistake. Although it may have come as a complete surprise to you, it’s highly likely they where thinking about exiting the relationship long before it happened.
They had gave it a lot of thought before they actually initiated the breakup.
At this point, they have had more time to process the painful emotions and has detached themselves from them.
6. Acceptance Wont Come Easy
Although it always takes some time to accept a breakup, this one is going to be particularly difficult because you weren’t expecting to lose them at all.
You will remember the most recent time that they said “I love you” and struggle with the idea that their feelings couldn’t have changed that quickly.
Worst of all is that you will expect them to come back to you, and many times they won’t. It’s best to think of that relationship as a chapter in your life that has come to an end unless they says otherwise.
7. Distract Yourself
Find distractions to keep your mind from drowning in memories of your old relationship.
After you have been through a blindsiding breakup, your mind is going to struggle and try to make sense of the whole situation, which will bring up many old memories.
Find things to distract yourself like find a new hobby, sign up for a class in something you have always wanted to learn or learn a new language. The goal is to distract yourself so you won’t constantly be tortured by thoughts of your ex.
The key is to work on yourself when you go through a situation like this not because you where the problem in the first place but because you deserve to be loved and understood being blindsided can really be a whirlwind process but you will get through it , it just takes time.
You will learn new things about yourself when your in a state of vulnerability but you must always remember not every relationship will be the same as your last so please don’t give up on love when the time is right you will know but for now take your time and get to know yourself.
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Good Afternoon everyone.
I’m super excited to share this weeks spiritual guidance blog with you all.
Firstly I want to say that I really do hope that my guidance blogs helps all my readers in some way or another, I have had a spiritual gift for all my life and a huge interest in what come’s to us all after our passing for a very long time but I will save that for another blog.
My spiritual guidance blogs are all about you guys and me giving something back to you all as good will gesture for always taking the time out to read my blogs and support me in everything I do.
So lets get on with the legalities and get the boring stuff out the way first..
I have to state that all my guidance blogs are for entertainment purpose’s only .
My weekly guidance blogs are for all signs and elements, take what resonates and leave the rest to the universe .
Here we go..
I have a little message from the universe to everyone who’s really struggling with life at the moment.
Whilst connecting to gain clarity regarding your guidance today I was show a very clear image of a shadow person in front this shadow person two pathways formed as the vision got clearer I started to see more of a clearer outline of the shadow person, he was male , his expression on his face was somewhat of confusion and fear after a short while and hesitation…
I herd what path should I take the right one it seems less bumpy more plain sailing but what seeks me at the end is safe , unfulfilling in the long run it seems and easy less effort I have a dreaded feeling of regret.
He looks at the left path its full of bumps its looks scary full of uncertainties, dark corners great highs and steep lows he feels fear , excitement , great love and release from the ties of life.
As he stands there he knows he has to make a choice he can’t keep holding back in the darkness and floating about hoping everything will work out fine.
This is a very clear message I get for a lot of you, if you want something in life you have to make it happen it won’t just fall in your lap the universe doesn’t work like that you have to put the effort in .
If you want that dream job get of your butt start researching now on training , work on gaining skills and the opportunities’ will be endless.
If you have wanted a connection with someone emotionally for a while but you have always been held back by your own emotions and fear , speak your truth because it something wonderful can happen from just one honest truthful conversation if it works out great if it doesn’t no regret’s only lesson’s learnt.
Life doesn’t have a road map you don’t always need a plan because plans, people and situations can change just like the direction of the wind you need to live in the present and the now.
Four of Cups
Has the grass been looking greener on the other side?
The Four of Cups is a card that tells us we aren’t looking at the good things we already have in our lives, and instead are longing for what we could have.
When this card appears in your readings, it’s challenging you to stop daydreaming about what you could have in your life and instead count your blessings.
The Four of Cups is a warning that we need to be more appreciative of what we have, and show a little more gratitude towards the things we’ve already been blessed with.
When we become self-absorbed, and start taking what we have for granted, we tend to miss out on other opportunities.
The Four of Cups calls attention to the fact that while you are busy wondering about other things, you’re missing out on the chance to improve what you already have.
Five Of Cups
The Five of Cups is a surprisingly complex card for being a part of the Minor Arcana.
It is depicted as five golden chalices, three of which have been knocked to their sides while the remaining two stay standing.
This card brings about confirmation of loss, sorrow, and despair, but also signifies that there is light at the end of the tunnel.
The three downed cups typically refer to the feelings you already have about your situation.
Whatever it may be that life has thrown at you, it can be hard to come to terms with not being able to put things back as they were.
The Cups suit is related to water, and you certainly cannot refill the fallen chalices with the water they already held.
The two chalices that have been untouched, however, promise that your situation can be salvaged, even if some of its parts have been changed.
Page Of Swords
The Page of Swords is represented by a young man atop a hill, grasping a silver sword in both his hands.
Like the other Page cards of the Minor Arcana, he is still learning and growing.
Often he represents an actual young person in your life.
The Page of Swords stands for truth and justice, as well as open and honest communication.
He is likely to appear to those who are struggling between telling the truth and sparing someone’s feelings, or those who are having a hard time verbally expressing their emotions.
Its important that you express your emotions without fear of the outcome because your at greater risk of hurting yourself trying to keep others happy.
Page Of Wands
Generally speaking, the Page of Wands is in the area of having projects that come to fruition.
Something you initiated a while back starts to deliver positive results.
Another meaning that is to be considered frequently in a reading is that this Page represents a literal person in your life.
(S)he is a high energy person, a high-achiever that brings a positive vibe in your world.
Beware of lack of focus though.
Energy, success and enthusiasm are all good, but don’t take your eyes off the prize just yet.
Keep going keep achieving your hearts desires.
Ace Of Cups
This card is generally depicted as a large golden chalice with water overflowing from within.
The Ace of Cups shows up in a reading when you have reached a point of emotional stability, happiness, and peace.
It is a reminder that you have good emotional intelligence and a strong foundation on which you are able to take on the world, usually with a smile on your face.
A present position Ace of Cups means that the path your life has taken is the best one for you.
Whether it’s your relationship, family life, or career, you are in a secure and stable place emotionally.
Whatever you’ve been doing, it’s working in your favour so keep at it.
This card is also about gaining more insight into what is your role in a bigger scheme of things.
It can be a big project, it can be the community you are part of and so on.
The meaning is that you are more in tune with the world around you.
There is a virtuous circle, i.e. the more success you have, the more connected you feel and the more you are motivated to contribute.
In terms of travel, the World can literally indicate that you may be traveling around the world. You may soon go for a long distance trip.
You may also receive a message from the Universe to be more open to take in elements from the world around you.
Try to become more receptive and expand your awareness.
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