What The Universe Wants You To Know 22/11/2020 To 29/11/2020

Good afternoon everyone.

Happy Sunday to you all.

Tomorrow will be a start to a brand new week I’m feeling a lot of positivity from the universe at the moment, I feel the dynamics have somewhat changed , there has been a huge transitional shift .

Out with the negativity and the darkness and in comes the light at the end of the road.

For a lot of you it seems like a lifetime in waiting for such clarity and understanding of your own soul.

A lot more of you have opened your minds to what’s around you , this I feel is from you having time away from normal daily routine , as we all know life hasn’t been normal for all of us for a while now , but take one good thing from this pandemic its made us have time to sit and evaluate our lives and look at situations differently, for many of us it’s given us the power of voice and to allow our true selves to shine through braking down the false veil that we all shield behind.

I would like to state that all my spiritual guidance blogs are for entertaiment purpose only.

Take what resonates and leave the rest.

All signs and elements are included.

Weekly Vision Message

I’m standing in busy old fashioned train station , I can hear the steam from the engines and I can smell the burning of the coal.

There is a lot of people rushing around in all directions trying to get to their destinations.

As I approach my platform I can feel and see the sadness from loved ones saying goodbye to each other, also hugs of reassurance to.

As I reach my train I hesitate ,I take one deep breath and step aboard.

I’m feeling nervous and scared, will everything be ok , will I return again , Will things remain the same.

This message I feel is linked to long distance love connections , I feel a few of you are really struggling with this situation at the moment , if your in a relationship or apart from someone you wish to have a connection with then this is a message for you.

Time and distance can never come between true love connections , if the two of you are determined and wanting to make your situation work then it will, Trust is needed to build a solid foundation everything else comes from trust and loyalty.

As long as you both put the effort into this connection distance or time will never come between you.

Its frustrating not making plans for your intermediate future but have faith and be willing to make time for each other in other ways and remain truthful and honest to one another.

The universe is reassuring you that everything will work out fine….

1st Card

When the World card is reversed it symbolizes imperfection, lack of vision, and disappointment.

The result of the project is imperfect, disappointing, and lacks vision.

Or you are having trouble reaching your goal.

You may be frustrated and tempted to take a shortcut, but that will only lead to more frustration, and you won’t be happy with the result.

The world in reverse in love I feel with the world in reverse regarding your love life , is that your pushing away your soul mate due to fear , you don’t feel you both can overcome this situation.

So you are shutting down regarding your connection.

If your single this can mean your not ready to commit , your not interested in sharing your life with anyone at the moment.

2nd Card

When the Two of Swords is reversed in a Tarot reading, it can mean you are being indecisive.

There might be fear and confusion.

It might leave you inert and unable to act.

It can also mean that you’re finally seeing something for what it is.

The Two of Swords in reverse is an indication that things are no longer being stalled.

If you’re single, it might mean that you need to choose between two prospective partners and are having trouble deciding.

If you’re in a relationship, it can mean that you and your significant other are at a crossroads and need to decide what comes next.

3rd Card

When the Three of Cups is upright , it signifies feelings around friendship.

It represents community and the network created when we interact with others.

You may find you have a lot of parties and celebrations on your calendar.

This card also means it is time to examine your attachments from an emotional point of view.

The card may also represent all types of support, including giving and receiving help.

The Three of Cups in love is an indication that good times are ahead.

If you’re single, you may find a spark with someone from your past.

If you’ve been in a dry spell, you may find potential partners knocking on your door.

If you’re in a relationship, this card can mean there’s an upcoming celebration of love, such as a wedding or engagement.

4th Card

When the Lovers card is upright ,it stands for love, harmony, trust, honour, the beginning of romance, and optimism.

It is a card of passion, and feeling passionate, but it isn’t strictly about romantic relationships and intense interpersonal bonds.

One basic meaning of this card is that you may come across a divergence you dare not miss, no matter the difficulty, even if it is against your chosen path.

Be on the lookout for this opportunity, and don’t automatically take the easy road.

Think things over before you come to a decision.

Perhaps it’s time to take a leap of faith.

The Lovers card in a Tarot is seriously romantic.

If you’re single, hang on tight because a red-hot romance is headed to you.

If you’re in a relationship, things are about to heat up between you.

5th Card

When the Eight of Cups is upright , it is time to realize that the past is gone.

An end is approaching, and what was thought to be permanent is no longer so.

It is time to accept the change that is staring you in the face.

The card signals that it’s time to move on. The only thing permanent in life is change, and everything slips away sooner or later.

The Eight of Cups in love represents feeling’s of abandonment.

If you’re in a relationship, it could mean that you or your partner is ready to walk away.

But I feel communication is needed as I feel that your holding back on your feelings.

If you’re single, it represents loneliness and the inability to allow yourself to thrive in a new relationship.

6th Card

When the Four of Swords is reversed, it can mean you are finally finding the strength to get through (or out of) something.

It can also indicate that you’re ready to address stress, anxiety, and other things that worry you.

It can also mean taking care of yourself after a long time of not doing so.

The Four of Swords in love is an indication that you are ready to connect or reconnect with a past love !!

If you’re single, it means you might want to take some time to figure out exactly what you want in a partner before welcoming someone new into your life.

If you’re in a relationship, you are entering a period of peacefulness with your partner.

Bottom Of the Deck

When the Tower card is reversed in a Tarot reading, it means that you are stuck in a rut or trapped in a bad situation.

You need to shake things up.

You probably know this, but you have been procrastinating about making a big change.

Take a hard look at habits and traditions that you’ve been following unquestioningly.

Ask yourself how they are holding you back.

And why your scared of following your heart

What can you throw away to make room for something better?

The Tower card in love means profound changes are happening.

If you’re single, it could mean you need to reconstruct yourself from the ground up before you have room for a relationship.

If you’re in a relationship, it might have to end, signalling a breakup or divorce.

Even if the relationship remains standing, it will change fundamentally in some way.

Angel Oracle Message

Any obstacles that you have been experiencing are temporary.

Your guardian angels are taking care of the details to remove them from your path.

Do not worry about the appearance of challenges, because they are just an illusion that will soon disappear.

If you worry excessively about these issues, you will fuel them with power and energy.

See them instead as wispy clouds that can’t really block you.

This is an especially important time for you to stay in steady contact with God and your angels.

Sometimes when we are under stress, we forget to pray and ask for Heaven’s help – yet these are the times when it is best for us to enlist the assistance of our Creator and celestial guides.

It is your angels’ great pleasure to help you to navigate along a smooth path.

They know that you will grow faster in a peaceful setting, just as a plant grows strongest with the optimal nutrients, sunlight, and water.

Your life is becoming more stable with a quieter form of excitement.

The drama of obstacles is now a thing of the past.

I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.

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Sending Love to you all

Stacie xx

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Weekly Spiritual Guidance 25/10/2020 to 1/11/2020

Good Afternoon all .

Its that time of the week again what does the universe have in store for you.

I really enjoy doing these weekly blog posts and I know my readers on my blog and everyone at fashion potluck also loves reading them too.

So lets see what the universe has to share with us all this week.

Lets get the legal formalities out the way firstly all my weekly spiritual guidance blog posts are for entertaiment purpose only .

All signs and elements are included take what resonates and leave the rest.

Starting with my weekly vision message…

Its a hot summers day , I’m walking up a small winding path.

The birds tweeting and there are butterflies dancing amongst the flowers, the grass is the perfect shade of green, and the sky is so blue there isn’t a cloud in sight.

As I’m walking up the path I see a old wooden bridge ahead it looked a little unsteady.

Before I cross the bridge I hesitate , my heart starts to race and my mind fills with fear.

What if I fall , what if I get hurt….

As I am standing on the edge of the path along come’s a little boy and a dog.

He asks me why do you hesitate to cross the bridge lady ?

I simply replied because I’m scared and I fear that I may get hurt, The boy replied but how will you continue your journey without crossing the bridge.

You can’t stay where you are you must move forward..

Without hesitation the boy skipped over the bridge with a smile the dog followed closely behind him.

When the boy reached the other side, he shouted over to me “See it wasn’t so bad after all , if I can do it so can you.

You just need to let go of fear and have faith.

Within this message I feel a lot of people are fearing the unknown and the uncertainty of their own futures, Fear fuels negativity and negativity spreads like a wildfire from one person to the next.

It present times I know people are tired and fearful but what the universe want’s you all to know is that you are all free spirits , you all have control over your own destiny let go of that fear and the negativity allow yourselves time to heal from the past.

Only then will you allow yourself to be at peace.

Let the light of positivity shine your way forward without fear you can accomplish anything & have faith in yourself.

1st Card

When the Moon card is reversed it symbolizes discovering deception before damage can be done, trifling mistakes, and taking advantage of someone.

It’s the releasing of negativity and the letting go of fears.

Your problems will lighten and you’ll emerge with newfound confidence and clarity.

The Moon card in love is one of insecurity cards .

If you’re single, try to keep your wits about you with your new love interest to make sure everything is on the up and up.

If you’re in a relationship, it might be time to examine if this is exactly what you want.

Maybe you look like the perfect couple on the outside, but there’s another story behind closed doors.

2nd Card

When the Justice card is upright it symbolizes harmony, balance, equality, righteousness, virtue, honour, and advice.

It can also mean a time for adjustments, as well as an opportunity to bring physical, emotional, social, and spiritual things back into balance.

It also means it is time to stand tall and strong against the things that might be trying to throw you off balance.

The Justice card in a love is a portent of true, honest love.

If you’re single, it could mean that someone with a background in the law is coming into your life.

If you’re in a relationship, the Justice card will shine a light on the actions of you and your partner. Are you both acting in a fair and just manner?

3rd Card

When the Devil card is upright it symbolizes downfall, unexpected failure, controversy, violence, disaster, an ill-tempered person, and weird or strange experiences.

The Devil card warns you not to be too restrained but to be passionate and ambitious. You are restrained because you allow yourself to be.

The Devil card in love can be somewhat complicated.

If you’re single, it can indicate that you want to be loved but are unsure of how.

It might also signal that you’re using sex as a stand-in for true intimacy and might do best if you took a step back to re-evaluate what you really want in a relationship.

If you’re in a relationship, it might indicate that you feel suffocated, trapped, or are overly co-dependent, which should be addressed if you want to move into a place of relationship health.

4th Card

When the Seven of Pentacles is upright and it means it is time to catch your breath after a lot of activity.

It’s time to assess your work and what you get from that work.

Maybe you’ve been so busy that you haven’t taken the time to reflect on what you’ve accomplished. This is the time to take stock of your situation and make sure you’re getting the results you want.

The Seven of Pentacles in love is an indication that you can manifest what you want.

If you’re single, you should reflect on past relationships to understand what you want out of a future love.

If you’re in a relationship, this card usually means that the work you’ve been putting into your relationship will pay off very soon.

5th Card

When the Four of Swords is reversed it can mean you are finally finding the strength to get through (or out of) something.

It can also indicate that you’re ready to address stress, anxiety, and other things that worry you.

It can also mean taking care of yourself after a long time of not doing so.

The Four of Swords in love is an indication that you are ready to connect or reconnect.

If you’re single, it means you might want to take some time to figure out exactly what you want in a partner before welcoming someone new into your life.

If you’re in a relationship, you are entering a period of peacefulness with your partner.

6th Card

When the Seven of Wands is reversed it means turning your back on your own truths and beliefs and convictions.

It can also represent making a compromise or being unpopular.

Let the conflict go.

Fight only if it is worth fighting, even if you’ve already invested time and energy in it.

If your cause is just, stand by your convictions as indicated by the Seven of Wands.

The Seven of Wands in a love ,If you’re single, it might mean that you’re going to have to work very hard to get the person you desire.

If you’re in a relationship, be prepared to fight for what you want and need.

Bottom of the deck

When the Hermit card is upright it symbolizes counsel, inner strength, prudence, caution, vigilance, patience, and withdrawal.

You might be impatient with people who cannot see what you can see, and you may have a desire to be alone.

You are diving deep and figuring things out for yourself.

It might mean you need to be alone to do the self-reflection that’s necessary right now.

The Hermit card in a love is an indication of a fresh start.

If you’re single and you’ve recently retreated (perhaps due to previous heartbreak), you’re finally ready to put your heart back out there.

If you’re in a relationship, it might mean you and your partner need to focus on each other. Independence is good, but there’s a reason you’re together.

I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.

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Sending Love to you all

Stacie xx

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Evening all better late then never but today’s weekly guidance is a little later than normal.Its Friday evening and I’m in my home office ready to channel your weekly messages and guidance.lets get the legalities out the way ..All my spiritual guidance posts are for entertainment purpose only.All weekly guidance posts contain general messages and guidance for all signs and elements.I hope you enjoy but take what resonates and leave the rest.

Weekly Vision MessageI’m on a roller coaster I’m approaching the lift hill its dark, I can see the fairground lights in the distance.

I can feel the breeze on my face I can’t hear anything but my own heart beating and the mechanics of the train , the feeling of apprehension and fear of what’s to come the unknown is rippling through me , my brain is telling me to get off but my heart’s telling me to take the leap of faith be spontaneous.Just as the train is about to go over the edge the vision fades.Within this Vision I have come to a understanding that some of you must come to a decision do you stay with what’s safe and known or do you take a leap of faith and ride the rollercoaster we call life , I also believe its an understanding of oneself the desire to live life and not to just exist.

Feeling stuck in a situation is taking its toll on you and i feel you maybe staying put because of fear of hurting others by meeting your desire.


1st Card


Three Of Pentacles

The Three of Pentacles in Tarot stands for teamwork, planning, and competence. The Three of Pentacles meaning in a Tarot reading is about overcoming the impossible.The three of pentacles means you will be successful if you let others help you achieve your goals. You don’t have to do it all by yourself. In fact, to succeed, you need to work with a team toward a common goal.This is not the time to rush into anything. You need to plan and prepare and think through the various possibilities.


2nd Card


The Six of Swords

The Six of Swords in Tarot stands for the blues, recovery, and travel. It represents pushing through a rough sea to reach calmer waters.The Six of Swords can mean that you might be in a bad place right now, but you are moving toward something better.Things might have been difficult, sad, or depressing, but you are moving to a more positive place and more hopeful conditions.The appearance of the Six of Swords may also indicate recovery, especially if you have experienced rough times.In troubled times, nothing matters at all. You just feel numb and disconnected.As times goes by, you begin to pick up the pieces of your life as you begin to recover. At times, recovery may mean moving to new places.The Six of Swords card also represents travel and moving to new places.

This would normally mean a physical relocation, but this may be far from the truth.The travel or move could indicate an inner journey, a journey from one frame of mind to another.


3rd Card


Temperance

The Temperance can be difficult to interpret, but in general it’s about the blending of opposites and the achieving of synthesis.Its also the Sagittarius card in the tarot deck so listen out if your a Sagittarius.This card is all about harmony, peace, and patience.Β it symbolizes moderation, temperance, patience, harmony, fusion, good influence, and confidence.This card can also be a warning to temper your behaviour and a reminder that irreconcilable opposites can be reconciled.You are truly connected to what makes a good life, and you are living it.You have a strict moral code, and you will work hard to reach your goals, whatever they might be.But don’t be to stubborn Sagittarius you might loose out on something that’s truly going to make you happy.


4th Card


Three of Cups

The Three of Cups in Tarot stands for exuberance, friendship, and community.The Three of Cups meaning in a Tarot reading is coming together in love.It comes from the viewpoint of emotions, such as feelings you have when joining with others, whether that’s a friendship or a community.It signifies feelings around friendship.It represents community and the network created when we interact with others.You may find you have a lot of parties and celebrations on your calendar for the future.Lots of making up for lost time.It may also mean time to examine your attachments from an emotional point of view.

The card may also represent all types of support, including giving and receiving help.


5th Card


Queen Of Pentacles

The Queen of Pentacles stands for nurturing, bigheartedness, resourcefulness, and trustworthiness.The Queen of Pentacles meaning in Tarot is that something needs to be done, and she’s here to help make it happen.Her personality is a combination of the positive earth energy of the Pentacles suit and the inward focus of a Queen.She is warm and generous, and she takes great pleasure in caring for and nurturing others. Sensible and practical, she ensures everyone is happy and secure.The Queen of Pentacles is always ready to calm your fears and share all your troubles.Queen of Pentacles means you think as she does.You feel warm and caring toward others.You are sensible in your approach. You are true to your word. You’re highly generous, and best of all, you can be trusted when the chips are down.By drawing the Queen of Pentacles card, you can be inspired by the atmosphere of warmth, trust, security, and whatever else the Queen stands for, including her special energy.One for our fellow earth signs Taurus , Virgo or Capricorn the significant link between all earth signs and one fire sign here so you maybe dealing with either a fire sign or earth sign when linking the Queen of Pentacle’s and the Temperance.


6th Card


Knight Of Cups

The Knight of Cups in stands for being romantic, imaginative, and sensitive.The Knight of Cups meaning in a Tarot reading can also be somewhat moody and temperamental, but also a thing of great beauty, both the creation of beautiful things and the appreciation of them.

It is charm, affection, and big, big emotions.With the Knight of Cups you need to check whether the energy of the Knight is helpful to you or not.Is your home life full of emotions, or is it ruled by common sense? You need to check your feelings. Are they excessive or appropriate? Are you being driven crazy by someone’s moodiness? If this style of the Knight is evident, it might be time for a change, a time for balance.If the style and energy of the Knight are missing, you may need to try something else. Express yourself instead of being restrained.Try being extravagant instead of being practical.

Visit the Knight’s world of romance and beauty.I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.Please feel free to share like and comment and donate to my blog if you wish.
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It’s all so quiet …

Shh shh
It’s oh so still
Shh shh
You’re all alone
Shh shh
And so peaceful until

Good evening all.

I hope your well, so who’s ready for normal life to resume again I know I definitely want normality back.

Like billions of others I haven’t been blogging a lot because I’ve been busy working on a few things behind the scene and tbh I’ve had a few bad days I didn’t want to document them because for me it’s now about progression and moving forward.

I’m only human and I know i will still have bad days besides good ones.

My motto for August is be true to who you are and focus on yourselves. Everyone around you is on their own personal journey leave them to it and focus on you.

Apart from working on myself and my own future I would like to think I’ve made some sort of a difference to other people’s lives over the past 18 months I’ve had plenty of ups and downs but it’s honestly made me a stronger person…

My blog is going from strength to strength the amount support I receive is amazing thank you all.

I would like to say the scars are finally healing from the past and I’m actually remembering what happiness is again.

A week ago I sat down and thought about what I want from life I’ve not put a lifetime plan in place as things can change unexpectedly but I’ve made at least a twelve month plan for myself and where I would like to be a year from now…

Whilst I was going through a bad time in my life I forgot whats mostly important to me and what makes me happy just because I was always worrying about what other people thought of me and how my personal growth would affect there’s.

Now I’m just focusing on me as selfish as that sounds.

I am still a good mum and every other title I fall under of but I’m not taking to lightly on others I have to do what makes me happier.

Today I relaunched one of my passions making custom clothing it’s another bow added to my very long string.

I’m just doing what makes me happy and that’s what life’s about after all being happy, falling in love and feeling like you belong in your own skin.

What other people are doing around you isn’t your mess to clean up its there’s so your best off leaving them to it and focusing on yourself and your future.

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Good afternoon…

I hate to have to do blogs like this now because I’m so far away from the person who I was 18 months ago.
But as its my blog and I know people who truly care about me will understand every word that I wrote. Nothing else matters than how you see yourself.

So here it goes….

Hey I’m stacie I’m a 32 year old working mum of two.

I have two girls that I need to show strength and empowerment to.

Yes how ive evolved from who I once was and to the people who don’t understand why I’ve changed I’m going to explain a little.

If your affected by it then tough then maybe you know you have played a part in my story and maybe the truth hits home hard but that’s not my gulit it’s yours.

When all people say is oh well your strong you can deal with it but your actually screaming inside I can’t do this anymore, I’ve had enough yes this was me 18 months ago disappointed by ego, relationships,friendships and your own personal growth.

If I could go back now and slap myself 18 months previous I would.
How I’ve allowed others to use and walk over me.

To lie, abuse my friendship and my love then act like I was the one who put the knife in their back.

Well guess what I’ve just pulled the last knife out of my own back.

Whatever I’ve done in order to create my own innerpeace is my bussiness.

I’ve lost weight for me and I will continue to do what makes me happy…

And if I want to sit there in my bra and pants and post a selfie I will because this women is proud of who’s shes becoming.

After years of looking in the mirror and hating myself I finally have self love.

If you don’t like to see someone else progress then that’s your own issue.

I won’t settle for anything less than what I deserve.
So yes you can say who does she think she is.

But you don’t know the truth behind my change and why I needed to change myself.

I’m still here there’s still parts of stacie but I’ve upgraded and outgrown people who didn’t bring peace to my life my old ways of thinking have gone.

I’m still compassionate I still have a heart but the walls are a little higher..

No time for drama, fake friends or judgement.

I’m here to make something of myself.

So keep your judgement to yourself because it’s not welcome here.

We don’t cut people out for the fun of it we cut people out because we have finally opened our eyes.

I’m no angel I know that but one thing is I’ve learnt from my mistakes I don’t try and pass them off to someone else and hide.

But understand that sometimes people need to wipe slate clean and walk away from anything that damages the soul.

Sometimes that includes cutting ties and moving on.

Thanks for reading πŸ’“πŸ’—

Stacie xx
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Hello and happy Friday here from lovely sunny Merseyside.

I hope you are all ok whatever you have planned for today i really hope you have a wonderful day.

I’ve just finished my morning workout and i felt inspired to blog so here i am coffee at the ready.

If your hoping for juicy gossip going from my blog title unfortunately I’m not allowed to tell all at the moment that’s for another article when i’m ready to share but admit its caught your attention hasn’t it .

I wanted to connect to all my fellow bloggers or newbies that are just starting out.

To give insight into how ive progressed with my blog and what’s helped me along the way.

I’m going to start of by saying welcome to your own special place on the internet where you can completely be yourself , yes you heard that correctly you can be yourself.

One thing i have learnt from blogging is that its perfectly fine to express yourself but use your experience’s and your words constructively.

Depending on what type of blogger you see yourself as people tend to stick to relatively the same category i.e fashion , travel , reviews etc.

With me i prefer to just be a lifestyle blogger i can pick and choose from a wide range of subjects that i can create article’s from and hopefully my readers can engage and relate to them .

Trying to find your niche can be tough but once you have the hang of it , its pretty much straight forward.

Remember that blogging can be a form of therapy to, it’s worked better for me than any therapist has.

Its your experience’s that really connects with your readers being completely open helps you engage better with your blogging community to.

Ive been blogging since April 2019 and at first my reach to my readers was relatively slow but after a few months the number of readers started to get higher and higher.

Ive never been fantastic at English or spelling as I’ve openly admitted in previous posts but who cares that’s what spell check is for right…

When i first started my blog i was going through a very bad time in my personal life with no outlet to get all my emotions out but i used my blog to constructively express myself trying my hardest to leave certain experiences out of my blog due to legal obligations .

So why did i choose a name I hear you all say rather than just call my blog by my own name well its because mine is a brand not just Stacie.

And Stacie is pretty boring just kidding.

Call it my alter ego…

Seashells and Lipgloss comes from my two favourite things and it also links my location within my blog.

Seashells because i live by the seaside and I love it and lipgloss because who doesn’t love lipgloss and the fact i don’t go anywhere with out it.

Fits perfectly for me lets get with how this article can help you find your way in the blogging network .

Coming up with great tagline titles really does help i sometimes use song lyrics , quotes or my own depending on what subject I’m blogging about and if it’s a article , poetry or product review.

Deciding if your going to be completely truthful or to try curve your words to fit to your audience.

I choose to be my authentic self I’m very vocal in my every day life i always state if its an over 18 post because i feel its important to give people a heads up if they choose not to engage that’s fine not everyone likes cussing .

Using gifs oh how i love a gif who doesn’t i love using them i’m well known for using them to as my other blogging platform community tells me #fashionpotluck.

There catchy i love them.

Using your own pictures is always a must especially if your advertsing a product being authentic is important and don’t be afraid to blog as many times as you like a day its your blog.

I try to blog at least once a day to try and keep my viewers interested but someone times life takes over and your not able to so don’t worry if you can’t blog everyday.

Coming to the end of my article I want you to all know that if you write a blog and its important to you then it really doesn’t matter what other peoples views are its your thoughts you send out to the universe and out on your blog.

People are not forced to engage they choose to by their own free will.

So just write your heart out and remember each experience makes us stronger.

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Love to you all

Stacie xx

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Evening all.

Sending my love to you all.

I normally blog late at night but I’ve decided to blog slightly earlier today.

Tonight’s post is all about taking a risk and how I have overcome my fear of the unknown.

First of all I wanted to say a massive thank you all for your love and support it means the world to me.

I look back and realise how far I’ve come.

Back in April 2019 I hit the sign up button and I’ve never looked back.

I’m no longer a voice that no one hear’s.

I’m no longer alone with my thoughts in my mind.

And oh my life how I’ve released fear and blockages that have held me back.

I can say if people from my past saw me now I’m 100% convinced they really wouldn’t recognise me.

I’m not the same person.

Yes I still have my demons but I now keep them on a tight lead.

When the past doesn’t hurt you anymore that’s when you know you’ve healed.

I don’t look back and feel sad anymore, I look back and smile because everything I went through made me a stronger person.

And I still remember the good memories instead of all the hurt.

When we are presented with a genuine offer most of us panic and think of what could go wrong before we even give the opportunity a chance.

It leaves us wanting to run away..

Fear stops us from reaching our potential.

Everyday we are evolving and learning in fact we never stop learning and experiencing.

There isn’t a single soul on this earth that know’s everything.

When your given an opportunity you need to think about these three things.

1. Not what if but why not..

Stop thinking negative if things don’t work out then you can change and learn from the experience but at least you won’t have regrets.

Living with regrets can mentally distroy you.

2. What’s to loose.

You need to think what will this outcome bring to me what can I achieve from taking a risk.

Taking a leap of faith is a huge step into moving forward.

Nothing changes the past but staying optimistic and postive can have massive impact on your future plans.

3. You will win some you will loose some.

Failure is a bitter pill to swollow but sometimes we have to understand even if we take a risk it doesn’t always work in our favour.

But least you tried and you won’t live with the not knowing.

I can not stress enough if you loosen the fear reigns you will be surprised at what you attract into your life.

I used to be a full introvert but now I’m coming more out of myself and showing the world I mean business.

I’ve turned my pain into my progress and I’ve achieved so much just from letting go of fear.

And you will too if you just take that leap of faith ❀️

Tonight I’m toasting to my success and hard work 😁

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Love to you all.

Stacie β€οΈπŸ’•β€οΈπŸ’•

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Evening all πŸ’•β€οΈ

Two blogs in one day I’m spoiling you all.

Tonights topic is all about drama and how life and people can pull you into all different situations.

It’s all about how you react to a situation.

Tonight I just want to give some clear advice this is coming from someone who’s always dealt with these kind tough situations.

Like most people I’ve had my fair share of heartache and problems some I’ve caused myself some have been caused by others.

Let’s start with me and how I have sometimes caused my own drama.

I’m an introvert I overthink everything it can cause me to have anxiety attacks if I dwell on situations for to long.

Instead of me finding a rational explanation I will act on impulse and either do something I instantly regret.

Or say something that I haven’t really thought about before saying it and then it’s too late it’s been said.

I’m also too honest which doesn’t always work in my favour.

As I get older I’m having to change my way of thinking and how I approach situations that I feel uncomfortable about.

It still doesn’t stop me shutting down and pushing others away.

That’s just my stubborn behaviour.

But im learning that not every situation needs a negative response.

Sometimes not every situation needs a reaction at all.

Now let’s talk about the elephant in the room.

Other people….

Let me just say this clearly whatever you do or say to someone else you need to realise that you will never be able to control their actions or response.

You can’t control what they think of you it’s completely up to the person in question how they perceive you.

But what you are in control of is how much emotion you invest into a situation.

We as humans will never be able to fully understand each other.

We aren’t wired the same way mentally we are physically but not mentally you cannot control other people’s views of you.

Some will like you and find your personality traits amazing.

Some people just get on better than other’s.

It’s just human nature.

Some will find you annoying egotistical possibly can’t stand to be around you and everything you say will always be wrong.

You can’t please everyone.

And never try to understand why people do the things they do.

If it comes from malace my best advice would be to just simply not engage it’s not worth it leave them to it.

Don’t walk your path with hate just simply let it go.

These are karmic lessons on not to make same mistakes twice.

But never ever let anyone stop you from progressing by dragging you into unnecessary drama.

I have no time for it.

I’ve let alot go from my past I’m only ever going forward.

Remember you can’t control the person or situation but you can change how you react to it.

P. S be kind, be beautiful, be you

Love to you all.

Stacie πŸ’•β€οΈπŸ’•β€οΈπŸ’‹

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One last thing Just a little song for you all below πŸ‘‡πŸ‘‡

No more drama Mary j bilge

π•Šπ•₯π•’π•Ÿπ••π•“π•ͺ 𝔽𝕠𝕣 π•‹π•’π•œπ•–π• π•—π•— βœˆοΈ

Afternoon all ❀️

I hope you’re all well considering.

Haven’t blogged for a few days I’ve been so busy and my life has really taken off in a way i could never imagine.

I have had to pinch myself a few times.

Unfortunately im not going on a trip anywhere but me and my friends are absolutely itching to get away for a few days in the sunshine.

Until then its just my life progressing in many ways.

I really didn’t think when i started blogging that anyone would find me interesting.

Im not going into my past to much in this post because its all about moving forwards not going back but I’ve always been put down and told i wasn’t good enough my whole life but I’ve worked so hard these past few months im happy its finally starting to pay off.

Don’t get me wrong im still the same old stacie i will never let ego overcome my personality.

But im less vulnerable and a lot more stronger.

Buliding a brand makes you evolve its changes your life.

In no way shape or form did i think i would ever come this far.

Im just a girl from west midlands πŸ‡¬πŸ‡§

That’s now based in Liverpool.

Growing up i wasn’t the smartest child in the class but im talented in other ways.

Between friendship and relationships people wouldn’t get to know me the real me but now people see the real me because i choose to show the real, the raw and the truthful side of me.

Your always going to get hate for doing something with your life.

But it’s better to be hated for achieving than living with regrets.

Remember no one has the right to tell you what you can and can’t do in life…

So…

And believe in yourself put the effort in and it will come back to you.

Postive = greatness πŸ‘

Negative = nothing πŸ‘Ž

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 πŸ’‹ πŸ’„ ❀️

#seashellsandlipglossblog

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Evening all ❀️

I really hope you are all OK.

Firstly I’ve been wanting to blog about this subject for a while now.

It’s all about how the more you give to people the more they take from you.

It doesn’t always mean materialistic items.

But it’s more your time, energy and emotion.

You see im a kind person i love to help others empower others.

But there are some people out there who are like emotional vampires.

They will suck the happiness right out of you.

I want to share a few steps this evening on how to spot an emotional vampire and how to deal with them.

Here we go…

1. The I’m never happy for you person.

These types of people have most annoying personality traits.

They are very rarely happy or show any enthusiasm towards anything positive about a situation or have personal goals

They are simply stuck in a state of negative thought patterns.

Never talk to these types of people about your future goals because their negativity then becomes your insecurity.

2. The Debbie downer.

I apologise to anyone called debbie im sure your not all this way..

This is a nick name i call people that are always in a state of despair.

The slightest incident sends them tumbling over the edge.

You can ask them how was your day and you get everything good the bad and the ugly before you know it your feeling rubbish and low yourself.

I avoid people like this because you will never win over this type of person only thing you will do is drain your own energy as they don’t take advice.

3. Its all me, me, me and me somemore.

Have you ever been in a situation or conversation where it’s all one sided.

So frustrating you cannot seem to get a word in edgeways.

When they finally let you speak but the conversation then reverts back to them it a massive no no to me..

A connection means equal parts give and take and respecting the other people’s experiences.

Without judgement or reverting back to oneself.

4. Moan, moan moan.

As they say if you don’t have nothing nice to say don’t say nothing at all.

We all like a good moan but for god sake that’s all some people do.

I’ve literally not got the time or the patience for people who just moan but never do anything to change the situation.

If you don’t like where you are then move your not a tree.

5.The mr loverman.

This one’s for us ladies that fella who thinks he’s fell off thors golden cloud and hit every unemotional, noncommittal tree on the way down.

The one’s that play with our hearts themselves and other women in the process are very emotionally draining creatures never under any circumstances try and get this type of man to try and commit because he won’t.

Trust me i know that’s ten years of my life i will never get back.

Im not saying people don’t have issues in life i understand fully that people go through very tough times but balance is needed in life between light and dark.

But you need to learn in life how to recharge your soul and to try and avoid situations that can be mentally and physically draining for your own soul.

Sometimes best possible outcome is to remove yourself from the situation and refrain from future contact.

It’s easier said than done but it can be done.

Don’t give someone your power or let them take over your soul.

The less you react to their emotions and negativity the less power they get from your reaction.

Love to you all 😊

Stacie 🐚 πŸ’‹ πŸ’„

#seashellsandlipglossblog 😍