Good Afternoon to you all.
I trust you are all well as can be.
I feel there are a lot of you feeling quite lost at the moment I also feel very tired and surrounded by heavy energy
Today I’m going to get straight to business and concentrate on what the universe needs to share with you all.
I would like to state that all my weekly guidance blogs are for entertainment purpose only.
All signs and elements are included take what resonates and leave the rest.
Weekly vision message
Its late evening , im sitting on a porch in an old rocking chair.
I can hear the crickets chirping , The night time Wildlife ready to come to life in the darkness.
The sun is setting , the sky is filled with an eerily orange glow.
The silence is deafening.
But my mind feels clear and my heart feels pure, with each rock of the chair I can feel emotions arising, I feel like I’m trying to get somewhere but I’m getting no where fast.
I feel fear and frustration , I’m filled with fear and regret of not following my own heart and listing to other people.
As the darkness fills the sky my mind comes to life.
Within the few minutes where my mind was clear and my heart felt pure , I found true peace within.
That’s when the universe reminds me that between the chaos, there is calm and a chance of reflection, and a chance of true happiness.
You need to remind yourself that its ok to take a break and a step back.
Tarot Card Connection
With the Moon it’s likely that emotions are complicated at this time.
The environment can be one full of misunderstandings, and not everything is as it appears. You may need to do some work to get to the bottom of things; be sure to not only ensure the intentions of others, but also understand your own emotions, desires and motivations.
There may be old attitudes, beliefs or ideas that are clouding your judgement. Many things can be hiding in your unconscious affecting your ability to accept love. Are past relationships haunting you? Have you lost faith in love? Do you believe you are unworthy of love? All of these can have profound affects on how we approach relationships. Now is the time to examine them and reveal them as they truly are.
Justice In Reverse
Justice is about karma, and if you’ve been putting forth the effort, love and romance will be coming your way. If you’ve been kind, loving and supportive, your relationships will be a mirror of what you’ve been giving to others.
If you’ve been single, your loving and positive disposition will make you especially attractive to new potential romances.
Because this card is all about the law of cause and effect, make sure you have been treating your partner fairly. Watch out for resentment and defensiveness, and ensure that conflicts in your relationships are handled with respect and trust in your other half.
Compromise and understanding is needed now. Sometimes this card is also about being tactful, and expressing your frustrations in a way that are mindful of your partner’s feelings. As long as issues hare handled with honesty and good faith, your relationship will thrive.
Five of Wands Reversed
The Five of Wands reversed meaning can be that your natural method of dealing with disagreements is avoiding any kind of conflict by getting away from that place as fast as you can.
Sometimes this can be regarded as a good thing, but other times, it may lead to a number of issues that are brewing up within you, for which you will have to address soon.
On the other hand, it can also mean that you have worked through your troubles and that you do not have any more issues to worry about.
Issues of how you deal with conflict can affect your relationships now.
If you’re in a relationship, ensure that you haven’t been bottling up your resentments to avoid conflicts that the two of you need to have a smooth partnership.
Eventually avoiding difficult conversations lead to an erosion of trust. Remember that every person has the right to their needs, and having needs does not make you any less lovable.
If you’ve been doing the hard work of expressing yourself honestly with your partner however, you may find that misunderstandings are clearing up. What were once arguments may disappear once honesty and clarity have been achieved.
Getting the devil card in your reading shows that you have feelings of entrapment, emptiness and lack of fulfilment in your life.
It might also mean that you are a slave to materialism and opulence and no matter how hard you try, you just can’t seem to shake off the feeling of wanting to indulge in luxurious living.
You might be aware that this kind of lifestyle is leading you down the rabbit hole, but you have that feeling of not having any form of control over your actions or urges.
Addiction to substances or material pleasures can also be the reason for your feelings of powerlessness and entrapment.
In situations such as these, you may feel as though you are a slave, unable to control your impulses or willpower to direct yourself towards something other than the satisfaction of these desires.
Lust and temptation are symbolized by the Devil.
There can be a sense of hedonism, and a selfish desire for gratification with this card. In less serious circumstances, it can also just simply mean a pursuit for all of life’s earthly pleasures.
There is nothing wrong in having a bit of fun, but make sure that you are not hurting others or giving them wrong impressions when you do.
If you’re only looking for hook-ups, it is up to you to communicate that with your dates. Make sure you avoid pressuring others if they decide your lifestyle isn’t something that suits them. Communication will be more important than ever now.
Alternatively, the Devil can also signal addiction, and in the context of love and relationships, co-dependency.
Over time, this can be destructive to the individuality and self of both partners. Be wary, and ensure that the two of you remain strong individuals within your relationship.
Page Of Pentacles
When we meet the Page of Pentacles, we see immediately that she is one that is ambitious and focused. She is protected, nourished, provided for by the suit whose name she bears.
Guided by it, she is deeply tied to the earth, nature, and all of its gifts.
She cherishes the body, for it too is something which is a manifestation of her element. Her diligence, ambition and loyalty drives her to quickly make plans for the future – for it is there where her focus lies.
When you meet her, she may be the bearer of news connected to all earthly and material matters. When you hear her message, be inspired as she is – lay down the foundations to follow your ambitions.
Generally, the Page of pentacles refers to the kind of energy that you need to complete all that is needed for your work.
It may point to the determination, focus and the ability to stick with a particular task no matter how boring it may seem.
In terms of work, the Page of Pentacles may signify that there are a lot of tasks you are responsible for, but your time to complete them is much too limited. This is not the time to feel stressed and overwhelmed. Assistance will be there for you, you just have to ask for it.
In relation to finances, the Page of Pentacles can refer to the reward for your hard work. For those who are investing their hard–earned money, this is not the perfect time for you to take the risk. Invest your money in a safe and traditional way – the diligence will pay you back. If you are currently experiencing a health issue, this problem may be the result of the continuous neglect. Let a professional make sure that this is not the case.
The person symbolized by the Page of Pentacles is ambitious, loyal and practical; they may often be seen as studious, but once you get to know them well, they can also be quite funny.
Their ambition and focus means that they are hardworking. They are likely to be as dedicated as they are to a lover, as they are to their goals.
Their quiet demeanour may make them hard to notice at first, compared to other folks that may be more out going.
If this doesn’t represent a person that is entering your love life, the Page of Pentacles tarot love meaning can simply signal this Page’s dedication and loyalty in your relationship.
While sometimes the relationship can lack passion and feel a bit boring, the love is there; you may only need to go out there and figure out how to inject some fun and excitement back into your romance. Try not to always put practicality before passion in the relationship and the two of you should be just fine.
The Seven Of Wands
The Seven of Wands has a similar in meaning to the Five of Wands; both cards indicate struggles after the initial fulfilment and satisfaction of an event. The Seven of Wands however is different as it is is about the struggle
The Seven of Wands has a similar in meaning to the Five of Wands; both cards indicate struggles after the initial fulfilment and satisfaction of an event.
The Seven of Wands however is different as it is is about the struggle that you need to go through to maintain your position, rather than to attain it.
This is about the difficulties we face to continue to have success. You should be ready for the competition to you defend your title, and to prove yourself. Others are going to desire the same results that you do, so you need to stay ahead of the them.
There will be challenges to the success of your project or venture from an outside source. You must remain dedicated to your desires, and with a clear purpose and effort, you will overcome them.
The overall meaning of the Seven of Wands is to hold your ground, no matter what is challenging your position.
You will need to defend this position and take a stand against those who are aiming to take your spot. There are setbacks during this time, but you need to keep fighting for your beliefs and confront those that may threaten or oppose you and your beliefs.
Bottom Of The Deck
The Empress shows us how deeply we are embedded to our femininity. Femininity could be associated with fertility, expression, creativity and nurturing among many other aspects.
It therefore calls you to connect with beauty and bring happiness to your life.
Understand yourself and get in touch with your sensuality so that you can attract life circumstances to bring happiness and joy. She is a signal that be kind to yourself, to take care of yourself.
The Empress is also a strong indication of pregnancy and motherhood.
You can look for other cards to confirm if this is truly pregnancy, or rather just an indication of a motherly, nurturing and caring attitude.
The Empress card could also mean the birth of a new idea, business or project on your life. Owing to the good fortune that surrounds this card, you can be sure that such situations and projects would end successfully in your life.
Discover and bring forth those ideas that have been clinging to you and make sure that you devote yourself towards accomplishing them.
This card is a sign that they are going to be successful, and well taken care of. The Empress, as the archetype of the mother earth, also encourages you to spend time interacting with nature, the mother of all of us.
The empress stems from the element of earth.
The person represented by this card can be loving, nurturing and caring, as has financial security or appreciative of beautiful, comforting things. Sometimes, the Empress can point to love and work coming together, either with a co-worker, or perhaps a new business venture.
When it comes to relationships, this card also heralds a stable, serious and committed relationship. Because the card also represents motherhood, sometimes it can also signal marriage or pregnancy, or at least a new family, in whatever form that means for you.
I hope you enjoyed your weekly guidance post please feel free to comment below if you have any questions or extra clarity.
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Sending Love to you all
This will be my last blog post at the age of 32 tomorrow is my birthday.
Do you even celebrate when your in your 30’s my answer to that is yes.
I’ve made it to 33 after everything I’ve been through I’ve made it.
It’s been tough lifes not been kind but im grateful I’m here and I’m alive.
What does being thirty three years of age mean to me and how will I be making changes for the foreseeable future.
After a few wobbly weeks I’ve been really thinking about myself as a person and how I approach situations.
I’ve realised that it’s time to move on from anything or anyone that’s caused me great harm.
Worst thing to do in the world of hold on to a grudge you only ever hurt yourself in the process…
The other issue I have is feeling guilty for actually living my life the way I want too and having to keep other people happy, I’m not doing it anymore so heads up people Stacie is going to do what she wants to do and if it upsets the apple cart tough..
You get to a point in life you can’t keep worrying about other people.
Keep yourself in check make yourself happy because no one else will do it for you.
I’ll always be me but an upgraded version of my old self.
I’m finding people are seeking the old version of myself but she’s just not there anymore.
I’ve made huge progress so far I’m not going to stop now.
The diet is back tommrow after a weekend of eating out and gin..
My aim is to loose another stone by end of September.
It’s achievable but I’ll need to be strict and keep active.
So what are my birthday plans well I’ll be on my own just the way I like it hopefully weather is OK.
I will head down my local beach and grab a coffee somewhere and watch the world go by.
I do have plans to see one of my best friends and my other friend at the end of September for a girlie night out with festival vibes but until then it will be hard work and dedication.
And growing a little bit stronger each day.
I hope you have a fantastic week ahead don’t let people get you down and keep smiling.
Love to you all
I haven’t published any late night blogs for a while.
I’ve been busy with life and a few things have changed for me.As life progresses we expect a lot of change, we have to expect change otherwise there will be no forward movement.
You find that where you are just isn’t enough anymore.
For me it isn’t my location it’s my actual life I’ve not been happy for a while and I’ve realised that if I keep going round on this hamster wheel I may never get off, it’s only certain aspects of my life I find I’m feeling a little stuck and undervalued.
So I’ve had to put plans in motion for change.
You can’t grow if you stay in the shade.
I’ve taken many risks in my younger years and many haven’t worked out but it was a massive learning curve for me.
Being a mum, someone’s daughter, sister and friend sometimes isn’t easy.
And to be honest I know I’ve been hard work at times.
I don’t answer phone calls, messages for days on end just way I am I live in my own little space sometimes it all gets a little to much.
Don’t get me wrong I’m a strange person I like love but also crave my own space, I can’t stand constant communication or talking all the time.
I get easily irritated by forced conversations and will withdraw and zone out if put in a position I don’t feel comfortable in.
I like people but only small group of people they will tend to be long term friendships I will only forge new friendships If I really want to.
I will literally help anyone anyway I can within reason.
But alot of people can’t take to me and my personality.
I used to let that affect the way I saw myself but now I don’t care I just let people think what they want to think.
They say when you stop pleasing others and start pleasing yourself that’s when life really takes flight.
That’s the truth your vibe will attract the right type of people to your life and repel the wrong type of people because that’s when you are truly aligned with yourself.
Now I don’t rely on anyone but myself .
I’m making things happen for myself and I will do whatever it takes to get to my own happiness.
I’m half way through writing my own book.
My blog is doing amazing
I have new opportunities all the time.
But I know down the line I will have to take more leaps of faith to see where it guides me but now I have my own back I will achieve anything.
Love to you all
Good Evening All.
I hope you are all ok , sorry i haven’t blogged a lot during the last few days but i have been taking some time away from everyday life.
Living in the North West i feel so lucky to live by some amazing places to visit.
Growing up in the West Midlands we always had to travel along way to be by the seaside now i have it on my doorstep and i feel so lucky to be where i am in this present moment in my life.
So let me tell you about my two day break and how Covid 19 impacted it.
So a few weeks ago i decided that i was in need of a break away from home life , work and daily routines just so we could try and relax and recharge and actually spend some time together.
So I booked to go to the (Vegas of the North ) Blackpool ,Lancashire ( Fylde Coast)
Its not everyone’s cup of tea i couldn’t even get my dad there even if i bribed him but its something about its traditional seaside experience that draws millions of people to visit every year.
There is plenty to do in Blackpool but I’m going to be honest unless you need to pre plan and pre book tickets to attractions , otherwise you may need a small bank loan its always best to pre book for the best deals on tickets.
During my trip the weather wasn’t fantastic was windy but I’m not complaining its a break away.
Now lets get the Covid 19 experience out the way .
I have very mixed feelings as ive worked all through the pandemic like most key workers have , we have been used to a lot of changes on a daily basis.
Anyone who is still traveling during Covid will understand what I’m about to say.
The messages are mixed and what you need to understand is that as long as you do your bit and stick within the guidelines set by the venue and location you cant go wrong of course there is a risk in doing anything in life.
Wear a mask when stated , Sanitize Hands , use track and trace guidelines for each venue that’s how you can do you bit.
There will be queuing wherever you go within One or two meter rule depending on the company policies possible temperature checks to as long as you understand the procedure’s and do your part you can still enjoy your break.
But what you all need to know is that life must go on.
Lets get on with the fun part Blackpool Attractions.
The Golden Mile is the stretch of Promenade between the North and South pier full of attractions such as…
Sea life Centre (Merlin saver pass)
Madame Tussauds (Merlin saver Pass)
Blackpool Tower and Ballroom (Merlin saver Pass)
Blackpool Pleasure Beach
Ripley’s Believe it or Not
The Dungeons (Merlin Saver Pass)
It also has a great shopping Centre full of gift shops and high street brands.
Its a short bus ride to the neighbouring St Anne’s and Lytham .
Blackpool also holds three major event’s yearly a firework Competition, Illumination’s And Blackpool Air Show.
It also hosts a modern Clean Seafront with plenty of dining out and takeaway restaurant’s .
Lets get down to where to say…
Did you know .. The resort has over 3,000 hotels, guest houses and bed and breakfasts.
Between them, they offer over 90,000 rooms, more than most other UK cities.
I found a lovely hotel around three years ago just located in central Blackpool i have to give credit to the owners of Happy Return Hotel they have worked so hard on the hotel its truly fabulous and their service is amazing to a true credit to the Lancashire tourist board.
If your looking to stay somewhere that’s a home from home in a lovely clean modern establishment then this is the hotel for you i have posted link and pictures below for you all to see but i highly recommend The Happy Return hotel.
Here are few pictures from My trip ..
I have posted links below to major Attractions Located in Blackpool.
I hope you find my blog interesting and helpful if your planning on paying a visit to the Vegas of the North that is known as Blackpool
Sending Love to you all
It’s oh so still
You’re all alone
And so peaceful until…
Good evening all.
I hope your well, so who’s ready for normal life to resume again I know I definitely want normality back.
Like billions of others I haven’t been blogging a lot because I’ve been busy working on a few things behind the scene and tbh I’ve had a few bad days I didn’t want to document them because for me it’s now about progression and moving forward.
I’m only human and I know i will still have bad days besides good ones.
My motto for August is be true to who you are and focus on yourselves. Everyone around you is on their own personal journey leave them to it and focus on you.
Apart from working on myself and my own future I would like to think I’ve made some sort of a difference to other people’s lives over the past 18 months I’ve had plenty of ups and downs but it’s honestly made me a stronger person…
My blog is going from strength to strength the amount support I receive is amazing thank you all.
I would like to say the scars are finally healing from the past and I’m actually remembering what happiness is again.
A week ago I sat down and thought about what I want from life I’ve not put a lifetime plan in place as things can change unexpectedly but I’ve made at least a twelve month plan for myself and where I would like to be a year from now…
Whilst I was going through a bad time in my life I forgot whats mostly important to me and what makes me happy just because I was always worrying about what other people thought of me and how my personal growth would affect there’s.
Now I’m just focusing on me as selfish as that sounds.
I am still a good mum and every other title I fall under of but I’m not taking to lightly on others I have to do what makes me happier.
Today I relaunched one of my passions making custom clothing it’s another bow added to my very long string.
I’m just doing what makes me happy and that’s what life’s about after all being happy, falling in love and feeling like you belong in your own skin.
What other people are doing around you isn’t your mess to clean up its there’s so your best off leaving them to it and focusing on yourself and your future.
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Love to you all
Good afternoon 😊
I’m blogging from my little piece of heaven in Merseyside.
I’ve been wanting to blog about a topic for sometime now.
It’s also a question I’ve been asked a few times and again I’ve always thrown a curve ball and avoided answering it.
I think I owe it to myself and others to give a rational answer.
It’s all about communication or lack of it.
So girls and guys I’m going to answer in the best way I possibly can and share the experience I’ve had surrounding this subject.
The question was firstly asked around February 2020 a few of my earlier readers had the pleasure to read my pain and frustration from previous blog posts.
And I do get asked a lot of questions that I can give a honest answer to but this one I didn’t know the answer because at the time I really didn’t have the advice to share.
But the question was..
When do you give up on communication with someone who just simply isn’t responding to you.
First of all I’m not going to lie it hurts like hell when you put your heart and soul into a connection and its not reciprocated.
And sometimes it’s actually nothing to do with you or anything you have done.
Sometimes it’s a situation that’s out of our control or just how the other person see’s the connection.
I’m not saying it’s fine to ignore people because that’s a pretty shitty thing to do.
But unfortunately the world’s full of shitty selfish people.
It’s all about rebuilding yourself and taking each day at a time.
It doesn’t matter how much you try and communicate with them if they don’t want to communicate back nothing you do will make them want to.
I’m sorry but that’s the truth.
I’ve done it for months waited for a message, email or a call or a follow on social media it’s never came and now I’ve learnt that a dead flower won’t grow if you just keep watering in fact you just drown it, you just need let it be and leave it alone..
Let it do its thing if it regrows amazing if it doesn’t then fine.
Crazy metaphor I know but that’s how I see it.
Whilst you’re waiting life’s passing you by and your missing out on your own growth.
So stop looking at your emails or you phone waiting for a txted, email or call to come your way….
Go your own way and if your ships finally come in great just don’t wait around for communication because time waits for no one.
So go out there live your life be amazing and if that person never calls or emails then they have missed out on an awesome connection.
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Love to you all
Evening all 💕❤️
Two blogs in one day I’m spoiling you all.
Tonights topic is all about drama and how life and people can pull you into all different situations.
It’s all about how you react to a situation.
Tonight I just want to give some clear advice this is coming from someone who’s always dealt with these kind tough situations.
Like most people I’ve had my fair share of heartache and problems some I’ve caused myself some have been caused by others.
Let’s start with me and how I have sometimes caused my own drama.
I’m an introvert I overthink everything it can cause me to have anxiety attacks if I dwell on situations for to long.
Instead of me finding a rational explanation I will act on impulse and either do something I instantly regret.
Or say something that I haven’t really thought about before saying it and then it’s too late it’s been said.
I’m also too honest which doesn’t always work in my favour.
As I get older I’m having to change my way of thinking and how I approach situations that I feel uncomfortable about.
It still doesn’t stop me shutting down and pushing others away.
That’s just my stubborn behaviour.
But im learning that not every situation needs a negative response.
Sometimes not every situation needs a reaction at all.
Now let’s talk about the elephant in the room.
Let me just say this clearly whatever you do or say to someone else you need to realise that you will never be able to control their actions or response.
You can’t control what they think of you it’s completely up to the person in question how they perceive you.
But what you are in control of is how much emotion you invest into a situation.
We as humans will never be able to fully understand each other.
We aren’t wired the same way mentally we are physically but not mentally you cannot control other people’s views of you.
Some will like you and find your personality traits amazing.
Some people just get on better than other’s.
It’s just human nature.
Some will find you annoying egotistical possibly can’t stand to be around you and everything you say will always be wrong.
You can’t please everyone.
And never try to understand why people do the things they do.
If it comes from malace my best advice would be to just simply not engage it’s not worth it leave them to it.
Don’t walk your path with hate just simply let it go.
These are karmic lessons on not to make same mistakes twice.
But never ever let anyone stop you from progressing by dragging you into unnecessary drama.
I have no time for it.
I’ve let alot go from my past I’m only ever going forward.
Remember you can’t control the person or situation but you can change how you react to it.
P. S be kind, be beautiful, be you
Love to you all.
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Afternoon all ❤️
I hope you’re all well considering.
Haven’t blogged for a few days I’ve been so busy and my life has really taken off in a way i could never imagine.
I have had to pinch myself a few times.
Unfortunately im not going on a trip anywhere but me and my friends are absolutely itching to get away for a few days in the sunshine.
Until then its just my life progressing in many ways.
I really didn’t think when i started blogging that anyone would find me interesting.
Im not going into my past to much in this post because its all about moving forwards not going back but I’ve always been put down and told i wasn’t good enough my whole life but I’ve worked so hard these past few months im happy its finally starting to pay off.
Don’t get me wrong im still the same old stacie i will never let ego overcome my personality.
But im less vulnerable and a lot more stronger.
Buliding a brand makes you evolve its changes your life.
In no way shape or form did i think i would ever come this far.
Im just a girl from west midlands 🇬🇧
That’s now based in Liverpool.
Growing up i wasn’t the smartest child in the class but im talented in other ways.
Between friendship and relationships people wouldn’t get to know me the real me but now people see the real me because i choose to show the real, the raw and the truthful side of me.
Your always going to get hate for doing something with your life.
But it’s better to be hated for achieving than living with regrets.
Remember no one has the right to tell you what you can and can’t do in life…
And believe in yourself put the effort in and it will come back to you.
Postive = greatness 👍
Negative = nothing 👎
Love to you all 😊
Stacie 🐚 💋 💄 ❤️
Evening all ❤️
I hope you’re all ok and having a nice weekend.
Again current situations that are going on mean that we are limited in life for now.
I don’t feel that life will ever be the same again and if im honest with you things needed to change we all needed a wake up call physically and emotionally.
This was definitely it.
Ive not been so chatty as of late I’ve been busy behind the scenes so to speak.
During the quietness I’ve done extensive thinking and I’ve started to put plans in place.
Ive been reading the book the secret for a while now and trying to understand the meaning of why things happen in life the way they do.
You have two options i see in life when you have been delt with bad situations.
You either let it consume you.
Or you either learn from it and let it go.
There’s is no point in dwelling on the past what is done is done.
No point keep crying over something or someone whos not crying over you.
The past twelve weeks ive learnt so much about myself and about others around me.
I’ve learnt im incredibly lucky..
And everything I’ve been through in the past has made me a much stronger person.
I know my worth, my strength, my abilities and my weaknesses.
I’ve learnt its ok to feel emotions and not feel like a complete mess by doing so.
I’ve been putting positive vibes into the..
Switch your focus to the positive and watch the game change.
Let yourself stay in fear in the presence and you will never evolve.
Im happy with my little family, my close friends, my job and my place of sanctuary i call my home.
Im lucky i know that its a blessing to have such opportunities and working hard behind the scenes keeps others guessing and keeps yourself progressing.
Always rise after you fall my biggest regret is that i didn’t find myself or love myself sooner.
But now i know my worth.
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Enjoy the rest of your evening all.
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